It is an eternal bond from which they can never be separated. Because, if there is one thing that should be clear to us, it is that we will always have something of our mothers. To be healthy and happy, each of them has to know how our mother influenced our history and how she continues to do so. She is the one who, before we are born, offers us our first experience of affection and sustenance. And it is through her that daughters understand what it is to be a woman and how they can care for or neglect their bodies. The bond with mothers is something very special. That is why any woman, whether she is a mother or not, carries with her the consequences of the relationship she has had with her mother. If she has transmitted positive messages about the female body and the way it should be worked on and cared for, her teachings will always be part of a guide for your physical and emotional health.
On the other hand, the decision to grow up involves cleaning up emotional wounds or any issues left unfinished in the first half of our lives. This transition is not an easy task, as we first have to detect which parts of the maternal-filial relationship require resolution and healing. On that depends our feeling of present and future. This happens because there is always a part of your being that thinks that you must give too much to your family or partner to be worthy of love. Motherhood and even women's love remain cultural synonyms of sacrifice in the collective mind.
This implies that their needs are always relegated to the fulfillment or non-fulfillment of others. As a consequence, they are not dedicated to cultivating that woman's mind, but to molding it to the tastes of the society in which we live. The bond that is built with the mother is, perhaps, the most important throughout life. However, relationships between mothers and daughters are not always positive and constructive; in fact, in many cases, certain traits may appear that highlight the existence of toxic patterns. The appearance of this type of behavior can affect the security and self-esteem of daughters and leave deep scars on their self-concept.
Of course, all mother-daughter interactions are different and conflicts between mothers and daughters are, in general, normal. However, the presence of the following patterns in the relationship and the exaggerated prevalence of one or more of them can be a warning bell that invites to review the relationship that, being daughters, has been built with the mother and seek to heal it and direct it to mutual well-being. But a factor that leaves consequences in a first trait has to do with the fact of taking away merit to everything done by the daughter. Mothers who resort to this behavior tend to make their daughters feel insignificant, making them constantly doubt their own abilities. This, in turn, can generate in daughters the belief that nothing they do will be enough to satisfy their mothers, setting off on a fruitless search for love and recognition.
Finally, without being aware of it, we transmit to our children many of our behaviors, fears and thoughts. The way we love, relate to the world and communicate, there are aspects that are too important to be taken into account. We are merely an instrument for our children to grow and develop as individual, free, healthy and happy beings. By supporting them throughout the whole process, without expecting them to fulfill our dreams and expectations, we can truly love them unconditionally. In this way we can truly love them unconditionally so that they can explore their essence and choose their own path. Without pressures or demands that restrict their freedom and the manifestation of their needs.
How is your bond with your mother or daughter?
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I have no bond with my mother never had. My bond with my children (not daughters only) is very close. I don't see any differences if it comes to gender. You receive what you invested, at least till the moment they start a life of their own.