I’m Protecting My Peace Before The New Year

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“You’re going crazy because you feel someone is crazy” that is just an idea to steal somebody else’s peace, and when you do that check yourselves… when you ought to get to know people better, but instead you become a plague and it doesn’t just affect the next in line but you as well. Turning the tables, you never have to listen to words that make you unhappy or make you depressed, if anyone tries to be ‘all knowing’ and sees every thing you do as always being wrong… kindly ignore and keep moving.

How about observing the person you call crazy and if you don't understand it, could be a human with feelings. Nothing is wrong when one chooses to be sensitive to the things around and vocalises it so that it makes him or her look crazy but is just being a transparent human being and has no different of feelings than any other human being has, but its just most people will never say or imagine it this way.. If someone decides to be whoever they want to be and that makes that person happy who are you to say something different..

And so this is a lesson that I learnt, “never ever like seriously never speak on somebody else situation until you are standing in their shoes and you can walk the same path like they did. It goes both ways, if someone says what you do don't make sense or always got things to say about you; how about taking up your position or taking up you blog post and watch the person’s survival instinct.”

The mindset is the problem, do not listen to people based on thirst traps.. don’t go thinking about the problem you don’t have because someone somewhere mentioned you or left a comment. It’s a season of love, don’t loose the spirit to love. Maintain your process, maintain your approach, maintain your thoughts, and even as you step into the new year let your mind be at rest. If you’re easily angered, or get upset so quickly don’t get too close to people that will trigger it.

Anyone that’s going to be a distraction, block immediately one thing that happens when we see negative comments surest like wild fire, it’s always not the disagreeing part but mostly jealousy. When someone disagrees with you, that person should apply rightful thinking to know that you also have to be heard. But when it’s on the basis of jealous, your identity is destroyed, your influence is affected, the numbers of things you achieved better is the most concern..

Let me mention a little story from years back in secondary school, there was this crazy person in my class that always take things personal when he sees you get a mark above him.. This guy will walk with you and even act like he is your close friend but will hate you when you are above him.. He will find ways to make you feel that wasn’t your effort and he was in fact the one that gave it everything.. Most times when I collect my report sheet for the term I just wouldn’t let him see it, I’m trying to maintain a good state of mind as I enter a new session.

Anyone who doesn’t want your happiness feel free to press the block section.. it will save you a lot, you want to be better and you want to be a brand new changes person.. all of this decisions should be made by you alone. Not saying critiques are wrong to take as lessons, you will notice when these things turns into envy and hate. We must learn to love and show real love to people, instead of looking for who to make unhappy why not change the way it is.

What should be your solid word or advice, believe that it’s you and not them.. Its not every friend you have that wants to see you broken, or hurt so choose the holiday friendship you keep. It’s just me though trying so hard not to listen to every negative words around me but think through deeply on what is right for me and the available advantages within my perspective..

Thank you for reading, are you making merry as I am right now?” I’m so happy for the season… I present my virtual gift to you all, something great will be coming up before Christmas so stay tuned..

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You're feeling a thorn in your flesh just because I'm better in some aspects more than you do? You could not even appreciate what I do rather than looking for a way to depreciate what I do in other to make me feel bad, sounds crazy!

You don't wanna see me happy, you derive happiness from my falls, you're dealing with nothing but a stink of hatred, forgetting that what goes around comes around.

I rather cut off the rope that will prevent me from staying happy, don't have to spare them, reject them before they oppose you and cling to those who find meaning in everything you do, those who will always make you feel happy and will always be happy when they see you attaining great thing

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Never seen anything as beautiful as these words 😍😍… every single thing is what is happening and I do wonder what’s really the problem.. our happiness is very important, nothing should ever replace that. Your words sometimes makes me see a different twist to the story..

Love you Mary

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Errrrrrrr, an interesting article deserve a good contribution ... #winks 😉

Well I chose to be happy, nothing can take it away, unless if I chose not be happy. No matter what hypocrite might do, I don't care, I move.

I appreciate you for the love you showered on me.... means a lot.

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Thank you so much… that’s the inspiration we need kicking into 2022… love you Mary

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More thanks from me to you ☺️☺️ and i love you too 😊😊

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Well done sir. To me, I prefer these kind of people. I prefer people that don't hide their thoughts or their feeling. People who always speak out whenever they are hurt or uncomfortable with a particular situation. Apart from the fact that it can make them feel better when they react this way. Studies have also shown that these kind of people can be reliable and trustworthy as they have nothing to hide from you.And when you notice that they are angry with you, you would plan how to protect yourself, unlike sine green snakes who really hate you from the bottom of their hearts but would always smile at you and pretend to be friends. I prefer honest arrogance to hypocritical humility.

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Negativity really kills happiness and peace in oneself. Choose to do what makes us happy and look for positivity in every situation.

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It kills faster and then locks up our happiness till a lot of things gets worse.. we maintain that mindset even as we cross over, we don’t want no haters or any word to change our mood.. thank you Lanie and welcome

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I agree with ma'am gertu that not everyone wants to have friendship, some just wanted to have some company to be with.

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You’re right, and we must be careful of the friendship we keep..

