Developing Through A Process Of Becoming Secure Within
I know this topic might sound too ginormous, but with time you will understand every bit of my direction and how I would prefer we all handle several things that we face daily.. Every hard work deserves a price and somewhat self appreciation, mostly we feel obliged to probably spend more on a lot, we all have that moment and when there’s little to nothing achieved we still want to live the best life cuz we have worked for it..
I have materialistic ways that are rooted in insecurity and I’m sure that all of you do as well, a lot of people do and it might be based on culture or in our subconscious minds and when we believe that we are defined by the things that we have as opposed to the people we are and represent then that’s a huge problem.. How do we manage resources and what do we classify as just small spending when in that case we literally buy everything that we see..
The amount of money we spend is literally outrageous and might even be so unacceptable, this is the moment for you to do better and either we save more or learn more.. The main motive has been blinded by the things we see on media and a lot of other platforms, if we can’t get it now we will get there later and that registers complete so little things we get competed spent on buying so much just to impress the community out there and not even the critical or crucial things we ought to get..
Using Myself as an example, almost recently every time I moved my bitcoincash to fiat I end up spending everything and it’s been like this for a very long time, sometimes I would rather leave it in its crypto form to avoid unnecessary spending and what I buy really couldn’t be accounted for.. When I made a post about it on noisecash I got so many responses that had the same thing going on and some of them gave me an advice to help me through this phase, the one thing I took out of that short post is making the right set of planning..
In a short space or time all that we have is gone if we don’t wrestle with the thoughts within that says “Go get them with the small income or with your earnings” this isn’t for me to be a critic to how and what you spend your money on, properly make your investment then have some few percentage cut for your extra expenses, it will help you now and later on… At the moment with the recent release of a lot of NFTs, without proper planning one will eventually be wasteful and have nothing left to hold on to but regardless NFTs are never the wrong investment unless made by the wrong developer…
Don’t get too exposed to impress, self love is different from lost.. you can treat yourself to the best dress, the best shoe or other thing in the books and still be cautious of not compromising… Be sensible to know when it’s too much and might suffer a lot from it later on. I love you all and make sure you stay safe always.
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March 11th, 2022
Too much is unhealthy, King. In this world, everything should be in moderation.