So Many Wins In Life, But One Failure Changes My Perspective

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Writing is adding to all that, l just want to make the best piece I possibly can for all of you as much as I can and be responsible for the things that I'm responsible for. So I think having this experience is really unique and will always be the only thing I went into this year that I haven't regretted doing.. I have this very high standards for myself and I have been beating myself a lot about it.

I can understand what other people are going through, like I'm extremely privileged.. I understand it and I'm so thankful. Thankful for every opportunity but I equally don't feel entitled to anything, like the one thing that I really really hate the most is entitlement. And I think it robs us totally and steals our joy, I want people to have gratitude and thankfulness for every progress and for every failure because like I do I'm so thankful for the things I get to do...

I just wish we could be more compassionate, caring and loving towards ourselves and other people, and when there's an opportunity to get to know people don't take that for granted. Be okay with your preferences and be okay with that, understand balance... you're not a lost course if you missed your shot at doing a particular thing. What the concern should be is how to get better, by doing this be satisfied with every progress made and realize that you'd always be you. It's your ambitions, its your goals, and it's your pattern.

You begin to internally analyze the demons that wrestle with your thoughts on a day to day basis and all of a sudden comes those who begin to criticize you and your art and in order to save yourself, you applaud your pages and it hard to let go of the good works you've created. So regardless of the failure your countenance still brightens up because of the good things you've done or happened in the past and those still yet to accomplish. Can you accept the fact that you can't recreate the system, forget about what happened but simply work to be a better one next time.

You have every right to celebrate laughter in the midst of every tears and every failure... you ask me how would you do that? It's a matter of what you do believe will happen in the next week or month from now, do you anticipate something massively better or still believe you'll keep failing again and again till you run out of ideas..

So let's say I'm not trying so add to add up to something or make something better than it seems, who am I going to blame for the later course of things when it becomes too late to do them again.. what if all I needed to do was add a few better lines, better touch or better spice to it next time for me to have my win. You see a loo of drama play out in the real world and it becomes so hard to trust in yourself..

It's easy to accept defeat, yes I said that because over the first quarter of 2021 after the experience I had.. I gave up on literally everything. But did it change what had already been done, No! It didn't. So wouldn't it be nice to start over just like @HappyBoy wrote in his article to start all over than to throw in the towel. Meanwhile you had people's support, will you throw all of that away as well..

In conclusion

This topic is to make you more enhanced when you come face to face with anything, could be your career, your art and your creatives..

Thank you for reading through..

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We are all responsible for our actions and every decision we make has it's consequences including giving up. But we can always get back in the game and just keep fighting for something better than what we already have

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3 years ago

Exactly we really have to keep fighting and stay on track... there are each consequences for every decision. Good write up.

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That is the word that I am looking for today. Start over again. I needed to have the courage to start all over again than to just throw everything I have put an effort on.

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It's not too late to do that, and our second trial could really be our win... we can't throw all we've worked hard for just for a singular error.

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That's what differential we from other people, cause we never give up even when things seems to be getting harder..

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Very true, even when it's tough... there is a chance to become better.. besides only one failure shouldn't make us quit.

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Disappointments are part of life, and we should take it as normally as it is, especially the lessons that it bring :)

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Very true, if it doesn't happen just the way we want it that shouldn't stop the zeal.... we don't see the past progress only when we hit a block..

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I think disappointment ends up surrendering us a wake call that life isn't all smooth and agreeable constantly. Disappointment really assists with removing us from our usual range of familiarity and makes us consider new ideas. Now and again when we come up short at an undertaking, it assists us with thinking about a superior method of getting things done. There's so often that our Legs may be so powerless to convey us, however we ought to consistently ponder the objective in front of us, we ought to consistently contemplate the accomplishment we are yet to accomplish which must be made conceivable in the event that we move that feeble legs of ours.There's still chance that you'll win on the off chance that you don't surrender by investigating every possibility.

