You will face many Defeats in life, but never let yourself be defeated

Life is very hard to understand. A life of someone will sometimes they will experience Fair and Unfair treatment on this world. We born in a different kind of situation of life and we don't experience the other things that other experienced by other people because life is Unfair but do we really think that Life is Unfair? If you will look to the situation, I think Life is Fair because, maybe, yes, we Don't experience the things that other people experience and you like and or want to experience because we envy or jealous to them but the outcome will be sometimes you will realize that you are blessed and thankful because you did not experience that because sometimes, we don't know the out come of that situation that we envy or jealous about will lead us to a bad outcome and make us miserable into our life.

You know, I was very disappointed. Last week, I feel down and I look like dumb because I realize one thing to this world and this is a realization that mostly, we already know the feeling of it because we experience it.

My Family Treat me better than before because they knew that I have a money

Before, they treat me as if I am not a member of their Family because who am I? I'm just a person who just stays in the room, and they think that I don't have dreams and plans for my Future.

They think and look down to me because I couldn't manage to get their expectation. They think that I'm a failure. My Aunt who really hates me a lot became good to me after Knowing that I already had $780 usd to my wallet. They already become nice and they treat me better than to my Sister and because of that, I am sad because I realize that people will just be nice to you when you are useful which is that is the saddest reality of life.

Not just my Family but also my classmates who did turn their backs to me when I need some help and comforts in the time that I am down, that I am already lost,

My Classmates did Turn their Backs when I am not at their Level

2 years ago, I did not passed to the free tuition in one University that offering free Scholarship. My Friends-All of them manage to go in to their University 1 year before that, and as of now they are already in their 4th year College. You know, I am jealous to them because they can graduate to the dream that they want to be while me? I'm just at my room. I don't know what to do because I look depressed and stressed. They did not comfort me, no one did ask if I am Fine and when I was attending to the outings at first, I manage to talk with them but after knowing that I am not studying they look down to me like I will the one who will married or had a child first and they did not even care me to drive me home like if other girls, They will drive them home just to make sure that they are safe, while as for me, They did not even care. So that's the reason why I end up sleep over to my Girl friend's house that time. After that Happened, I realize that they will never consider you as a friend when you are not at the same level like them.

And as of now, when they know that I am saving some money and I flex the amount of my savings in my soc med, They are Chatting me as if they cared and they also ask me if We can go out and treat them to this and that.

Not Just My Friends but,

Boys will also just Like you if you have Money

Yes, who cannot like girls and boys by their looks, their talents, their good appearance and all good names that you can call to praised someone right? But As for me, I am very disappointed because they will just like me because they think that I have a lot of income already. But when you are just an ordinary person without work or plans to your life, you will judge by them. Because I also experience remember before that I was rejected by the guy who I like because of this and the guy said "Why I will like a girl who even don't have a dream?" , "What I will do to that girl? Yuck!" .

But despite of all of that, Here I am now. I want to prove by those people that

someday.

I want to smirk to them because of how they treat me before and they eat what hurtful things that they said to me. I know, I am still at the stage of being successful and I am not still successful but I just want to say that I am happy because despite of unfair treatment and hurtful words that I recieved from them, I can able to prove to them that I can. I will become successful not just because I need to study but I have a lot of Option, skills, and talent that I can able to use to survive and help my Family.

To my Family, who look down and not support me before

I don't have words but right now I am being sarcastic to them not because I hate them but because of how they treat someone and It is the saddest truth and reality of life. I know, I am just a person who couldn't do but to stay at the room and think carefully for the future. I know that I am the person that lost because who can't right? Because I live in the world that I have a lot of chains on my neck. I did not study because I don't like them to control me because I'm not happy and I don't like to live by that kind of world and I'm hurt to their judgement-I am immature back then.

To my Friends who Turn their backs before,

Education? Yes, They are studying but they did not even use their Education and knowledge in the rightful manner. They are not different from me who did not study but at least for me, I know how to respect someone's status life. I don't judge and I accept them and help them if they needed my Help and I don't look to myself Higher than other people and even if I will become successful in the future, I will never forget where I start.

Look at them now, They are needed my help, they want to know where I get my salary and income and where I write but I don't help them because of how they treat me before. When the moment that I need their help, where are they? Do you think, I Look bad for what I did? Or they deserve it?

To the Boys Who want to court me but I turned them down,

I don't need someone like them. Who can't right? You can't blame me because look at them, they will just like me because of this? Well, poor them but I am happy and contented to my life right now and I am focusing to love myself, my Family, and my Mom first. If we will talk about love life, that can wait.

If They will just help me right? Because if you really Like someone, you can help them to stand up and like them by who they are. You can bot get rich when you help each other. But, then what they did do to me? They just judge me and look bad.

But even if I experienced those bad things from Realization to their Expectations and disappointment, They did still help me. Because hurtful words may be can down you sometimes BUT It can also make you brave and strong too to face all of the Trials of your Life.

Conclusion

Never Judge and look someone because they are still at the start who knows time will come and they can able to do more better than you.

Thank you for reading my Article for today! I hope that you enjoyed reading it. I'm sorry if I write again about my life and myself. I ran out of some Ideas.

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