Maybe it's so fast, that's the odyssey of life becomes a great voyage in the water flow of childhood, a journey to exploit the innocence, the tracks we walk via problematic day, the exploration, quest, and challenge of being a child to adult.-Eunoia
Tuesday, August 10, 2021. I think being in the place where we have been being a hegira of life, where we are busy how to becomes an adult and we could be pictured as one, as we forget something as we grow older and older. We have been seeking of the answer to our self yet we still insisted to make a balance between the questions and answer.
Some friend of mine in social media made talked something that I laughed at so hard yet makes me think of something that is too relevant in the way of life, the journey to becomes who we are, the flight of being fly in the skies full of something might be a problem or anything that is under the influence of media of course.
He tells me his afraid to become an adult, as we grow to become a better person we are sometimes excited to be in the state of being knowing everything, not the child who listens to everyone because they will have to say your too young to know.
When I was young I always hear those words, what is that? I ask yet the reply I always received is I am too young to know, then I evolved to my cocoon of being a child yet now I don't want to hears what I eagerly do before.
Hegira that's the thing, the culprit of all that happens in all us, the word hegira means a flight journey to someplace or anything we wanted to look at, as for me the longest voyage of my life is the flow of maturity, I thought all my bag was filled and be ready to go, going in place of my future dreams, the garden filled with the fruit of success, in the cave where at the entrance could be easily find a diamond and gold.
The dream is the ticket for the flight to maturity as some child forget they are and tend to forced themselves to becomes adult, as we wanted to just make ourself old for we skip and finish the thesis or activity in the school. Some innocent mind thinks and wishes to become mature to leave the home, the strict parents indeed.
As we go the exploration in our self we sometimes not looking at the bag we used to bring in our back.
Typically when we were going to the place where we just go for the first time what we wanted to bring? The camera will capture our happiness, documents all the good stuff, and preserved it for the next coming year as we go in the reminisce of what just happened to our hegira.
We were too busy to become adults not realizing our parents becomes older too.
This is the lost baggage we had during our journey to the dreams we loved the most, we sometimes forget that getting an adult is excitement but for some, being an adult will make them weak and more fragile. We sometimes underestimated the time that we just wanted to enjoy the life of being one and disregard that some are afraid that you left them in elders' shelter.
Maybe is really the cycle, as we were a child were excited to face adulthood than when we reach the destination of hegira of aging we somehow think we're now afraid of getting old, sound like something odd like?
We sometimes make excuses not to gives them any attention, were too busy to work so some of us had no time visiting them, some had hectic schedules so they had no time to go home for family gatherings, we were too busy to becomes adults where we don't think that someone is busy too thinking about us.
We were busy being a parent not realizing we had a son and daughter too.
The journey of being an adult is an indication we must have makes another cycle of life, we must have someone to take care of too. We begin to planed about the future of our child, that days come they need financial expenses in education we were ready to begin their own voyage.
We were too busy to track money and care for business that we have seldom seen what's going on to them, not realizing that we think we sacrificed too much but the longing of being the arms of mother or father is in the heart of a child.
We were to busy to becomes adult not realizing were still young.
The journey anywhere to end no one knows where and when, the only thing in the mind is to make all the things memorable. The quest to become adulthood is the best flight ever in every individual, we seek answers or questions, yet were too busy for dreaming to become adults we forget were still young, like me, I am too far from the reality that I am in early adult still maybe I absorb to much for not realizing I am still young.
Whatever makes us busy in our life right now, we sometimes forget something in the voyage and some could stand and think when it's over when the flight of hegira is in the climax when we were enjoying the traveling in the see of maturity we just looked in our self and questioned what if we don't forget them on the way?.
The flight of maturity is quite complex as we travel far from beyond, prepare everything and make sure you had the ticket to way back home for someone who is still waiting for your return. Have a wonderful flight toward your adulthood dreams, have a safe hegira.
Credits to Rightful Owners:
Recent:
Others:
there are people out there talaga na bus na sila sa adult life nila ..may asawa na sila may sariling pamilya..kaya minsan nakakalimutan na nilang kamustahin mga parents nila..and that is what happening to my lola and lolo...They are too occupied tp the point of forgetting that they still have parents to take care of.... Iniisip ko rin mga pangmatanda nga .kung paano ako magsalita ,gumalaw,.mamuhay...diko namamalayan ..bata pa pala ako..parang sinasakop na ako ng adulthood eh bata pa ako.😅