Motivation matters most

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It’s common to hear people say to succeed in life you need to discover your talent. They believe talent alone is enough to make a man succeed and when you do something extraordinary they talk about how talented you are.

Talent is indeed needed in life but it’s a fact that it isn’t enough and can never be enough. To start with, talent isn’t something inborn (at least personally I believe that), a boy born into the family of basketballers has more propensity of being a basketballer than a boy born into a family or country where basketball isn’t that popular. The little ball watches it from time to time and rows interest in the sport. From a tender age, he practices and become so good. He goes professional and beats his peer but people start saying he is only doing so well because he is talented while others aren’t.

The tie between happiness, talent, love and Money is something constantly discussed by teachers and guidance. Ask someone why he is doing so well at what he does and see them explain the ties mentioned above. I'm not disputing the fact that the word "Talent" exists and its connotative meaning is right in some ways, but Talent can never be enough to keep one going nor is it enough to guarantee success.

What they say is that when you have a talent, it is easy to secure a job you love and you will surely be happy with the good pay that comes with it. Fallacy!

One of the notable motivations we fail to mention is Appreciation and Money. Though the former isn't as effective as the latter, it also goes a long way in giving one the extra fuel to carry on when things are hard.

Appreciation

It feels great to be appreciated. It makes us feel noticed, and that we matter.

When someone does something great, we should take a moment to appreciate them. It helps motivate them to do more great things. Being appreciated help spur one to even do better than before. No matter how good you are at doing something or how talented you are, when the needed recognition isn't gotten, you get weary and might quit.

My friend Ife said to me earlier today -

"I don't know about you but I love getting appreciated. It might just be a small thing to some people, but to me, it feels great when somebody acknowledges the things I do. It makes me feel like I'm worth something, like my efforts matter".

And that's a great feeling to have, especially when it comes to working on something.

It makes them feel good about themselves. We should also try and do the same for others, not just the people we know, but also strangers. It can make a big difference in their lives.

When the pay isn't good, it's the other ways one is appreciated that will determine if one should stay on the Job.

Monetary gain

Money is very important in the longevity of an individual at an endeavour. So many people come to love what they are doing due to the money involved. Some people go to the extent of learning what seems to be hard before just because of what they will earn from knowing it. When a worker is well paid, he will most likely stay on the Job for long.

The importance of money cannot be overemphasized but when it becomes the main drive it becomes dangerous and consuming.

It's of no surprise to see what we youths are going into nowadays all for the sake of making money. This is so because money is our sole motivator. It is and it can be one of the major motivations but it shouldn't be the only reason why we wake up each day to go about our daily activities.

When some people have financial stability, they're able to focus on other important things in life, like family and relationships, while to some it takes them alway from it. In everything we do, we need to apply moderation.

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Sometimes we don't need to be validated to know our worth. As long as you know you are doing your job properly, then it's okay. But yes, we do need some pick-me-up once in a while so we have to show our appreciation to everyone.

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2 years ago

We need to be motivated coz it helps we humans to strive harder even if we don't have the funds to achieve our goals... At least we have hope and where there is life there is hope

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2 years ago

I believe that motivation is something that we need to have everyday all over again, for as long as we can. Just like taking our bath.

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2 years ago

Talents can only be made productive with hardwork, love your article.

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2 years ago

All the features you listed are good but I think money remain the superior. Money has as way of driving the talent or input to another world.

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2 years ago

I love what you did with this .. it just shows that talent is never enough one has to put in more like Ronaldo did

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2 years ago

Money is the basic needs of our life. Mostly we are doing slavery for monetary gain. We need a world where money can't count

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2 years ago

Even sometimes I feel demotivated it gives me a conscience because no one could give a better life to myself just only me.

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2 years ago

It's true motivation is the great factor in achieving success, and mostly in financial aspect people are motivated by money.

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I believe what motivated us to earn is because of our situation. Especially when you came from a poor family like me. You are eager to work, and find sources of financial income.

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2 years ago

Having knowledge, talent, or skills without action is useless. We often need the right inspiration to get started with learning a skill or improving ourselves as well as applying our knowledge or skills to solving problems. The right motivation will give us the edge we need to create our success. We shouldn't wait for someone to come motivate us, we can always find our inspiration/motivation.

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2 years ago

Man doesn't talk about it but we do love to hear appreciation even the smallest thing will boost our confident and motivation. As for me, other people's achievement and gain is what makes me motivate more to follow them because if they could do it so I can too

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2 years ago

I always motivate myself co'z I know my family is supporting me.

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2 years ago

My motivation is my family, I don't want to be a burden to them so I choose to strive hard no matter what.

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2 years ago

Perfectly said buddy,in everything we do we need to apply motivation to be able to do better next time.

Appreciating someone's little effort gives them the courage to do better next time.

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2 years ago

My motivation is to make a difference, change life and history because I believe it is my purpose here in life.

I agree with the fact that people place too much importance on talent but it can boost one's opportunity to succeed in life.

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2 years ago

Yes you right .. happiness is every where you just need to find it ..nice article dear

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2 years ago

Like you did now. Motivated us.

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Aside from what you have mentioned , there are really lots of motivations that people are guiding or leading them to what they wanted to be or have in life. Summing up all the motivations we can name of the bottom line of all motivation is strong faith in God who is the source of everything we need in life to survive in this earth. When all motivations fail, with your strong faith in God , whom you believe is powerful , that faith in Him will move you to have things impossible be possible.

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Money is not the sole motivator... We are motivated to earn because we wanted to live .. It's our determination to live and succeed our real motivator.

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