In this space, this is for those who are currently single or you’re getting ready to be single like in a week or two or more and you’ve been through some tough things as it relates to your relationships or things that happen to you in life and it affects how you show up in a relationship.. this is where we’re at and it’s an important work because only you can do it, like you can come to school for four years straight and if you don’t do the work you ain’t leaving anytime soon.. the work has to be done by you and no one else….
You really don’t have somebody able to do everything for you so the first and the only step when you seek healing… What have you learned from love so far, individually you learn love from various sides and when you see that you can evaluate legit stories of anyone you admire and see how they operated and see how that touched and made an impact to you..you look at healthy and unhealthy relationship and you can know the outcome of each..
So if this person is living an unhealthy relationship you should know the suffering and pain when it gets intense.. and check out the healthy ones too..”how are these lessons showing up in the reality of today? The healing starts from evaluating and accessing every bit of information and the results you’ll getting…
What if your problem could be low self esteem and you just need to identify how you want a relationship to be.. you can talk to people and hear them out in relation to their life..and so in a healthy relationship there will be arguments and disagreements but both people will want to see it corrected and resolve this issue.. both will want to apologize and leave that lifestyle and a that’s what you want to imitate…
So the next step is to take on that style. And after determining what you need then write down them all down.. Make an investment into yourself to get good knowledge.. it’s never late to learn and you’d see how blessed you are to be filled with this understanding.. what’s your definition of Love?”
Identify the red flags before jumping in, it’s not healthy and when you can see what good from bad then your healing and evaluation starts.. and if you’re already present in one and you feel this isn’t what you planned for, you still have to learn from this same process. It will take long to but always be ready to learn and study the process then use that same idea to resolve yours..
If you feel that you can’t do that alone please talk to somebody and make sure you clarify everything… now as you look back with this new knowledge picture your brain having some sort of a note saying something positive to you and grabbing everything that says you can’t do it.. then go from that same code after reading through courses and educational books and people who spoke the truth so that you’ll know how to battle this..
So basically learn new form of knowledge and apply it, it will help you break through and also help you heal..
I hope this makes sense… thank you for reading and I wasn’t feeling too well today so this will stop at this length…
Love you all..
November 2021
Relationship has been something I have never experienced at all. Sometimes I still wonder how I could cope up until now.