"When you're just meant to love each other, but you're not meant to be together"

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Ghosted, means someone just suddenly disappeared or leave without saying any single word.

Sometimes we don't understand why a person needs to leave without saying a word. They leave lots of questions to ask and nobody can answer as no one knows the real reason. It's actually annoying at some point, as your time and effort get wasted. But it's also hurt to someone who feels love and been ghosted.

Yesterday while I was watching "Showtime"(a noontime entertainment show here in Philippines )one of the judge mentioned that she was once been ghosted by someone she adore.

It was actually in their "Tawag ng Tanghalan" segment, where after one of the contestants sing her song, one of the Judge named Yeng surprised everyone with her revelation about her past with one of the noontime show host named Ryan. Eventually everyone was confused as nobody knows about their past, until Yeng shares to them their past relationship.

Anyway, Yeng is a song writer and at the same time a famous singer here in the Philippines. Last 2010 she composed a Song entitled "Chinito" and it's become a famous hits during that period as everyone loves that song. Nobody knows that Yeng actually write that song for Ryan, her Chinito crush. She was inspired and motivated by the sweetness that Ryan has always showed to her even though they are million miles apart as Ryan was in Korea and Yeng was in Philippines.

They already actually meet and see each other, and that's they didn't mention yesterday if when, but they have some photo together.

At this photo they are still young, i think they are both still teen-agers.

Yeng-Ryan

Source: https://twitter.com/karylle_boba/status/1486959047148716033?t=HRjhoBTiUFteywYmMNzcqQ&s=1

Yeng says their communication ended because Ryan just suddenly disappeared. He never showed up anymore and he didn't even sent any single message to Yeng . She admit that she was hurt as she really likes Ryan and she thought Ryan likes her too. She assumed because it's always kind, caring and sweet to her, but eventually it leaves her heart broken with tear's as it ghosted her. She admit that even if you're still not officially in a relationship it's still hurts when the person just suddenly left.

Ryan depend his side, explaining that he thought that Yeng don't like him. Because every time he invites Yeng to go to a party with him, whenever he was in Philippines, it always refused to go. During that time Ryan admit that he also likes Yeng, its just he misunderstood Yengs behaviour. He even thought that because it always decline his invitation, it also dumped his feeling .

Yeng says, because that time she really don't like to attend a party, so she always don't want to go with him, but it doesn't mean she was dumping him.

Source: https://twitter.com/jrlnoee/status/1487087520303415296?t=HRjhoBTiUFteywYmMNzcqQ&s=19

12 year's later they see each other again which is yesterday, but not to continue their love story, but to have their closure.

Yeng is now happily married with her Filipino husband, while Ryan is still single.

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Closing thoughts:

Their story is a proof that if you love the person let her/him know, and have a clarification. It was better to get rejected than to regret later, as you didn't know that you actually already found the one but you let her/him go, because you were afraid to face the consequences of your fate.

Their story is also a good example that not everyone that you meet was the one that really meant for you. You just got a chance to know each other but that doesn't mean you will get a chance to love each other and be together, as it is also part of the game of our fate.

Life is full of consequences that we have to deal with, weather you don't want to take it or to leave it.

Inspired by: Yeng Constantino and Ryan Bang love story

Written by yours truly: GarrethGrey07

Lead image source: Facebook.com

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Hehe nag trending kasi sila sis at maraming nanghihinayang sa kanilang relasyon si Kelzy din may article din siya kapareha sa atin.

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2 years ago

To assume means to make an ass out of u and me and that was was an example

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2 years ago

Yes it true . It is better to get rejected than to regret later . Not everyone will fall in love with are ours we really need to be careful hmm

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2 years ago

Yeah, I totally agree. Not every one or every relationship leads to Marriage. Some are just there for us to learn lessons and go. The part of telling someone you have feelings for,,,, it works in different ways. If it's a lady that's to say it, infact it almost impossible for a lady to do that because the peradventure the guy rejects it, it'll be so painnful

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2 years ago

Sometimes, we would truly love or want someone so much, but we wouldn't know that not getting it might be a "wonderful stroke of luck". God might be preparing someone or something much better for us

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2 years ago

I was surprised about this revelation of Yeng and Ryan haha. Absolutely right because di lahat ng pinagtagpo ay itinadhana sa isat-isa. Some people come in our lives just to teach us with lesson.

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2 years ago

I heard the story behind this also ate Grace, while I am reading your title grabe ang sakit.

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2 years ago

No everyone you meet and love are meant for you . That true I have met some many people like that and it true but the story talks more about what I think .

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2 years ago

Facts! It's better you come clean with our feelings and be rejected than keeping it inside and trying to show signs because most times this signs can be misunderstood and then you feel hurt at the end. I've done same mistake. Now we are besties🙂

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2 years ago

When he assumed the Yeng doesn't like him where in fact she do. His disappearance is painful to Yeng too as she don't know what's the reason behind it.

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2 years ago

Dear Garreth, you have told a very interesting story about these two people. Many loves fail because they aren't in the same fate. And each will find their lost half somewhere else in an unexpected way...

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2 years ago

Absolutely true, mate. Sometimes people just come to you for their own seek and when they disappear they ruin the life of other person. That story was a great example for us and we should learn from this. Always find the true colours of people before attaching to them.

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2 years ago

Well said!!most of us aren't meant for each other so whenever we experience heartbreak we just need to continue with our lives and find someone who loves us.

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2 years ago

Sa title pa Lang ang sakit na for me kasi I love someone in my past pero wala eh he can only stay in my heart but not in my life

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2 years ago

This is the reason why communication is important. We always have our assumption of everything and came up into the decision we regret after. But then it is also hard to ask sometimes, hehehe it takes a lot of courage.

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2 years ago

Aww ng cute pala ng story nila ngayon ko lang nalamn hahha hala inspired pal ky ryan yung chinito? Owemji kaso yun nga late na and ang mahalaga masaya na sila even they separated their ways.

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2 years ago

I believe that every thing happens for a reason . No matter how hurt one is at the lost of a partner, with time, we will all heal. Glad they the lady found true love at the end... How's your son doing ma'am ☺

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2 years ago

I think it's very important to be close when you love. When you love someone you will want to be with them.

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2 years ago

When I read the title ate sila talaga naalala ko kase napanood ko to kahapon hihi, sayang bagay sana sila pero I'm still happy pa rin sa kanila kahit separate ways na sila now.

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2 years ago

That's interesting hehe it's your destiny thus you are not fascinated to each other but it is your fate to have with him

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2 years ago

yes it is most important to have the closure. I strongly agree with you. It is always hurting when someone leaves unspoken

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2 years ago

A bitter truth, a large pill - all difficult to swallow

Not everyone whom we like will stay with us to the end and likewise us also, we have to just let some things be and not force it no matter how painful it might seem as it might be the best thing to do .

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