It's abnormal for me.

“I’m not upset that you lied to me, I’m upset that from now on I can’t believe you.”

Friedrich Nietzsche

As they would say, “what I like, you don't like.” This means “a man's food is another man's poison.” There is something we call individual differences in psychology, and it wouldn't be a surprise to see people doing something you will never do. I mean, never would you do such a thing because you find it weird, and unreasonable. But that is what makes life fun and interesting. Isn't it? Also, it is what we learn from life to live the best life.

There are many things people do that I see as abnormal, but to them, it is normal and funny enough, it's something that will keep trending. Influences have a lot to do with an individual and if one isn't careful, one would fall into a ditch trying to copy others.

We all are unique and sincerely, I truly understand that there is a reason behind every action, but wouldn't it be crazier when you listen to their reasons and you don't see why they should do it?

Ask someone why he is addicted to smoking and drinking. He will be like “it gives me inspiration.” Inspiration for what? To become a beast to your wife or start saying rubbish, thinking you are in the spirit? 😂😂😂

I have heard and read news of people doing something I will never do because it's crazy to even try it when I know the kind of individual I am. I wonder how they find pleasure doing them and still would tell you, it's life, so enjoy while it last. What's interesting in such for me?

Well, I don't blame them because we all have choices and we decide which to go for and not to go for. I remain myself and will always protect myself from what the world sees as normal but not to me.

Just like a post I read on Hive, the user said she doesn't like watching wrestling 😅 Some find it more fun and would sit all day watching that. For me, I detest watching football which I see girls of my kind finding interest in it 😬😬

But I am not going there because there is something I will never do but to others, it's a norm and there is nothing bad in it.

Wait! Tell me you aren't part of those saying cheating is a norm and nothing is wrong with it?.... 😳😳

Why would you love cheating on your partner, instead of sticking to one and be happy?

I love what this user said in another post I came across concerning cheating. He talked about womanizing because to him, he said he will never try it.

Having one woman is a headache, two women are a problem and three women are trouble.

This is the truth because I still wonder how a man would settle to marry more than one wife and still find pleasure in bringing more.

Now, tell me why people derive Joy in cheating which means sleeping with two or more people. All in the name of fun? Or do you want to prove that you are capable? I still do not get or understand it.

One question that used to drop in my mind whenever I see people doing this is that “why did you choose them then when you know you can't be committed to them alone?”

Another question would be, especially when they give reasons that they do not meet up to their expectations or taste or she is not looking good as before. The question would be “Why did you choose him or her in the first place?”

I have heard people asking if I would ever cheat or involve in extramarital affairs. That is one thing I will never do because something I can never try or even do is double dating.

Yes, when I was still in secondary school, I used to be proud of myself and would say that any man who comes into my life will be lucky because he will be the only one and never would I cheat on him, except we got separated which could only happen before marriage because I never prayed or wished for a divorce. I don't want to be a single parent. No 😩

Some girls still brag about having more than one boyfriend and I still get amazed at how they would willingly surrender their bodies for sex with different guys. That's an abomination and sin to me which they believe to be normal. As they would say “having an extra tyre would save you in case anything happens”.

My dear, whatever will happen should happen. Life moves on and one thing I am always assured of is that life will always bring the best if we could learn to forget about the past and move on.

If a guy leaves me today, then it means he isn't meant to be with me forever and so, moving on and hoping for the best to come. It's just like the saying that when someone takes his mat from you, God will place a beautiful rug instead. So, why cheat on him or her instead of sticking to the one you have and let your principle be that your cutlass only has one edge?

For me, I find cheating abnormal because when you have more than one partner and sleep with them differently, what are you? A dog just as my tribe would put it. I am sorry to put it that way but that is the truth.

Thanks for your time.

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