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The shame of being human
This is more of a cry for all the people who where never given the permission to cry. For people who where taught not to feel by people who do not love them and where taught not to feel by people who did.
It is hard sometimes because whatever it is feels normal but your world it's not. Nobody ever gave you the permission to feel, you where treated numb and then accused of being numb void of emotion just like the environment taught you to be all the time. `Check out my wonderful sponsors` You try each day not to crumble pretending not to be broken, occasional tears escaping your eyes, there is no scene sadder than hurting deep down but can't show it.
Source https://www.google.com/search?q=hurting&client=ms-android-samsung&source=android-browser&prmd=ivn&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ved=2ahUKEwjlv7Pil4nyAhWEoFwKHRl2Cj4Q_AUoAXoECAIQAQ&biw=360&bih=512&dpr=4#imgrc=SZVBHt39Fm7CGM Maybe you've been taught all your life that your emotions is a disease because sometimes showing those emotions will make you live in the shame of being human. Your emotions are not your weakness, you'd think you are weak when you feel but sometimes it keeps you alive. It keeps our insides secured because when grief comes out it makes room for life to come in. For so long you've been holding your breadth and fear that breathing will make you less than the person you are, no one cares to point you in the direction of help so "what are we to do with all this traumas or problems trapped in our bodies?."
source https://www.google.com/search?q=trauma&client=ms-android-samsung&source=android-browser&prmd=ibnv&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ved=2ahUKEwjBjozLmYnyAhVDgVwKHbYHBvQQ_AUoAXoECAMQAQ&biw=360&bih=512#imgrc=NdZKZPaVCHKAVM You need to realize that you need to be free to feel and come forth at the right time because this isn't the fist time you've felt this way and you have blended so much to restrictions. Have you always restricted your self even in your relationship or wth your peers by suppressing these feelings and struggles. God's job is not only to make you his but he uses self therapy to make you whole, only if you can let go and allow the process of healing, the process of relief, the process of permission be the path to restoration. Sometimes we cry, because of the burden of this world, it hits us deep in our hearts daily to the point of giving up, but we shouldn't allow things that happen around us stop us from coming out, from relating our problems with a solution giver, with a healer, with a counselor or even to your spouse. You would only spend a minute relating your problems and that would be all, you go back to bleeding on the inside.
Source https://www.google.com/search?q=trauma&client=ms-android-samsung&source=android-browser&prmd=ibnv&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ved=2ahUKEwjBjozLmYnyAhVDgVwKHbYHBvQQ_AUoAXoECAMQAQ&biw=360&bih=512#imgrc=NdZKZPaVCHKAVM&imgdii=x_leL5DWgx2LHM Whatever it is has to completely leave you, that is when you can be free and that is when you can allow God do his job. Your solution could just be at your side all this while of grieve and self torment, you need to believe that God can solve that problem no matter how big it may sound or look to you. Has your culture become your function to save you, the believes that no one else can know about what troubles you.
Source https://www.google.com/search?q=hand+of+God&tbm=isch&chips=q:hand+of+god,g_1:healing:S5EyR13br6Y%3D&client=ms-android-samsung&prmd=ivn&hl=en&sa=X&ved=2ahUKEwiV-puRnInyAhUqgHMKHdgjA4EQ4lYoAXoECAEQBg&biw=360&bih=278#imgrc=ZOymUuWE9MjS8M You match your self away from faith and expect to find it in pain and suffering, that shouldn't be the solution but trust the mighty hands of God to do the fighting for you. **Are you hurting?** Please believe that God sees our frustrations. And he knows our weaknesses and trust me you will be glad when the Lord turn things around for you. So right here in this moment change from being too contained to being free. Are you trying to fit, but it may look difficult..sometimes feel invisible and just wished someone will reach out a helping hand to you. You claim you believe Jesus but don't trust him, you shouldn't walk away from the father but pour out those burdens on him. God bless you. Thank you for your time. Check out other articles; Striped naked defenseless against my love https://read.cash/@King_Gozie/striped-naked-defenseless-against-my-love-was-my-interpretation-c7686b2a Tribute: staying optimistic in a pessimistic world https://read.cash/@King_Gozie/tribute-staying-optimistic-in-a-pessimistic-world-85d43a18 The clock is a snitch my friend https://read.cash/@King_Gozie/the-clock-is-a-snitch-my-friend-4af80456 Wide as the sky https://read.cash/@King_Gozie/wide-as-the-sky-a-prayer-of-the-community-dcf72968 Shooting for the limitless https://read.cash/@King_Gozie/shooting-for-the-limitless-32547dce An interview with success https://read.cash/@King_Gozie/an-interview-with-success-469807d1 Connect with the community https://read.cash/@King_Gozie/connect-with-the-community-through-paying-attention-3ce0d606 Be your favourite self https://read.cash/@King_Gozie/be-your-favorite-self-f1f2fa15 Bye for now **|29 July 2021|**
26 comments
No one is inferior but we are all same as one another. Making or inflicting pains on your someone is not the best as you never knows tomorrow. We should not walk away from God because he is solidly behind us. Crying is not the solution but believing God should be the only option
After laying it all to him we can trust him for he is able to make things right...Thank you..
