"Tiredness, Tiredness...please go away"

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"The reason they're trampling on you is because you don't have the courage to talk back", this words was said by @mommykim to my last article. After she said those words, I realized that I was too scared to stand up and fight. That I was too scared to speak up, that I am too scared to talk back.

Eversince I was a kid, I don't have any courage to talked back to my parents not until I reached the age of 16, I learn how to fight back but it ended up that to the worst way. That's the first time where my father slapped me hard, where he said that he regretting that my mother gave birth to me. Those words were still echoing to my head whenever that I don't feel okay.

The reason why I fight back, it's because they were forcing me to give all I can just to bring back the scholarship that I didn't give attention and just let it to be gone when my grades become low. It's my fault, yes.

At the age of 10, I'm already tired of all responsibilities that I am facing of even if I'm just a grade 4 student that time. I learn how to sell my family's business just to earn money every weekdays, and I used it whenever I need to pay something at school. At the age of 10, I already learned to wake up at 2am so that I can help them to finish the business that they were doing.

Those money that they were collecting, are just wasting at the playing cards or casino every afternoon, while me, I'm just inside the house and waiting for them to comeback because I have no one to talked to.

At that age, I was asking myself already if when I can feel the happiness that has no sadness, where is the happiness that will teach me to be me again.

I already mentioned to my last article that I am selling buko juice before.

Every weekdays, I was selling 30cups of buko juice where it was 10php (.1$) per cup but the commission was just 2php ($.01). My parents let me to keep the money that I earnedbduring those times. I can earned 300php or 6$ that time where I saved it to my piggy bank and I'm not touching them.


To be honest, I know I have a huge responsibilities since they were old already. But I don't know why I am too tired to go on, I am too tired to tell myself that I still can go. I'm tored to speak, I'm tired to open up, I'm tired to say what I really feel. Everything makes me feel tired, even the simplest thing makes me feel tired.

I feel like, I still have a huge responsibilities to go on and I still have a long road to go on. Even if I'm sleeping, I can't stop thinking about the future, I can't stop thinking about the possible things that I need to go through, if how I will continue to the next day, next week, next year, next decades. Or if I was still alive for the next decade, if where I will going to put all my strength for them not to drain.

I have a peace of mind here at Baguio, but it was ruined when my father called last day, all the words that he saidnto me years ago, they keep coming back to my head like it was from last day and it's driving me insane. I want to erase my existence, that's all what I can say.

Trying to be happy is okay, not until, you will feel sad again because of a small things that keep rounding above your head, where the result is you will start asking yourself why this and that happened. It's all matter, we all knownthat everything is matter.


Final Thoughts

My insomia hit me hard last night and it makes me stay awake until 5am and I slept only for like 2hours because I woke up at 7am again. This head of mine was already spinning, and I am happy because I finished all of the house thingy here at my partner's place and I am thinking to sleep so soon not until I remembered that I still need to cut a paper for her hamster. Even if I just have 2 hrs of sleep, it's still enjoyable though.

So how's everyone? I can barely visit all of your articles, I still need to renew some sponsorship to my list later at night when the connection was a bit faster already.

By the way, I wanma say thankyou @Talecharm for the sponsorship! And also for those who renew their sponsorship to me, thankyou so much 💓

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Comments

May insomnia ka pala Langga. Yung mga problema Langga bigla bigla nalang dumadating sa buhay natin. Minsan iiyak nalang tayo bigla pero kailangan nating maging matapang Langga. Kailangan natin magpaka brave.

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2 years ago

Your just too young to experienced all of this things,but you need to stand for your right,and learn to express your feelings,and do what you can,but of course,you deserve to be happy.

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2 years ago

Nalulungkot ako sa nabasa ko dito, di ko alam na at such a young age ganyan ka na nasasaktan, parang di mo naman deserve yan. Pero tama, happy tayo, happy naman talaga tayo kaso may taong sisira ng araw natin at maaapektuhan na tayo buong araw.

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2 years ago

Dapat sis level lng ang ating kabaitan. Dahil may mga taong nang aabuso

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2 years ago

In life many problem has to face. But never lose your hope ok.

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2 years ago

Even if how many obstacles I encountered in the past even if I talked back on my mother when I'm with her before. Even if how my mother put her hands on my body many times. I never experienced even single one my father touched or hurt me physically.

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2 years ago

Don't let others get to you for you will surely get tired having to please others all the time. It's time to live up for yourself.

