July 28, 2021
One of the hardest lessons is letting go. Whether it's guilt, anger, love, loss, or betrayal. Change isn't easy. We fight to hold on and we fight to let go. - Mareez Reyes
Letting go of someone or something is not easy, in fact, it is the hardest thing to do. It is something that no one has taught us how to get through it or how to handle such a situation, in other words, no one has prepared us on how to deal with it. And yes, unfortunately, no one is exempted from this experience as well, whether you are an 8-year-old child or an 80 years old granny, once or more than twice in your life you will experience it.
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All worth visiting because these guys are all awesome!!!I myself have already experienced this not once, not twice but many times. And it is really not easy, especially when the person you have to let go leave you without saying a word or leave you without saying goodbye.
Moving on from a relationship that has to end is a lot easier to deal with than moving on from the loss of someone dear to you. Honestly, I can handle a lot of heartaches that come from having a wrong relationship than a heartache that comes from someone who leaves this world.
Yes, heartache from a wrong relationship is painful, because you trust the person, you love the person wholeheartedly, you fight to hold on but only to leave you in the end. You are left with the heartache that sometimes feels like it will never end. You were left devastated with the feeling of uncertainty about the things to come and with doubt in yourself. But the heartache you get from a loss is on another level. It is something that you just can't move on or maybe you can, but with my experience, I just can't move on with it though I get used to the feeling that there are some people in my life that is missing and that I'll never get to see them again or to be with them again. The grief is real. The pain is real. And the only thing you can do with it is accepting the fact that they will never be back in your life again. You will just have to embrace the thought that you have to go through life without them.
Life will never be the same after all those heartaches, after all the pain but it doesn't mean that you will stop living too. It doesn't mean that the world will stop spinning. And it doesn't mean that there will never be good things that will come into your life again.
This is the best time to love yourself more. To forgive yourself. To have more attention to your needs. I know this is easier said than done but at some point in our life, we have to let go of the people we love not because we don't love them anymore but because their season in our life has ended. Because the lesson that they need to impart to us has already been delivered. We learned to love because of them, we learned too appreciate the beauty of life because they are a part of it. So don't waste those lesson, don't waste the time just because they are gone. We can always have them in our hearts even if they are not present in our life. Life may be less beautiful because of their absence but life is still life. It is in our hands on how are we going to make it more meaningful and more beautiful.
Remember true happiness come from within and it also comes from loving yourself more, the moment you learn to love yourself more, it will also be the moment that you will be able to move on with your life. Stop wasting your life thinking of something that has been long gone, of something or someone that will never be back in your life. Accept the fact that their season in your life has ended and that you have to face another season with stronger heart and mind knowing that what and who you are now is because of the people that has been part of your life once. Do remember that you are lovable and that you are worth to be love and to love again.
Hope you can find some light on this quote from Paulo Coelho
“My heart might be bruised, but it will recover and become capable of seeing the beauty of life once more. It’s happened before, it will happen again, I’m sure. When someone leaves, it’s because someone else is about to arrive – I’ll find love again.”
Paulo Coelho
I wrote this topic because someone dear to me requested it. I hope she'll learn something from it and I hope she'll find the light that she need to be able to move on from a loss of a loved one.
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Hello there, thank you for this message. It is definitely hard to let go of something or someone who was once in your life. Though you can learn a lesson from it, it's still hard to let go maybe out of fear that you might get stuck or lose the memories shared once you decide to let it go but it will be all worth it at the end. And to the friend it was written, I hope he or she finds the strength and the peace to move forward in Jesus name. Amen