You need me to survive

Hey, everyone how was your day? I am sure it's fine and was productive. Christmas is here, I am the first to talk now ooo, please start sending my gifts 🤣🤣🤣. Let's get down to business;

Forget many motivational speakers that will always tell you that you come to this life alone and for that, you don't need anyone to survive, if you place your life on this word, I bet you that you are only deceiving yourself. You need someone to survive, yes you heard me right, I repeat you need someone to survive, it can be your blood brother or sister or just your friends, to burst your head, it can be your neighbour. You actually need someone to survive.

Imagine this life with humans just created without any means of communication between them, won't it look weird and empty? Although God of all universe will surely provide another way to make it lively for us but think deep down, don't you think God must have thought about it very well and gave a means for us to communicate with each other, it would have been a boring life if we don't have all these.

What makes you bored? Is it that game that you played constantly every day or the movie you keep watching every day or what? You are only bored because you were in a position where you didn't see anyone to talk to or cheer you up. If playing a particular game bore you, did you try another one and be bored again? If yes, well it is bound to happen. But, have talking to someone bore you before? Yes, it happens but have you tried someone else and bored again? Never, talking to somewhere shouldn't bore you unless you take your problem higher than the love the person is showing to you. You need people to survive and they also need you to survive, that's how life has been programmed.

Have you gone to social media like TikTok, Instagram and other ones and you watch funny videos and you were able to laugh? Yes, it is good to do that, have you thought of it that why are they doing it all that? one of the reasons is that they need you to survive cos they know you must have been passing through a lot of things in life and you think of giving up, but their videos came to you to cheer you up and revive you again that there is still hope. You also need them to survive because they are also doing it. After all, they are also passing through difficulties and they were able to have fun in between and your loves and likes on the video make them believe people love them and wish to have more of them, this ginger them to do more and make you happy and you also did, you both needs each other to survive.

I have heard many people say I am a one-man mopol ( meaning they do things and survive all by themselves ) but this is a blatant lie, or let me say the wrong word to say. Right at that position that you are in, someone helped to reach that stage, is it your working place, someone helped you too, how did you see the advert of the work? A friend showed you right? All the rich or famous people we know today got there with the help of someone, they didn't just wake up and see themselves in that position, fine, they work very hard but it is someone that gives them a helping hand. We need each other to survive.

Presently, I know I haven't been active for weeks now here, I only came to publish and left and most times I even go for days without publishing an article but I noticed something, all the articles published while I didn't read people articles didn't receive my normal earning, why? That's because I didn't engage with other writers articles and for that, they didn't for me too. I didn't blame them but I blame myself because I have neglected the fact that I need them to survive and they need me to survive too. Well, I will take a new leave from today, I will engage as many articles as I can tonight but remember school has resumed and I won't be active that much again too. The semester is choked up already and things are getting tougher every day, presently, I have had chest pain cos of the stress of going to school from home since last week. I will move into the hostel on Sunday, It will save me from the stress of traffic and waiting for bus after a long day.

Thanks for reading my articles for today, who miss me? I have been absent for two days but I am back now, topics have started flowing on my head 🤣🤣🤣. I appreciate your time, God bless you all.

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Bye for now🥰🥰🥰.

9th December 2021.