Why fight for it if it's not worth it?

Tue, Oct 12 ❣

Annyeongggg, awesome souls! How's Tuesday?

Today is a busy day for me even it is my rest day. I did some cleaning in my room and also in our kitchen. There are a lot of things to do actually. As much as I love to finish everything in one day, I cannot. That is why I have to do it one by one.  We're  6 here but most of us are lazy lol, so we end up getting piles of chores to do daily which most of the time I am the only one cares to do.

Nevertheless, I am so happy seeing the areas I cleaned. It is now tidy and organized. It gives me a peace of mind. I don't know if it's only me who feels this way but it's a different feeling when it's YOU who's cleaning. It always feels great.

Okayyyy, enough about cleaning thingyy! Let's get straight to the main topic of the day. Due to a heavy duty earlier, my energy is nearly used up. I guess I will use my remaining 5% in answering this exciting questions initiated by sissy @buraryang1892 titled  "Is it worth fighting for? Random questions on a relationship". Click here for the link.

Alright, Leszzzgoo!

If your partner hides your photos on social media, is it okay for you?

In her article, I commented this. I will put it here nalang since it's about this first question raised.

Is it considered a one sided relationship if your partner is not 100% open to you?

Not one-sided but maybe he shouldn't be not your partner na if that is the case. Because for me, if you love the person you have to share everything to him/her. Literally, everything. Magpa-partner kapa kung sinarili mo lang naman yung mga problema or kahit anong issue sa buhay mo. Gigil mo 'ko ha! Kidding pero seryoso (baliw lang), I will react like this if ever I found out that my partner is not 100% open to me. I want a relationship with no secrets. I'm here kaya oh, so please talk to me, I will listen. Ganern!

You opened your partner's social media once, is it okay that your partner changed her/his login right ahead?

Aba'y gags to, bakit mo naman binago? May tinatago? I will find it so obvious that he's doing malicious things if ever he will change his log in's because whyyy? The fudge! Bawal ka tumabi mamaya! Haha. Pero totoo, I will be hurt if ever my partner will do it to me. What will be his reason of changing it? Sige nga, sino ganyan sa partner nila? Don't be like that uy. Baka wala ka ng partner kinabukasan nyan lol.

Is this type of relationship already a toxic one?

Toxic? Di naman siguro kasi I will never ever stay with a person naman ng matagal if I feel like he's not treating me the way I should be treated. Meaning, di ko na inaantay pa na mating toxic yung relationship na meron ako.  I don't like to be treated like I can't be trusted. I will let you go without second thoughts if you make me feel that way. Ayaw ko ng ginagago ako. I deserve to be loved and respected.

Is it still worth fighting for if you already tried your best in your relationship?

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It's a no-no na. No matter how deep I love that person, if di na kaya, let go na talaga. Minsan kasi, kahit anong laban mo, kung di mo naman ramdam na mahal ka pa, useless lang. Or let say mahal ka pa daw pero di mo naman makita nor maramdaman kasi wala naman talaga, walang effort.  Mauubos ka lang lalo na kung yung pinaglalaban mo may iba ng gustong maipanalo. 

When can you say that it is over?

It is over na when I say " Ayoko na" even if my partner won't agree about it. So far, never ako nagsisi sa mga naging desisyon ko about ending my relationship.

Bonus part!

Do years in a relationship matter to you?

My first relationship lasted for almost 4 years but we broke up, I break up with him actually. Saludo ako sa mga tumatagal talaga kasi napaka tibay nila. I know that they've been through a lot just to keep their status. But in my case kasi, ayaw kong pinapahaba yung alam kong mapuputol din pagdating ng panahon. Kaya wag nalang uy haha. And to answer the question, years don't matter to me. I don't know when will be the time that the right man will come. I am patiently waiting. Pero kung gusto mong ngayon na, chat ka sa akin lol. Let's be together puhon, sa tamang panahon.

Alert! 1% remaining lol. It's 10:20 in the evening on my end right now and my eyes are asking me to close it na for a beauty rest, charottt rest lang pala haha. Thank God, I made it to the end. I am not sure if I answered the questions right but yan yung nailabas ng isip ko eh, yan yung kinaya haha.

Thank you for reading beautiful people. You always amaze me with your constant support. I appreciate your time reaching this part, hitting likes, giving upvotes, and leaving comments. Saranghae! ❣

God bless us all!