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Yes these has been the key. We should not engage with people that don't want how peace to regin . Just like you said we should stay away from people that says negativity in our mind. Let us all pratice these amazing way @KingGozie said. H Wishing you happy Christmas in advance ❤️🎉❤️

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It’s a must that this month will be a happy one so we must control what we listen to always.. we stay away from negativity and that’s how we stay happy too..

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I don't like judging people because I don't know what they had to pass through to be in the situation they are at the moment, I sometimes think I would have turned out the same way if I was in their shoe, so why judge? Most people usually speak ill of a person's situation but the truth is they will do worst if they find themselves in the same situation

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Like you literally just said everything… if they where placed right there trust me it will be worse… it’s better not to judge and even healthy..

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Your writings inspire me Gozie

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Thank you dear Bukky…

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I did have a lot of negativity recently that even formed a monster in my mind. Some reasons were those people I thought are my friends, but actually not. It's depressing to be backstabbed by them. But I chose to shrug it off my mind and move on. I don't need to prove myself to everyone or please them. So I rather value those who are true to me

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Ouch, I can't believe people would backstab you, but then again, people are jealous and you are deemed very successful so perhaps I understand it, but I sure as hell don't see why they would do it to you. Friends they are not!

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I love your decision, like I would literally just trust some set of people and they will choose hurt me… You don’t need countless number of friends, just the few ones that appreciate who you are and will always see you progress and want that all the time...

You’d notice a huge difference from that time and now, take care dear..

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yes people can be idiots, choose wisely who to have close around you.

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That’s true we’ve got to choose them wisely…

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Thank you for another beautiful enlightenment King gozie:-)

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I’m grateful you read through, God bless you and have a lovely weekend.

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I myself want to correct ourselves before the new year comes. Let the new year bring new color in our life. I want to leave some wrong people. I want to protect myself from everything beautifully.

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I wish to have all of this and much more, I have never wanted peace in my entire life and it starts from now to preserve me.. I hope that stays right till the end.. Have a good night dear

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Letting go is a better option for keeping your peace. Just recently, I cut my connections to the people who wronged me, people who destroyed my peace, and those who looked down on me as if I was not a person. My mind was so disturbed and distracted by all the words they throw at me. Then I realized, I should not bring them all in the new year, I should be starting on my own, leaving behind those things that damaged my inner peace. Hopefully, I could restore my mental health.

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Your words have encouraged me to even maintain myself and my peace… it’s a wonderful message. They did so much to you and even wanted to take away your peace and replace it with hurt and sorrow, but you stood your grounds and made the best decision… I love you for taking that step.

You don’t need those people in your life and they don’t worth it to be..

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Just like you I maybe need to protect my peace, it's beena long time since I'm been in tough situation where I can't find peace at all. Today, the next day I must protect my peace at all cost. Thank you.

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Our peace just be protected at all cost and you may not see that happen now but anything that could trigger anything should be avoided…. You’re welcome dear

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Oh I make merry every day. I tend to remove all negatives from my life and easily suss out people like that depicted in your article. Merry Christmas to you :)

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Thank you Tengo.. merry Christmas my friend.. that’s how I want to live my life moving to a new year.. truly those things keep us constrained..

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Thank you and keep on learning and motivated as always to write more articles so that I can read more from you. Merry xmas in advance 🤗

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Merry Christmas in addy… thank you for always coming by friend.. I also love reading yours as well cause I learn something special and new..

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Thank you 🥰

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What can I say sir it is right not to judge other people unless you were exactly in their position. It is right to block other people who cause unhappiness and does not make you grow in the process. So have a happy weekend sir. Bless you always.

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Happy new week dear… we can be sure nothing comes in our way to pull us back, but rather loose them all if we have to… to maintain sanity and to live in happiness. Thank you for a lovely contribution..

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It can be quite easy to judge someone when you haven't had to experience what they are dealing with. I learnt this the hard way

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Exactly and seriously it’s happening even till this day that you’d see a person cursing out the next person.. it’s not right to at least without having to check the background story’s

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Sooo good

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Thank you dear… how are you?” It’s been a bit long

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Not everyone who claims to be a friend is a friend. Sometimes people just want company but not friendship. Not many people know how to be friends. Merry Christmas 🎉

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I love this, not everyone in our lives deserves the spot of friendship… before the year runs out what we hear or listen to matters a lot.. thank you for the wish, hve a merry Christmas ❤️

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It's definitely true, never judge someone else without thorough findings cause there may be reason for such attitude, behavior and actions.....n there's a saying that says.. never judge the book by it cover, go deeper n you'll find out more!!!

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Very true brother, there’s so much we can’t actually see but then we easily attack or do something out of envy or jealousy.. I picked something from this that we need to dig deeper before we make conclusions..

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2 years ago

This resonates with me, not all people want your happiness we should identify those kind of people.

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Exactly.. you’ll know when it becomes too weird and now getting to a different level, when it’s been observed it’s best to ignore and keep moving.. our friends matters a lot and the people we move out with..

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It really is easy to judge people from afar. I have been a party of this too until I go close and found out that what I was assuming was false and far from the truth. We should really give people the benefit of the doubt!

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I was in this position too, even without understanding anything and then talk about the person behind.. sometimes we are too quick to react and it’s wrong.. thank you for your contribution

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That is true not all people will be happy with your success mostly they will get jealous and try to drag you down.

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That’s right, every means possible just to make that happen.. we must move past all of that to maintain the proper mindset.

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