Well detailed Hehehe. This is just a perfect example of life for us At times we just have to keep the balance to get things on the right track. Believe in your Lord and keep your self on the right path with the right ones at the right time.
Yes 'keeping the right track and keeping Balance' wise words sir...thank you so much
There is a say that the rich also cry, crying doesn't come when we are beaten alone. But sometimes some physiological issue or agony makes us çry.
God sees our weaknesses. He understands us even more than we do ourselves.We should keep our faith in God at the right time things we fall in place where they should be.
Thanks Queen a very solid contribution, our faith must be solid in God
Life overwhelms us which is understandable. We don't have to bottle it in. It's a release of stress if we cry. It's healthy. It's a must. You can cry it all out to God for he is always there to listen.
He is our burden bearer...bottling up kills isn't healthy at all...thank you for stopping by..
We can't be totally free if we keep holding the trauma, pain, and whatsoever in our mind. We need to let them go and move forward.. To achieve real freedom..
Letting go is very important, we become completely free. thank you ma'am...
Sometimes, we just can't avoid the fact that there are people who cannot understand us, how and what we felt inside. They were just looking upon the good deeds we have given to them for their convenience. I would say, "sometimes life is unfair." I myself always experienced the feeling of being alone and emptiness inside. Then one day, I woke up, and knowing God, He helped me to stand up again. I am like a cry-baby before, especially when I thought God will never be with me, I just realized that He was always with me all this time. And that He sheltered me with His embrace. I am then so blessed to found out how precious I am in the eyes of Jesus. Even though I am a sinner, He still openly accepted me back. I can say, I am relieved now. Even everyone will turn away from me, it will be fine. I know God will never leave me, especially if I am in need. We just need to let go all the pains and turn to Him.😇🙏 God bless you bro!😇
Thank for sharing your testimony i' m so glad to have witnessed this amazing transformation...he is always there for us even when people abandon us...i was touched by your comment God bless you renren
Yes bro! And I know, I am not the only one who undergone something like this situation bro.. Really, God is good, All the time! 😇🙏 Keep safe.☺️
I myself sometimes having a hard time in releasing all of my emotions. I don't know ,but if I want to cry, my tears won't just fall. I have to listen to a music first to release it all. Coz if I didn't, I'll be crazy with that overwhelming feelings 😨
Hahaha, after releasing you feel much more better right?....you've found something unique in music then, a good idea for some people reading this....thanks Ruffa
All life worries we need to let it go. We need a peace of mind and freedom. It makes you suffer and pain. We should practice and learn on how to be brave. Neglect all the negative thoughts and throw them away and replace a positive thoughts with prayer and to be faithful to God.🙏 God bless you sir..😇
Peace of mind very important for good living and I love what you wrote on replacing thoughts...so wonderful thanks JRamona God bless you too..m
Always be positive and keep striving no matter what happens.💪 Stay safe always sir...🙏
Thank you....stay safe too
Sometimes when we let out our frustration and let the tears flow we feel relieve. It's nothing bad to cry, it only shows that we are human.
Yes it's nothing bad to cry sometimes, we just feel free after letting it all out...thanks
People are afraid to show their emotions and express what they truly feels because it'll be sometimes used against them. Well, we grow with a mindset that showing emotions is a sign of weakness. This needs to be stop and let us all normalize it. We are humans and we have emotions.
We definitely need to show those emotions sometimes to be free as humans, and by expressing those feelings help could come our way.....thanks
I think it's all part of us, trying to hide the pain, show it, and eventually broke down. Whatever bad thing that we undergo, I think it's better to just let it go. Indeed, let us express ourselves and this expression because there's someone who will listen to us somewhere between all of this. God will always be there, listening. Love this article of yours! Indeed, let us try to be us, as a human with valid emotions.
Thank you francesca for stopping by and I so much love this...we break down when that pain is hidden in our hearts, all we need is just an expression....God can heal up our wounds.