Split After 3 Years Of Marriage

I woke up with the news that people are talking about all over Twitter. The only social media account that I regularly use is Twitter. I find Twitter very straightforward and easy to use compared to Facebook.

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Anyway, back to the first sentence, I saw that a singer/celebrity is trending. That is Moira dela Torre. Moira's voice is unique that is why I was hooked on her songs. I like her soft and calm songs. I know her because of her song and her as a judge of Idol Philippines. I do not know much about his husband.

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So, the news broke this morning that after three years of marriage, they split up. The cause of their breakup was not really disclosed like directly. The guy said publicly that he cheated on Moira. But there are many speculations that he was gay. There is nothing bad about being a gay, lesbian, bisexual, etc. as long as you are not hurting anyone. Yes, this is still a thing in other parts of the world that being homosexual is a sin. Come on, it is the 21st century already. We should also consider the feelings of others. For me, there is nothing wrong with it.

What I learned from this news.

You can not correct your gender preference/sexuality through marriage

Some people marry someone who is of the opposite sexuality just to prove that they are straight. Some, get into a hetero-relationship. It will never be a cure and the worst is, you will hurt your partner. It is nice to have someone to talk to, to be with you, but you cannot find facts forever. There will be a time that you will get tired of pretending.

Cheating is non-negotiable

This is my take on cheating. If you will cheat during the relationship, why enter into a relationship? A relationship is a commitment between two people. For me, it is non-negotiable because it is a promise and you gave your trust in the first place. It is hard to be in the situation when there are people involved already like children. So, cheating is a BIG NO!

Even if you said sorry, it will not change the fact that you cheated

It is good that you admit your mistake but it will never change the fact that you cheated. In the first place, you should not have done cheating because it is a promise. It will not mend the broken heart, it will not take back time. Before you cheat, think 100 times before doing it.

It is hard to trust these days!

The trust issue is highlighted because of this news. People now are making memes and jokes about it. What I can say is, before entering a relationship or a marriage, make sure that you know the person you want to be with for the rest of your life. Marriage is no joke. It is not a thing that when you do not like it, you will just throw it away. There are people that will get hurt outside of the relationships too!

Final Thoughts

Marriage is scary for me. Marriage is a forever commitment and that makes me scared of getting married. One day I want to get married, sure, but I need to make sure that I feel very secure and happy with the person that I want to be with forever. I am not really looking for a relationship right now but would it be nice to have someone to talk to about what happened to your day?

That is it for today. Thank you for reading. I will see you at the next one.

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Date Published: June 1, 2022

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