Why People Stays in a Toxic Relationship?
Have you even been felt to be inlove? Did you feel having a butterfly on your stomach when you first see the person you love? Can you still remember the time when your starting to give up due to toxicity in relationship? Those are the questions that will serve as our guide to emulate this article. We are all engage in a relationship, we are not that just talking about romantic but all kinds of relationship like in our family, friends, lovers, etc. The first time we enter in a romantic relationship, we feel so inlove to our partner right? Those love that we believe will last long, we enter in a relationship since we want to try if it will work, somesuccesfully work and couple manage to know each other as time goes by but there are relationship that became toxic since both parties are arguing everyday, there's a third party issue and disloyalty.
Inside our homes there's also a relationship formed to our parents, siblings, and even relatives. There are times that there's a fight inside the house specially between siblings and it's normal however there are instances that it's already toxic inside the house, the feeling that you came from the job then suddenly you will receive a thousand rants that will make you irritate since your exhausted and need to take a rest. There are also times that it's already a toxic inside the house when you are the only one moving inside the house, doing the chores, earning money for them, buying necessities such as food, water and you even cargo the bills but all your family members doing nothing but to watch television everyday, clicking on their phones, their routine is to sleep, social media, eat then go back to sleep.
Once you confronted them they are the one who's getting mad, in the eyes of them you are the antagonist of their story. We can also relate this to our friends, at first we are so happy to gain lots of friends since we believe that the more the merrier but little did we know is, the more friends we have the more toxicity will be. We can't distuigish if our friends are true or not. You won't realize that you've been backstab and there's already fake rumors spread about you. They will show you a beautiful smile when your in front of them but silently mocking you.
There are reasons why people prefer to stay in a relationship though they knew the fact that it's already toxic. When it comes to romantic relationship with our partner, we already knew that everything is already toxic, our partner is making inappropriate actions and have third party, they don't love us anymore but we prefer to neglect those things cause we love them so much. We are afraid that they will leave us that's why we are fooling ourselves that everything is still working, that everything is still healthy even though you are betrayed many times. It's not a love already, don't know why people like this are existing, maybe they just want to be not alone.
When it comes to family, sometimes we encountered so much toxicity but in the end we prefer to endure those toxic environments since you promised to help your family, you promised to make their life better and your willing to sacrifice for their betterment. There's a mindset of them that in the end family is always a family. There's also a belief that your family will be proud of what your doing even though the scenarios are different from what you've imagined. When it comes to our friends, the one reason why we stayed in a relationship even if it's toxic is, we don't want to lose a friend, we want someone to called companion and we are afraid to lose them cause there's already memories been built but everything is already toxic.
You've been deceived and backstab many times but you still neglect those things and and hanging out with them. I will also add additional information about family, there's a mother pr a father who doesn't want to give up the relationship even though their husband or wife is convicted having third party, they don't want to get separated with their husband or wife since they are thinking about their children, they want to have a complete family even though their husband or wife have already an affair. Those reasoning are all immature and not acceptable, if you knew that the relationship is already toxic then why you shouldn't but the ties. If you stayed on that relationship then you'd just fooling yourself. There's nothing wrong in cutting ties since it's not healthy to continue the relationship that already ruined. Sometimes we need to think what would be the result if we pursue those toxicity since we are the one who will suffer from our decisions.
isa sa rason ko dati kung bakit tiniis ko kahit toxic na yung relationship is I was tired of starting all over again.Hanap ng jowa,adjustmen period ,kakapagod din naman lagi nalang mgsisimula ako ulit pero nalet go ko rin siya dahil mas pinili kong ipriority yung anak ko over him.