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What would you feel after you attended to your Ex's wedding yesterday? Sometimes it is hard for us to accept that the someone you just meet is not for you. We all know that every people that we meet or comes to our life, they have their purpose to us why they come to us. Not all love stories have a happy ending just like to romance genres and novels that you read and watch everywhere and it is also the same for us. Yesterday, my Ex just got married to his lover. I just knew about it from my Grand parents because my Grandpa is a 'Ninong' or God parent of their wedding because my Ex's wife parents are friends with him. Well, it is okay for me because we are now over for how many years now. I don't even remember our memories of me being with him before. However, I don't know why I am sad I should be happy for them because finally, He find his real soulmate, his forever, his lifetime. The right girl that she can be with who can understand him, who can take care of him and I already accept that years ago that ***we are not meant to be***. My Grandma ask me if I should also go too to the church to attend because the Church is just near to my former School. But I refused because it is weird. I mean, me? As an EX will attend to his wedding to see them kissing? Laughing? And saying I DOs? Wait! Why I sound like I am bitter here? Don't think like that okay? Because i am just stating the fact that it will be look weird if I will attend to my ex wedding. But nevermind! because I go to the Church secretly without my Grandparents notice. Why I go there? Because, I just like to eat igado after. Charot I just like to watched them being happy together. I just like to watch how our dream before. If we are not just played by the cupid and the destiny, are we also getting married? should i be the girl beside him? Laughing and being happy because of the happiness that she feel because it is her best and important day of her life.
Image source: @Beatriz_perez https://unsplash.com/@beatriz_perez I don't plan to be notice by him but he noticed be in the last part of the chairs of the church it was their picture taking. He was shock because I was there. I can read his face that he wanted to tell something but I just smiled and just told him, "Congratulations!" in silence and he also smiled to me after that, I just go home. And last night, I recieved a message from him via Messenger. He used his old account. The account that he was using when we are still together. He is just saying thank you to me because I let go him. If I didn't maybe he will never meet his girlfriend-no, his wife now. I just answered him that I didn't do anthing. It was our God's plan to us and I just came to his life to learn him a lesson. It is just sad to think that we didn't end together but that's life. Not everytime we can fight our feelings. We can't changed what will happen. Anyways, that is in the past now. I am happy for them and i am happy if what my life right now. I know someday, I will become happy and find my right one too. If you are wondering if who is this ex of mine, it was my First boyfriend. We became together for 3 years. He was my boyfriend when I was 2nd year High School to 4th year high school however, we broke up because he cheat. I lied when i told you that I don't remember our memories now. I still remember the day where we broke up, the date when I caught him cheating to me, and the arguments. I am not the type of woman that can ruined the Wedding because of bitterness and do the revenge Instead, I am happy for them like I said, I am happy to my life right now. I am also glad that i set my self free to him. My Grandparents was shocked a while ago when they just knew that the groom was my Ex. When they talked with my Sister about yesterday that they attend the wedding. Well, my Sister and my Ex are schoolmates and my Sister knew that we became together before. Except to my Grand parents they didn't know because i never let them meet when I have boyfriend before lol. And they also like, "Bakit dimo sinabi samin?" (Why you didn't tell to us?) and I answered them, "Why? Di kayo nagtanong at matagal na yon so, wala naman na dapat rason para sabihin pa tsaka, Kasal na sila." (you didn't ask and it's in the past now so I don't have any reason to tell to you and they are now married." *Another reason why my mind is floating yesterday* @Eunoia*HA-HA remember, you correct my article's title. Thank you for that!* **My Previous Articles:** **Gifts that I recieved this Christmas 2021** https://read.cash/@ExpertWritter/gifts-that-i-recieved-this-christmas-2021-35517fe7 **Blogmas: My Thoughts before Christmas** https://read.cash/@ExpertWritter/blogmas-my-thoughts-before-christmas-9061f9f2 **My two Christmas Wishes** https://read.cash/@ExpertWritter/my-two-christmas-wishes-b711fe86 **A quick tour to my samsung a52 5G phone** https://read.cash/@ExpertWritter/a-quick-tour-to-my-samsung-a52-5g-phone-56dff8c7 **Yes, I can write Everyday** https://read.cash/@ExpertWritter/yes-i-can-write-everyday-5f3b81ad
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Its good to let go and move on , better things is coming way sooner than later.
