“You’re going crazy because you feel someone is crazy” that is just an idea to steal somebody else’s peace, and when you do that check yourselves… when you ought to get to know people better, but instead you become a plague and it doesn’t just affect the next in line but you as well. Turning the tables, you never have to listen to words that make you unhappy or make you depressed, if anyone tries to be ‘all knowing’ and sees every thing you do as always being wrong… kindly ignore and keep moving.
How about observing the person you call crazy and if you don't understand it, could be a human with feelings. Nothing is wrong when one chooses to be sensitive to the things around and vocalises it so that it makes him or her look crazy but is just being a transparent human being and has no different of feelings than any other human being has, but its just most people will never say or imagine it this way.. If someone decides to be whoever they want to be and that makes that person happy who are you to say something different..
And so this is a lesson that I learnt, “never ever like seriously never speak on somebody else situation until you are standing in their shoes and you can walk the same path like they did. It goes both ways, if someone says what you do don't make sense or always got things to say about you; how about taking up your position or taking up you blog post and watch the person’s survival instinct.”
The mindset is the problem, do not listen to people based on thirst traps.. don’t go thinking about the problem you don’t have because someone somewhere mentioned you or left a comment. It’s a season of love, don’t loose the spirit to love. Maintain your process, maintain your approach, maintain your thoughts, and even as you step into the new year let your mind be at rest. If you’re easily angered, or get upset so quickly don’t get too close to people that will trigger it.
Anyone that’s going to be a distraction, block immediately one thing that happens when we see negative comments surest like wild fire, it’s always not the disagreeing part but mostly jealousy. When someone disagrees with you, that person should apply rightful thinking to know that you also have to be heard. But when it’s on the basis of jealous, your identity is destroyed, your influence is affected, the numbers of things you achieved better is the most concern..
Let me mention a little story from years back in secondary school, there was this crazy person in my class that always take things personal when he sees you get a mark above him.. This guy will walk with you and even act like he is your close friend but will hate you when you are above him.. He will find ways to make you feel that wasn’t your effort and he was in fact the one that gave it everything.. Most times when I collect my report sheet for the term I just wouldn’t let him see it, I’m trying to maintain a good state of mind as I enter a new session.
Anyone who doesn’t want your happiness feel free to press the block section.. it will save you a lot, you want to be better and you want to be a brand new changes person.. all of this decisions should be made by you alone. Not saying critiques are wrong to take as lessons, you will notice when these things turns into envy and hate. We must learn to love and show real love to people, instead of looking for who to make unhappy why not change the way it is.
What should be your solid word or advice, believe that it’s you and not them.. Its not every friend you have that wants to see you broken, or hurt so choose the holiday friendship you keep. It’s just me though trying so hard not to listen to every negative words around me but think through deeply on what is right for me and the available advantages within my perspective..
Thank you for reading, are you making merry as I am right now?” I’m so happy for the season… I present my virtual gift to you all, something great will be coming up before Christmas so stay tuned..
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December 2021
You're feeling a thorn in your flesh just because I'm better in some aspects more than you do? You could not even appreciate what I do rather than looking for a way to depreciate what I do in other to make me feel bad, sounds crazy!
You don't wanna see me happy, you derive happiness from my falls, you're dealing with nothing but a stink of hatred, forgetting that what goes around comes around.
I rather cut off the rope that will prevent me from staying happy, don't have to spare them, reject them before they oppose you and cling to those who find meaning in everything you do, those who will always make you feel happy and will always be happy when they see you attaining great thing