In love, it includes being hurt, it also includes crying and it includes hoping. Relationships also include thoughts that they might be, or that you might actually be meant to be. But, as I thought about it, I really asked myself. Why don't we just pretend that it's not hurt at all? . Why is it hard for us to let go of the person who wants to let go of us? And why is it hard for us to understand the people who want to break up with us?

Sometimes, we are filled with "Why" justifications, right? We will be filled with our own problems that maybe they just have the wrong wishes, or maybe they just have the wrong things to convey. Most of them will not say that there is someone else that they met who is better than you.

They are just trying to do their part as your partner, despite the fact that they love somebody else and they like somebody. Why that they can't tell the fact that they don't want it anymore? Why can't they just be honest and say they have someone else? For that we won't get hurt if they ever become cold in the relationship you have. The one you almost want to save because you love them, because you don't want to lose them. But what if you already feel that he has someone else? Worst, someone told you about that matter but you don't criticize it because you say, "To see is to believe.", doesn't it seem like you're fooling yourself more?

There are people who, when their partner is not able to express themselves because they are doing something, want to break up immediately because they say they don't love them anymore. The type, only in a small house will immediately sulk. I have a question, why would you sulk if you knew that his or her was busy? Like, they need to do something and they need to finish something but why are you angry? That's not a relationship, that's a relationship shit. Even me, I don't want a relationship that is nothing but that.

Since I experienced this with my ex, especially when it comes to cheating, it taught me a lot to believe when someone says or has already spoken. Because we can't always, "To see is to believe." Sometimes other people's words are very powerful, especially when they match your feelings. That's why, they say that what is in your heart is not always right because it is not your heart that decides but your mind. It's one of the things I've learned, because we can't always believe what they say or trust the words they say. We will not listen all the time, especially if you already feel something is wrong.

Whether we admit it or not, sometimes we really depend on what we want to believe. Sometimes, we think that we love them so we don't want to believe even though we have doubts about what is really true.

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AUTHOR'S NOTE

• If you already knew that something seems off, always learn to confront them. Don't be scare that they will leave you. Be scared if you lose yourself pleasing someone who doesn't care to you.