Yeah I am happy now anyways. haha for sure, there was also someone for me. I don't know when but, for now I don't have plans of getting married or being in a relationship
Anyways, you have the right to choose what you want , I only say good luck whatever your decision is.
This reminded me of my ex . more than 3 yrs dn kmi nun.. After we broke up, he met his wife.. it's saddening but at the same time happy to see him happy.. Just like what you said we are not meant to be.. But you are still young dai...you can still meet your ideal one someday .
Kaya nga po ate jane. Nakakalungkot lang kasi nakakatagpo tayo ng di pala para satin hays. Tsaka opo, buti nga eh nakawala ako sakanya di ako magiging ganto or di ko maaayos sarili ko. Madami nadin nagbago saming dalawa after nung break up namin.
Hihi maybe it is really weird but I salute you ma'am, nakaya mong omatend hihi bihira lng yung nadare na omatend ng wedding ng ex. 😊 Peru OK lng yun past is past namn. Atleast nkamove on na sa isat isa at matagal narin😊
Matagal na kasi un eh second year pako noon. Tsaka wala naman na akong nararamdaman sakanya kaya okay lang. Tsaka tama ka past na un wala na kaso sakin yon ang mahalagay may BCH ako lol
Hahaha tama mas maganda pa talaga yung bch. Mas maganda mag keep ng bch keysa sa love kasi nasasaktan tayo dun eh charss lng🤣
Masasaktan din naman tayo sa BCH mas masakit pa sa break up pag bumaba lol
Haha Ou masakit pa sa break up peru pag bumaba siya mas malaki parin ang chance na bumalik siya dibah? Di tulad ng iba diyan di na bumalik Lol
There are people who are not meant for us but it's so heart warming to see them happy together with the one who's their soulmate. Ka sad naman nung 3 yrs tas ano ..aww.. Mahahanap mo rin para sa iyo for sure..or darating nalang siya bigla sayo.
HAHAHA ganyan talaga ang buhay parang life. Lol 😄 matagal ko ng tanggap. Nakakasad lang talaga kasi naeexperience natin to yung makakatagpo tayo tapos di pala para satin.
I will be better I guess hahaha although I don't have EX so I can't answer this. Do you know me?
No. I don't do you know me too? Wait, are you a filipina?
Nag-usap na tayo before hahaha hulaan mo yun
Marengskiee hahahhaa. Omg ka. Buti keribels mo yun. Pero same tayo though di ko siya ex, ang naalala ko lang is yung time na parang iniwan nya ko sa ere hahaha. Basta uie, makakahanap ka rin ng the one mo. Sana before mag end ang year 2021 haha charott
Eh tagal naman na yon HAHAHA wala naman akong naramdaman na pain nacongrats ko pa nga 😆
Hahaha pero ehhh kakaiba kasi. 😅 Di ko yata keri ang ganun haha.
Hey, I have this someone na super like ko. He's a boy, mutual kami for almost years pero ayun lang kase ilang beses konsya binasted dahil di ako nagkakagusto sa lalake. Nung nalaman ko na ikakasal nasya, masaya sa pakiramdam although medyo may kirot na diko alam baket JAHAHAAHAH. Siguro kase sya lamg yung lalake na naging kaclose ko dahil takot ako sakanila, sabi ko nalamg na siguro plan ni God un ko ipagdadasal ko nalang sila. Wish ko lang, sana matupad nila mga goals and dreams nila.
