It's really hurt! Why he cheated on me?

What did you feel when your partner cheated on you? What are the things can make ourselves to move on?

Mostly of us can experience what we called "Cheating". It's one of the most painful in life. You can feel the heartache. You cried, tomorrow sad tears, the days after too much loneliness. Mind regretful exist.

This article is about my past relationship, why he cheated on me?

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Highschool Life...

Year back 2012, I was in a second year highschool. I'm a transferee student on that time, I came from Leyte then our parents decided to transfer other school for a personal matter.

I remembered my first day in my new school was full of excitement and a little bit of shyness. I don't have even a friends, I don't have even to talked to. So what I did I sit on the right side to wait the classroom open with my other classmates. But before that happens I asked some student there, where I could possibly get the list of names included the section am I. When we were already inside the classroom. I've met my new friends. They approached me first and they asked some questions. We talked and sharing some ideas. I used our "Wikang Tagalog" since they couldn't understand my language, vice versa, actually they were Ilonggo's.

Then until one time, someone called me and she said some teacher wanted me to talked to. So I was curious, why was it? I'm a new here? Then it was my first day, I was really confused, why am I? What was the reason for? So she requested me to followed her. When we're already here, I've met him and I was really shocked because he was my MAPE Teacher. He want me to joined the Folkdance Troupe in our school. So I was suddenly foaled, I asked him. Why is it me? Then he answered he saw something regarding of my physique that's I am a perfect one of the list of a folkdancer.

I was confused all that time, then until next day I finally said yes. So when we started the practice or rehearsal, this time I've met my co-dancers and the guy who make me fall.

We became friends, were laughing, talking and enjoying everytime we have a practice in school Multi-purpose. We're all 8 so it means 4 pairs. Until one day, I've noticed the guy he always come over beside me then he approached me. He asked me some questions because he curious at me since I am Leyteña, so he spoke a "Tagalog" not only him but all of them. He always talked to me, he always sharing jokes at me. I am happy with him but without any meaning it's only friends. Everytime he want to buy a snacks, he always begged at me to accompanied him. Until we became close friends. Honestly I don't have any feelings for him since I am the type of girl not interested in lovelife when I was in highschool.

The Confession...

After 4 months, his close friend asked me to followed him. Then I was shocked, he was there waiting for me. Then he confessed his feelings, he said when he saw me at first, he was stared at me and he was love at first sight. At that time, I don't know how to react, what I'm going to say to him. It was a shocking moment, I don't even expect. I saw his face, he was shy. Until our trainer called us to returned for the rehearsal again. To tell you the truth it was really awkward moment. Then tomorrow, he wanted us to talked so I agreed. I was shocked again, he decided to courting me. So I explain to him that I'm not ready yet, but I was amazed to him because he said that he'll wait the time that "I finally said Yes!"

It's Official Time.....

This year, I'm a third year high school and he was in fourth year. I always saw him in any activities in school because he was an officer, he was the vice president of SSG. He always joined a contest in school, he's very smart, honors student and I like the most from him, he's very fluent in English. Yes, I admit he's handsome, white skin and tall guy. Time and time, I felt something to him. So I asked myself, am I in love now?

After 8 months of waiting, I finally said Yes to him! I remembered it was a lunch break when I officially to be his girlfriend. He was very happy on that time and he didn't control himself, he was jumped off. I laughed at him because he's so cute with his reaction. But we agreed that it's going to be a secret from my co-dancers since I was shy and I don't know what will be their reactions and also we're both folkdancers. So the day came, it's our first month then he decided to tell them the truth. I remembered their reactions they were all shocked especially our trainer and they congratulate, they were happy for both of us.

Why he cheated on me?

Until such time there was a Science Camp in our school but I didn't joined the activity. He was there because he's one of the leader and he had an assistant, a girl. I think the camp, it took two days. So after the activity, it's back to normal, rehearsal again. Then after, the two of us went home together with the other co-dancers. While we were walking, some of his classmate, come over me then there's something he said that I don't understand, I don't get it. So I was curious until the two of us were left. Then that was the time he said the truth, while he was on camping he courted his assistant. The girl was his long time crush when he was in first year highschool.

After hearing those words, I don't know what I'm going to do, I really want to cry. Honestly it's really hurt, the most painful I've encountered when it comes to love. I went straight home, I didn't even say goodbye to him. I was really mad at him. When I'm home, I cried. A lot of questions snag in my mind while I'm crying. Why he cheated on me? He waiting me for so long. After all? Why? I believe him, I trust him. I didn't expect he will do that. I was deeply broken and hurt.

I'm sorry but we ended our relationship. It's my first time, a guy cheated on me. I didn't trust him anymore. My trust on him was suddenly like an air. I know it's really hurt we end up but I made my final decision.

After 1 year, he chatted me. He asked a forgiveness for all what he'd done. I saw his sincerity and I finally forgive him. It's been so long, I thought it was the right time for a forgiveness. We're friends now. I'm happy for him because he achieved his dreams and ambitions in life, he is now working in the other country.

End.

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LIFE THOUGHTS:

In a relationship, if you are already committed to someone please don't be a "Cheater". You don't know how it's hurt. You ruin someone's feelings. If there's a temptation, don't let yourself get in.

Love the person you've promise for. Shows them the importance, trust and loyalty. Love them unconditionally. Cherish all the times you've been together. Feel them the word "Luckiest". Enjoy every moments, create unmeasurable memories in life!

"CHEATING IS A CHOICE NOT A MISTAKE AND LOYALTY IS A RESPONSIBILITY NOT A CHOICE"

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Thank you everyone. I hope I give you some learnings with this article of mine.

God bless you.🙏😇