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2 years ago

I don't mean to be so negative on what I said langga but I'm just stating the worst possible that might happen if you continue to become weak

instead, use that weakness to be strong and grow on your own...fight that fear for it's only for your own sake,,

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2 years ago

Maybe try not to answer their calls next time and try to avoid to make any contact with them even though there are your parents it's really hard for you. Especially they just give a lot pain and heart aches to you every time that you are talking or with contact with them

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2 years ago

hay nako pag ganyan vut ties mo muna sila bhie okay lang yan at valid naman ang reason mo. Tama na ung ilang taon na responsibilidad mo sila doon sainyo eh. chat mo ko kapag may time ka ha.

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2 years ago

Ramdam ko to in some ways, yung gustong gusto kong iwasan sila para naman magkaroon ako ng inner peace pero di ko magawa dahil relatives ko sila. Hayst life is so stressful talaga or maybe yung mga tao na nakapaligid satin..But laban pa din kahit mahirap. Tsaka I hope makarest ka nang maayos today.

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2 years ago

Minsan kelangan mo magstart ng ikaw lang. Hindi mo kelangan magtalk back if wala kang naririnig na masakit na salita so cut your communication with them pero alam ko na may pamangkin ka doon? Kahit sya lang makausap mo siguro okay na yun at least may mata ka pa dn doon.

Less talk, less mistake, mas tahimik pa mundo mo. Dun mo dn malalaman kung ano ba talaga ang nararamdaman ng parents mo dn sayo eventually. Hindi kita tinuturuang maging salbahe sa pamilya mo pero kelangan mong pagaanin yung puso mo sa kahit anong paraan. Baka lang dn makatulong.

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2 years ago

Pinagbawalan nila makipagusap sakin teh, pero nakakausap ko sya thru games ngalang. Hawak rin nila messenger nyakaya wala ako magawa

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2 years ago

Luh pati yun dinamay nila. Kaloka. Kapit lang bhie. Wag mo sila intindihin. Wag ka magpapalamon sa mga sinasabi nila. Kasi babalik at babalik dn sa kanila yan.

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2 years ago

Sometimes it's okay to detach ourselves sa mga taong nanakit sa'tin. Pero mas masakit at mahirap pag pamilya mismo ang dahilan ng mga pighati na nararamdaman mo. You made a right decision na lumayo muna sis.

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2 years ago

Oo nga ate eh, minsan naiisip ko tama rin desisyon ko para sa ikakatahimik ko. Baka kasi manatiling magulo isip ko kapag ganon

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2 years ago

Pag masyado ka talagang mabait, inaabuso ka lang. If ever need mo ng tutorial kung pano magtaray, I'm just here bebe. Come at your Ate anytime.

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2 years ago

Turuan moko pano manapak HAHAHAAH

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2 years ago

Why it's always depressing article that I read from you.. hmm you know what mommykim is right.. if you don't stand up for yourself no one will ever do that to you. You should be courageous to stand for yourself when you know you are right.. even if parents mo pa yan kung emotionally abusive na sila you can always talk back. You can even try to detach yourself from them for a while so you can heal yourself.

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2 years ago

Puro stressful day nanaman nitong nakalipas teh, oks naman sana pero nasimulan nanaman jusko

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2 years ago

Naku I know how hard to overcome that feeling but for sure you'll overcome that soon. Anxiety is difficult to contend but for me it's easy as long as you're steadfast in every way.

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2 years ago

Oo nga sis eh, pinipilit ko rin since kelangan. Ayaw ko rin magpatalo sa nararamdaman ko

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2 years ago

I hope that you can overcome your anxiety, I know that those bad things in the past repeatedly play on your head but I think it's better to keep ypyrslefaway first to those things who makes you worry. It's a great idea to have vacation in baguio so that you can experience your peace of mind.

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2 years ago

Gatas ka bhe bago matulog, then wag na magcp if antok na para ndi nakakalipas ung antok mo

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2 years ago

I feel so tired din ngayon ,kaka open ko lsng ng read cash wala pa ding nasulat ,nako panu na yung goals ko ,kinain ako ng tamad ngayon.

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2 years ago

Ouch, don't feel so hard on yourself, you just need to give yourself to happiness... Don't think about the words your father said or what he said when you were much younger. Life is better than this. Just be happy and smile, you really went through alot when you were a kid.

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2 years ago

Life's so hard sis, big hug to you! Laban lang everything will change just pray. For now, enjoy mo lang muna stay mo dyan sa baguio. Ingat always

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2 years ago