Bat kasi binasteddddd sayang yon ha, may nagpakatotoo sayo. Well, wala naman tayo magagawa ayan na eh. Ganyan talaga pananalig nalang ang magigift natin sakanila
It’s surely gonna be something hard I know and I am sure. You really tried. Kudos to your courage. And I know you were lying in the first place because scenes like that couldn’t be forgettable that easy. I pray you meet the love of your life soon
Nah, it is not hard. hahaha I am smiling while watching them there saying I do's. You got me then! 😄 HAHA thank you for praying for me.
Hmmm, naka move on kana talaga kaya ang dali sayo na umattend, nuxxx bat parang mature na bata kana dito ? Hahahaha. Yong ex ko before nong nalaman ko naman na sila na ng ate ko, diko maiwasang mainis pero yong nga madali kasi talaga akon gmag move on ee kaya wala na. Tapos di rin sila nagkatuluyan. Tapos 3rd year ata kami nalaman magkaka baby na sila ng juwa nya na bago, i was like " ah okay." Hahaha sa totoo lang limot ko na ang apelyido nya hahaha skl.
Madali lang po talaga HAHA tsaka bata pa ako meron at meron padin darating para sakin. Tsaka baket naman mature na bata ate ropang 😭 halla grabe naman bakit si ate no pa pinatis eh kayo diba at alam niyang kayo?
Grape example of Pinagtagpo pero di tinadhana lol. Well wala kasing forever, and beside people must be with someone else after you too broke, young iba nga hindi na hinihintay na mag break eh hahaha. Part yan ng buhay kapatid, talagang ganyan. Sa kasal mo invite mo naman sila ganon hahaha
Wala naman talagang forever lol. Maniniwala ako kapag nagtagal nga magkakarelasyon HAHAHAHA
The feels. Being in a relationship where you had dreamt of the future together and seeing the other person do it without you, must've hurt. It hurts. ~Manju
Sakanila. But to me, its a no HAHA Matagal na kaming wala e
Awkward nga yun ganun feeling pero I think if you separated in good terms eh okay lang n umattend sa wedding ng ex..
Okay naman na po, okay naman na kaming dalawa kahit di kami nag usap sa ayos.
Haha, Igado lng pla habol nyo:) invite mo naman sya if msy forever ka na
Charot ko lang iyon shempre HAHAHA titignan if ikakasal ako 😄
Syempre for sure ikakasal ka din🤣
Wow.. 3 years. Good thing you let him go. Surely he is not for you. You deserve someone better. 🤗
Tagal din non sya pinaka matagal kong karelasyon pero mapaglaro talaga ang tadhana . Tsaka Yes naman mare andami pang kano dito o 🤣
Awwe. That's a brave one sis! Ako, parang di ko kaya umaattend sa mga ganyan. I'll just find a way to move forward nalang talaga.
Wala naman na akong feelings for him so okay lang naman sakin gusto ko lang siya icongrats since, wala kaming maayos na usap non after break up. Pangit naman siguro if ikinasal siya tapos pag nagkikita kami sa tabi tabi accidentaly, kasi same barangay lang kami and alam ng nakakarami na naging kami nung Hs. Ayokong isipin ng iba na bitter padin ako, na masama padin loob ko ganon? hahaha
this is the same as what I feel...to be honest there is a deep sadness not because of their marriage. but the memories that we used to be together are always a burden on my mind... stay patient my friend because God will send the best for you I'm also sure about that.. not forever people who are present they will stay there is a time they will leave..
Correct! That is also what I felt . Hays, we are pretty and handsome so, we can still find some better for us
yes... believe in yourself... make it a lesson... you will definitely get what it deserves... enthusiasm
Oh I really can't imagine to attend my ex's wedding 😔
I certainly wouldn't give her that pleasure by attending my ex's wedding. I think he took pleasure in thinking that you regretted your attendance at the wedding. Maybe I'm wrong, but attending your ex's wedding is wrong! Maybe it was better for you if it was that way.