Most of the time we never know we've actually broken a rule, what happens is that we just wake up to see a shocking news or a shocking status or a sudden kick out. "What have you really done wrong? How well did you study the rules? Did you fully implement them? Did you skip a part on purpose thinking you wouldn't get caught?"
Let me tell you a story, so a friend of mine and I went to purchase an item, it was this cheap sales going on to help people around the community. You'd know how well people love free and cheap things, it's very common cuz that's when you see like 100 people queuing to get what was sold. And they had a picnic table set with a group of volunteers, most of them where the owners of the items highlighted for purchase while some had to volunteer.
On the other side of the table was a long line of desperate customers waiting to get their various desired items. So I said to my friends who went with me let's get some material for school and they all looked at me and said No! The line is just too long and messy and they said why would they ever want to wait in line for just a few items to be purchased is left on the table. And that's when I realized that there are two ideal way to think about various kinds of people in the world, some people who see the thing that they want and some people who see the things that prevents them from getting the things that they want. I could see what I wanted but my friends could only see the line.
So I decided to shock them and went to the line, cuz I'm tall i used it to my advantage and stretched my hands picked up what wanted....many people called it cheating but I looked at it as desperation, the few people that didn't get mad at me understood my plight. So the thing is you can choose to quit but you must not choose for others too. My friends regretted their actions afterwards because I got it a lot more cheaper than them.
Most times we may need to break the rules a little to get what we truly desire, not in the case of letting it affect you. There are rules that can affect you negatively we can see an example from Readcash, it may lead to your account been spammed and you may not get your account back in like months. But some rules that must be broken for you to get to your desired goals, you might need to consider following a direct route.....change the regular, don't be determined by somebody else's guides or rules.
You can create your own rules and approach, what I mean is those rules you set can be as a guide to you. Your rules can be extreme, whereby you have no limitations and you can act towards your decisions without been told what to do or held responsible.
How can I achieve that?
You can achieve that though planning, dedication and perseverance. In as much as a barrier is in front of other doesn't mean your life should be restricted too. For my final paper I had to seat for during my final exams in high school, immediately I saw the questions i was giving I decided to go extreme. I wrote everything I knew about the topic, one question was like two pages of the answer sheet and you will be surprised that I had the highest score. Most times people settle for less because there is a rule that says write what you understand for you to pass, what if that isn't what your school teachers want to see from you.
Does it really feel easy to break the rules?
I know you've got questions like this while reading this, things could go ridiculously wrong. Like I could have been beaten up at that spot because I cut the line, i could have gotten the bad choice as well. Relating this to your life, maybe I could be rejected, maybe people will hate, maybe i will never be successful, but one thing still stands, you tried all you could and that is the greatest step you need to take to win.
CONCLUSION
Everything that has happened in your life from day one has been orchestrated by a certain rule, I think its time to design your own rules. You know your weaknesses, you know your strength, you know your level of adaptability and If at all you had missed it the first time break the rules you set again and implement another more challenging rules.
Without your support I don't really know how far I would have gone, these are great people.
Thank you for your time. 💛
I think that rules were made to live in an organized way in society. I can imagine a home without rules, the children coming and going at any time, the husband drinking juice straight from the bottle, the wife not picking up her clothes and so on, everyone making their own rules, it would be chaos. The same in society, vehicles not respecting traffic lights, is just one example. I think that if a person wants to make his own rules, that those rules do not discriminate, harm, underestimate the living of other people. I like to know your point of view on the subject. For me, what I would do, as opposed to breaking a rule, would be to get out of the routine of that rule, but without harming anyone.