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I love your contribution, it really hits deep... I agree withyou that there's still a chance to be the best again.. thanks Faith

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Yes your welcome friend

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When we give up it shows how weak we are and that won't change the situation, but we should always strive for the best, we shouldn't relent at all.

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Very true sir, it wouldn't change anything... thanks Original.

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Nice words boss I think sometimes it is easy for us to beat yourselves for things that we kinda failed At forgetting that life itself is a process let’s try to embrace our mistake and tap our backs and say good job to our self. Also entitlement kills joy because it breathes expectations and when these expectations aren’t met we feel dissatisfaction so I too hate feel entitled because in all honesty nobody owes you anything

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We can be our inspiration anytime and any day... very good write up sir.. thank you Levi

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You are welcome boss 🙏

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Giving up is never an option for those who want to achieve their goals in life

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True, which is the persistent life style... this is essential to winning..

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I think failure happens to give us a wake up call that life isn't all smooth and comfortable all the time. Failure actually helps to take us out of our comfort zone and makes us think outside the box. Sometimes when we fail at a task, it helps us to think of a better way of doing things

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Failure is more of a blessing in disguise and from there we learn to be better than we already are.. good one Kushy

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I guess i've been lifted by this thought provoking nice post of yours cos sometimes, lifte to me doesnot seem what that worths it but irrespective of all that, then one would not want to slumb oneself or slide oneself into being a weakling for failure is never an excuse for not being successful

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Very true, failure shouldn't be an excuse to stop trying...

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Failure is Never the end of life, it will only give you the strength to carry on, it is now left for us to build the courage to stand up. Because you fail to learn from your failure and you refuse to stand up, that's when it will be worse for you, then your life will best be described as a stagnant water that has no value but for only impurities.

There's so many times that our Legs might be so weak to carry us, but we should always think about the goal ahead of us, we should always think about the achievement we are yet to achieve which can only be made possible if we move that weak legs of ours.

We can still retrace our steps, the mistake has been done , the only things that remains is to look for a way out , if you choose to stay in the closet, you'll live the rest of your life in regret and you'll be responsible for your predicaments because you failed to learn from your failures and you choose not stand up to begin the race all over.

There's still possibility that you'll win if you don't give up by leaving no stone unturned.

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3 years ago

I think this topic is yours already, you always have a great way to redefine a topic and add flavors to it... we must choose to learn from every failure..

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People's faith and trust for us is really a great help. It keeps us going even when we thought of giving up.

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Licking our wounds and living in self pity won't solve anything. Until we rise and do the needful, we will remain stagnant in a spot. Thanks for the wonderful piece and mention. It's appreciated.

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You're welcome brother.. the fact still remains that if we dwell on our open wounds so much it won't solve anything...

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3 years ago

Beautifully said.

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Thank you 💛

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we must accept defeats and then starts a new one. Failing doesn't mean that our journey ended, we can start a new one no matter how many times we may fail As long as we're still alive

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Through when there is life there is hope for a better tomorrow.. that's should keep us going consistently without wavering.

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Life is full of success and failures. Once we succeed in something we think we are perfect unless a failure gets our way. Some of them strive very hard to overcome failures, and for sure they win at any point of time.

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The fact that we don't factor this in place makes us feel so untouchable until failure hits hard... thank you so much.

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Starting all over is the best part,you would be given the chance the recreate a better you and do things which you didn't do before.

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We will never hit the same stone twice, so everything then becomes a blessing. Because we become better and more open

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Why don't you become a motivational speaker brother? You speak throughout the point. Impressive.

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Maybe someday, I have aspired to walk in that direction... thanks a lot for reading through

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In our daily lives we can't avoid hard times, I can't avoid to do wrong decision. But we must not stop learning from our mistakes. We can start over and over again.

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We really can't avoid it, so I will heed to your advice that we can't stop learning.

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Well, life is life and as hard might it seems, Our actions will always have consequences whether it's good or bad. Never give up your right to be wrong, because then you will lose the ability to learn new things and move forward with your life. So don't give up against any circumstances and keep fighting.

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