Be the same person Privately, Publically & Personally
Date: 23rd April, 2022
Saturday
Good morning guys. Best day to engage with you people with another sphere of life. Changing world with modified modern technology will give us a new view of life. Day by day we are engaging with new problems & solving it with our wisdom. That's very good. Human civilization has upgraded itself to the new era & handling extreme pressure perfectly. The world has learnt how to deal with problems and fix it according to the welfare of mankind. So proud of it. But here comes the pain. A pain that is on our back, among us, between you and me. It's about having different personalities. It’s about hide and seek. Who is hiding from whom and what are hidden between them? The character, the persona, the outlook of us. That is varying from person to person and even the same guy has different persona and body language. Better with society but nastier with the people he/she resides. The darker portion of life.
It seems like you are little bit confused with the topic but somehow you know the real meaning inside. Don't worry as the Devil is here to make everything comfortable for you. Allow me to explain it here, will you? So, it is all about us. We, the people who use different types of masks for different platform. We hide our darker side and pretend that nothing happened which makes our character cleaner than our imagination but deep inside we all know that our inner characters are rotten. If our ugly face once gets the light & publicity, people will be showing their rage on us. Because we are sheep in daylight but become wolf at night or maybe depends on some particular reasons or actions. I have a beautiful message for them. Be the same person privately, publically & personally.
See? Here I discussed about three parts or phases of life. 3 faces that introduce us towards everyone. Each and every face has a different story to tell and people have to understand those. We need to combine the all stories about these faces which produce the total package of us. It is a matter of regret that nowadays people have totally different persona on each faces which actually point out the real wolf among us. Let's discuss about it.
1. Private Personality: The main personality which defines a person's actual character. We cannot understand someone properly if have no idea about his/her private personality. Maybe the person you are assuming as a great man, has a darker side too. This is not my words dear. The history tells that people always have a darker face behind their good characters. You want proof? Simple. Ask any girl or check their message box. You will find out that many ugly faces are there whom you thought a good friend for mankind. Their worst desires are hidden & they come up with it in private life when they show their true colours. Private life is hidden from public & very few people may know that face. I have seen a so called patriotic, social worker person has been charged with harassing case. His chat list full of darker things which I cannot explain here. The victims were so terrified with his rage but the modern society never knew that persona of that guy.
2. Publically Personality: Come on! If I start to explain it, you people will find those persons immediately. Well, the world has introduced us magnificent cameras and lenses. And we, the people are using them to showoff. Our public figures, so called kind people are using it to showoff how much they care about humanity! Tell me a better joke than this one and I will wait. Publically when we showoff something which don't match with our actual persona, it seems fake to everyone and we are highly criticized for it. If our actual character works in totally opposite angle then it’s better to remain lazy than showing off a fake personality.
3. Personal Character: No one knows you better than your ownself. You have the abilities to judge yourself and you know how good or bad you are. You know very well which character you actually belong. This personal character is actual you. Feel like you are talking to the mirror.
When you dethrone yourself & vary from one personality from another, people will boo you more. Better you should show the actual one of yourself. Combine your personalities, be the one. Be the same person in your private life, public life & personal life.
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I understand what you mean. But I'll still tell you that we can't show the same character in those three aspects. And even if you do, people will use it against you because they know all of the things that you can do