My Mom gave me a advance Birthday Gifts
There are a lot of things that i wanted to do on my birthday. Turning 22 makes me feel excited because that age is the age if when i will become an adult--officially. But...i am not excited anymore as while my birth date come nearer. I feel like all my plans and wishes vanished inside of my head because of some realizations.
I didn't expect that my Mom still insisted to give me this Gold necklace paired with earrings.
This was supposed to be her gift on Christmas but i didn't like to accept it because of it's design. It's not my taste and i also thought that this was just good for a oldies. My Grandma last night entered inside of my room and give me the familiar small box and she said to accept my Mom's gift since it's my birthday next week and so, I get it already since it's from my Mom. After trying to wear it, I am amazed because of how it's look. I admit that i finally liked this and it's makes me look as a mature woman. However, i am not still get used of wearing a necklace and earrings so i feel it weird and uncomfortable. But i think, wearing it always will help me to geg used of wearing it.
Aside from that, my Mom gave me Php 5,000.00 or $100 USD as a birthday gift. At first, I don't want to accept it because i'm old na. But she told me that, she is not there again during my birthday and she can't cook me some my favorite food so, she will just give me some money instead to buy some things that i wants or to use as an allowance going somewhere because she know that i do like to visit Baguio, City again.
After accepting the money that she give to me, i have some plans of going out. But, i don't want to obey her that i will spend the money into uneccessary things. But again, I decided to spend a little bit.
Last July 4, 2022. I Decided to order some blouse. Because, I decided to going in the Manaoag Church together with my Sister since, she haven't visit the church after her birthday.
Good thing that i have a free shipping voucher -50.00 so i only spend 8 pesos for the sf.
And here is the blouse that i ordered. I am happy because i recieved in right size, variation and good condition. But what i am worried right now is, the blouse is so maliit pala. I just hope that when i will wear it, it will fit to me.
Anyways, that is not our main topic. So, my mom give me an Php 5,000.00. She wanted me to buy some things for myself but I don't like to obey her. Because right now, our condition is not good. The Bitcoincash is dumped hard and we didn't expected it. It's sad seeing the market is red and no progress. Even though, we want to grind more, I think, therandomrewarder is not just like what or how he gives reward to us like before too.
That's why, Instead of buying some unecessary things, I decided to:
Just Visit the Church on my Birthday
I Decided to visit the home of jesus on my birthday and thank him for another life and giving me some energy and for keeping me stronger. It's been a while since when i visited the manaoag church. The last visit that i remember is when before my Sister's birthday.
aside from praying for that, I also wanted to thank for making my Family, friends and especially my Mom safe. And of course, thanking him for all the blessings that i always received until now.
Eating in Mang-Inasal with my Older Sister
After praying, I decided to spend my time on my birthday by eating in mang inasal. Because it's unli rice and the food there are so cheaper than the other food chain restaurant and of course, I can also eat using my both hand and can able to put or raise my left food to the chair. I can say that Mang inasal is the safer and comfortable fast food chain restaurant that i really want to eat/attend when i go out out.
Anyways, i decided to treat my older sis too because she also invited me on her birthday before. Going to the resort together with her friends.
After those 2 ganaps,
Keeping the remaining money inside of my pocket
This is what i want to do on my birthday. Keeping the remaining allowance that my Mom give to me inside of my pocket because i want to spend wisely.
You know, foods and things that we needs prices are increasing so I need to spend my money wisely. In case that i need to buy some foods or emergency, I do have something to use because i can't able to spend my remaining BCH as the market really breaks my heart.
Conclusion...
While getting older, I realized that recieving materialistic things that i mentioned yesterday in my previous article, is not really what i wanted to happen on my birthday. That is just a wishful thinking to make us feel happy and excite however, right now, I think it is not the right time for me to wishes some materialistic things and spend some money. I can do those things again once that i can able to accumulate more by now, saving is the most important thing to do.
All I want to recieve is a guide from above. So visiting on church is the most important thing that i wanted to do on that day. But I'm not sure if i can able to visit since, it's so very far away.
Nevertheless, whatever happen on my birthday, I'm still blessed and contented. Thanks for reading!
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I agree as we grow older we become more and more mature in terms of our decisions and plans in life, we choose to save rather than to spend since we now understand how hard money can be earned