Motherhood transform me to a...
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This past few days I felt tired and feels unmotivated I don't know why ,I keep my self busy watching videos in tiktok that can't give me any cents ,I already failed to achieve one of my goals which is to read 20articles per day or more,I only can read 5-10 and felt tired ,my eyes started to pain and a teary eyes I had since last day maybe its because of too much exposure of phone ,so now I was trying not to expose too much but I can't do it ,it seems my self are always wanted to have phone in my hand .Hopefully this coming days ,I can read more articles here .
Anyway lets proceed to the topic now ,everything in me was change when I became a mother ,my physical appearance ,my perspective in life was change also ,a lot of things was change and I m happy to share this to you what motherhood gives a transformation to my self.
I became a doctor and nurse
Since day one that I became a mother ,I am nursing my baby ,I am the one who took good care of them ,give what they needs especially the uncondition love should a mother can give to a child.Everytime my kids are sick but those mild illness that I can find remedies for it ,I suddenly became a doctor ,I do research for some alternative herbal medicines for my kids illness and I always do promises to them that they were going to be fine.And last night my kids are having a cough and colds ,maybe its because the suddenly change of the weather it was very hot in the morning but suddenly rained at the afternoon ,my kids and my niece was having a cough and colds and I give my kids a medicine for cough and colds but they did'nt fine quickly so I tried some remedies like giving them a warm drinking water with oregano and I was trying also the onion .I saw this on facebook and I tried this and it works ,my son can't sleep well ,he will wake up because of clogged nose and I massage his back with liniment oil ,then put a slice onion in his pillow and thanks God he was able to sleep well.If they had a fever also ,I put a slice onion on their socks coz it said that it will help the fever goes down.If they get wound ,I am here to rescue them all the time and give them a medication and I was happy that so far my kids don't have any serious illness that need to confine,I always pray that it won't happen coz I know how hard go be confined at the hospital thats why I ll do my best as mom to protect them and take good care of them.
I became a chef
Even before I already know how to cook but its quite different now coz I am cooking a healthy delicious food for my kids ,sometimes I made an experiment to made them to eat without their knowing that it was a vegetable.I made and cooked whatever their request as long as I have money for it and of course if its healthy for them but as a mom I find ways to give them a healthy food.Just like noodles ,my son loves to eats instant noodles which he saw it from his cousin and I know its not healthy and as a chef mom I find ways to make it healthier food for them,I add some malunggay and other leafy vegetable like sweet potato tops,kangkong ,petchay on instant noodles and egg ,see what I can do for them .One time I prepared our breakfast and after preparing the table I called my husband and our son but I did'nt ate with them coz I continue doing the laundry while my baby was sleeping and I heard their conversation ,my son said "papa the food is yummy,mama cooked yummy food for us " then my husband answered "your mama is the best mama right? Yes thats true papa ,mama is the best" my son answered.I am happy that they appreciate what I did to them.
A housekeeper
Having a toddler was having a messy house always ,when they fall asleep its the best time that I cleaned their mess ,I tried to teach my kids to clean up their mess but they can't do all the time ,so as a mom ,I'll do anything for them ,cleaned their mess after they are having fun from ,I let them play and make mess as long as they are having fun from it and when I got the chace to clean up when they are busy doing other things or sleeping ,I 'll do cleaning.
A peace maker
If you had two or more kids in your home for sure you can relate this one hahaha ,I have two kids and hindi maiwasan that there were many times that they are fighting and as a mother a peace maker to them ,I am their referee to make them stop fighting but not letting them to fight and fight and I always taught my eldest son to adjust his little brother coz most of the time his little brother punching and biting him .One time ,my eldest son was giving a hug and kiss to his younger brother and my youngest son get annoyed and bite his kuya ,my son wanted to punch his little brother but andun ako para awatin siya and I told him to control himself and tried to understand his brother since it was not in a good mood and now before he cuddle his brother he asked me first if is in a good mood haha.
I became a teacher
Being a mom ,one thing we should do for our kids is to teach them ,we are their first teacher,we taught them everything ,especially teaching them to be a better person .Me as a mother I will do my best to teach my kids a good manners,teach them to be a responsible and most of all teach them to be a God fearing .
Its hard for me during this pandemic when face to face classes was not allowed I will have to manage my time to take care of them and teaches my son's lesson .Last year I heard my son's teacher talking to another teacher when I submitted his module and she told about my son ,she did'nt expect that my son learned a lot since this little boy is so hyper and sometimes did'nt listen to his teacher when there still a face to face classes and I heard she appreciate my hard work as a mom to teach my son she said "hanga ako sa ina neto kasi naturuan ng maayos" and I am happy that the teacher appreciate me.
I am not a perfect mother and I honeslty get tired of taking care of them especially when I feel that I am alone but then I still doing my best to give them their needs ,nurture them and give my full support to them.
Thats it for today ,thank you for your time and God Bless you all.
Being Mother makes you a multitasker, A superhero indeed!