Does love fails?
Date: June 2,2022
Author: Sequoia"And when the time comes, that you no longer see me as your home. When the urge of getting away is stronger than the will to stay, please don't hesitate to disclose it straight to my face. I'll rather be hurt with your honesty than feel better with your lies."
'Love' nowadays is so such a terrifying thing to engaged ourselves with. One of the most deceitful yet satisfying feeling a person could ever experience in his entire existence.
One day you are so inlove, and then one day, you just woke up with nobody beside you. Feelings seems to change rapidly and several people were caught unaware.
Broken and shattered hearts are everywhere and no one knows where to start. Should I pick the pieces? Or find another person to do it for me?
Oftentimes, people tend to get more heartaches because they choose to depend their healing to other people.
But who am I to speak about all of these things anyway? I am just nobody, concluding things from other people's stories.
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The other day, a shocking news exploded in the social media about the separation of one of the most prominent and influential person in the showbiz industry here in the Philippines whom is Moira Dela Torre and her non-showbiz husband whom happens to be her bestfriend back then.
I must admit that when I saw the news, I didn't believe it instantly. I decided to stalk their Instagram accounts and saw these post from her husband.
I felt my heart breaking while reading this for I really admire this couple so much. Their lovestory was like a fairytale and you'll never think that this will happen to them.
Then the reality slapped me. No relationship is perfect. You shouldn't believe what you see in the social media because we never know what's the real deal behind the camera.
The husband cheated and he admitted it even if he wasn't caught by her wife (that's what I heard). It is really true that no matter how much you cried for that person in prayer, if he would really choose to be tempted, then you can do nothing about it anymore.
Temptation is just lurking around waiting for someone to devour. We have to stay on guard and never allow it to enslave us.
"Cheating is never an option, it is a choice that you freely choose."
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With what happened to their marriage, I can't help but overthink and be scared. I mean, what if my man would also do the same? Then again, I was reminded that just because it happened to them means that it will also happen to me. We have different stories and plots. Stop comparing your story with other people.
Loving is risky, and you really need to prepare your heart.
To all the couple out there, pray for your partner. Pray for your relationship and ask God to intervene.
You don't have to fear love. True love never fails, if it fails, it isn't love.
“[Love] always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.”
(1 Corinthians 13:7-8a)
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Dahil dyan ilalabas na ni Moira yung 10 mins. version ng Malaya hahaha. Pero kidding aside, nakakabahala lang na after marriage lang natutuklasan na may cheating na naganap. Parang di na ginawang sacred ang marriage