Complaint and Compliment.

Here is we have a relative he can lend you money, he can even will ask you he can help you with borrowing his money if needed, however. He keep everything so clean and safe. However when it comes to spending money hahaha seems like it will kill him. Another bad thing about him is he comes to our house without any knocking and even if we have special guest in our house, he comes and sits. You have shared very interesting story about your friend

I was like that guy who stayed in your house back then when I was just 18 and live in my friend's house. When I grow mature I was ashamed of what I did before..like not helping with anything in the house despite I was given shelter and food 🤣 now I am striving to do better in life and dream to at least do payback to show gratitude on that friend. I invited them to my wedding they were two. But they didn't manage to attend for some personal reasons. I still long to see them as I was once immature before and let them know how much I appreciate their help to me when I needed it back then.

In Philippines, if we go to a friend's house, and their parents asked us to eat, we might refuse and say that "we just ate before we go here" even though we're really hungry.🤣 But, your friend is really something haha

You're patient o. I can't tolerate such friends, i won't know when i will voice out. That's another level of selfishness, ahn an he does not even care about the condition of the family he is staying with and still spend on girls. It's annoying.

Hmmm, that's a very bad habit that your friend portrayed, that's one of the things that pisses me off when someone stays with me. I usually let someone like that know that they have to contribute to things in the house and if they refuse, then there will be a problem (not the violent type sha 😆)

You didn't look at his weak or bad side alone. You see both ways.

Nobody is perfect, many people go into relationship looking for Mr or Mrs perfect. But we all have our strong/good and weak/bad virtues, but we should always allow our good virtues to outweigh the bad or weak

At least, he should give you something to support the feeding or better still let him eat outside and only come home to sleep.

While reading I think of someone who is the same whom you are describing, lol. I also have that kind of friend. 😂

Nawa oo, how could someone feel so comfortable in another person's house and be feeding, and not contribute? Eyyy! So bad joor.

I can't do it. I am always shy and so, I extend my hand when I know it's for us all.

This would make me write an experience of mine tomorrow. You gave me inspiration.

At least he is good in other aspect. Lol

Most times, I do more of complimenting people than complaining them. I don't really complain my gender or my Opposite Gender

Hahha, there are really some people.like that when it comes on money,lol

gosh. if i were in your situation, then hell no, i wouldn't let abuse my kindness. i need to make him understand that he must not be selfish, especially he's just living at my house and i'm just his friend. and if he's still continued the aspect of being selfish inside of him, then should i say i need to kick him in my house right away. he should be considerate to be able to have good relationship in his surroundings. anyways, people are perfectly made as imperfect, but we can grow and make ourselves better through experiences and lessons that we learn day by day. hope your friend resolve that issue inside of him. thanku for this, i enjoy reading btw. i also laugh actually, lol.

Allowing someone to stay in your place now a days is dangerous because there are things you will love to keep to yourself but since you have a partner in the house you will be forced to play nice so that he or she will not think you are been hostile because it's your house. I remembered when a friend of mine was living with me, whenever we need to buy something in the house, she wouldn't want to contribute because she will say what if she isn't here won't you find your way and those are the ones we call friends.

For me, the biggest complaint I have towards one person, specifically my atheist friend, is how he mocked at my Christian faith and others. I mean, I respect him and his belief. He also said them, atheists, are being discriminated. But the irony is, it's him who keep on discriminating me, and my other classmates based on the personal appearance, status in life, performance in academics, and the Christian faith, and also belittle others.

The compliment I can pay to the same person is how open he is, especially when we'll have a friendly debate or discussions, he always listens to me. There are also times that it's him who wants to have a discussion about God, Christianity and the bible.

All in all, I consider him as a friend of mine. Someone, who at some point, I can relate with.

Is this so called friend still at your place. It's better to keep a distance with him no matter how much fun you both share. A friend in need is a friend indeed. Just follow this principle everything will be fine.

While reading it friend I access as to whom I could relate to it and I found one. A boardmate I had during college days. And same issues, never help out chores and never buy groceries and pay bills the difference is that we all kick her out.

No one is perfect, a defect will surely be found in one. His own defect is that of money and will surely be left like that cos that's its cross. I am happy he has got other good attitudes that override his defect.

The compliments do override the complaint. Money is his imperfection, as we all know no one is perfect. It is good you know well of him that he isn't the guy to meet with when it deals with money but in other cases, he is your best guy.

It's fine if we let someone stay in our house but in just for consideration he or she should take a share of the essential expenses like water and electricity bill.Many people same like your friend they take advantage to save more for themselves.

Everyone has a different answer to that question. It depends on our moods and situation we find ourselves. Sometimes, it turns out good and sometimes vice versa.

Wow, am the first to comment today🤣🤣..i deserve an accolade. A lot of people get uncomfortable when it comes to spending money. I have a cousin you can never find him tells you he has money. Am happy you were patient with him and didn't push him away because of his stinginess.