I do think that we need to set the mindset straight and recently I was in a conversation with a friend and he was like the people around me aren’t high value and he immediately placed a label on every lady… and I’m sure most ladies would do the same when it comes to listening to their own perspective generally… but it’s fine to want to chase anything good but when it’s a good thing it also has its overall downside…

For me personally I was very very future oriented as a child and I feel like even though that could be a good thing hence me ending up where I am in such a young age, I also feel like it could be detrimental to your overall life experience. Something like talking to women, you not really going to get anything out if that other than the experience itself but I do feel the experience is what we need sometimes… Love and Logic is a serious bargain and at end of the day we have this life right here to experience and you have one chance to be you and live this exact life which you need to make the most of it thereby balance comes into play…

Me personally I’m single, I’m focusing on myself and my career but at the same time I am open to the possibility of being in a relationship when I meet the right girl but if you have the close mindset on focusing only what’s in front of you or can’t have an open mind or be in a relationship or have time for one, if you keep telling yourself that; you may miss out on that person that may take your career into the next phase, that just mean limiting your success.. Do not pitch your life into one category because you can also be limiting your success if you do so… it’s fine to have a pattern but is it a fulfilled or fulfilling path to take and does it let you have the most efficient and rewarding fulfillment when you look back over your life completely..

I’m going to need everyone’s dilemma on this, figure out your why? If you have a much deeper why you will persist through the tough times… One thing about this journey is finding passion through what you do don’t chase everyone around you away, the chances is that you don’t trust yourself to be in a relationship but it happens whereby it turned out to be toxic because both partners feel forced into it… This isn’t an advice to be in a hurry to jump into what you aren’t prepared for but allowing yourself a chance at love and don’t cast out demons who are clearly not…

You apply logic at the clear moment when you need to replace that with love and let that into every emotion… and at the same time don’t apply love when it’s supposed to be your time to shine.. it’s your story to tell and when you feel it’s the right time go for it.. There was a previous publication of mine explaining in detail being single and taking things slow, not to contradict every thing said but the grace in acceptance.. 100 percent you can deal with it differently it’s you and I can’t change that neither can anyone, most importantly your happiness mean a lot to me…

Lastly when you don’t love yourself you feel people don’t love you as much but I feel you should be able to allow people in so the more you adore yourself the more you allow people show love to you, one thing is you aren’t comfortable with it but when you do it changes everything… so not all women or men are evil people!!!! Have a nice day dear friends and if I’ve missed a lot please accept my apology…. Love you all and stay safe…

February 15th, 2022