I have no clue about what the future resembles, however, together we will get to where we were bound to be. Someday. One day. At some point, each second in turn.
Let us look forward to doing what we were put on earth to do, and discover the reason why we are in this world.
I have faith in being thoughtful, kind, and showing compassion to all. Humans and creatures. Additionally, attempting to do great, and to do everything we can to forestall the bad. Being willing to help (big or small) can do our very tiny part to make this world a better place, and dig into this thing called life.
Earlier today, (around 2:02pm Pacific time - Las Vegas, NV USA), my mother-in-law passed away. I still have to find out what had happened. She has been bedridden for quite some time now, and her body could no longer bear it. It hurts to see her go, but life happens. A the moment, my husband is taking this time quietly grieving.
I wrote an article a week ago about my mom-in-law got into a coma state. Link below.
Why That Thing Called Life Is So Fragile?
She is one of the sweetest person I have ever known in my life. Knowing she's gone is very painful. Like, why her? She was such a wonderful woman, mother, and friend. I feel so numb right now. Sad. Confused. Conflicted. Weeping. I am feeling utterly lost. Just let me. Type type type. Keyboard tapping. Go on. It seems like somebody cut you open, and the entirety of your inner parts dropped out. I am not feeling any physical pains. However, I don't see this is on the grounds that I am in desolation. It's an excessive amount to deal with for one amazing person.
Genuine sentiments are genuine sentiments. Connections, friendships, and loved ones end however love, care, and sentiments proceed. We don't finally accept reality for what it is constantly, and it's anything but required all things considered. We simply need to figure out how to live with that agony.
While we love and cherish someone we used to have, when we lose them, our brain starts to imagine that everything we did isn't right. At some point, it makes us hurt so much. At this very moment, it feels nice to have someone who understands. And I have them. I have you all. Thank you very much.
Grief
Grief is one of the last duties of adoring somebody. After the excruciating beginning of misery wears out, our anguish for that person we cherished and lost ought to get fused into our lives serenely. There is no fixed course of events in as much as sorrow doesn't overwhelm and rule our lives. We need to return to sensibly in a sensible measure of time. Practically all shrewdness comes from torment, we become insightful about the worth of life and love we share by lamenting. We think more on the most terrible days of our lives than the great ones.
It is an extraordinary encounter. It is very difficult. It is an understanding that life is short and we as a whole gain from it. We discover that awful things occur and nobody is invulnerable to the truth of life. We discover that our daily routine is to be experienced and appreciated while we can. We figure out how to show our love to others, and to see the value in them while we have them. We discover that life is valuable. Ideally, we discover that since life is a struggle, we ought to be caring and merciful to others since life is a struggle enough, and we have no compelling reason to hurt others.
Today is another chance to get everything right. Grab this day, get out there, and be you. Notice your surroundings too. Look and see. Do your thing unapologetically. Be in a moment today fully. Say something worthwhile and nice. Be kind and smile. Search for ways you can be kind. Do something random for someone else today. Pay attention to chances to be kind to complete strangers. Search for ways to shed a little light into this world. Take good care of yourself. Love your family. No hurting. No Hating. Just care. Just love.
Mom,
You truly are among the great angels soaring over the skies above. With your affection, care, and love are actually looking after us down here. It sheds so many tears on our eyes, but your soul will forever in our hearts. This doesn't mean it is the goodbye, for we will be here for you until we meet again someday. We will always remember you here - today until forever.
I love you. We love you and we will always miss you.
Love,
Your daughter-in-law
All things considered, life is too short to even think about being everything except being nice, kind, and loving. Let's try to look for ways to be a good human. Let's try to give more to the world than we take. We just never know what would happen or what we are going to lose in the next few minutes.
I am getting off here in a few, and if I don't respond immediately, please understand. Thank you, my friends and you all have a blissful day wherever you are in the world. I'll talk to you later. Xoxo.
One love
July 08, 2021
Philippines
1:15pm
(All photos are my own and taken by me - unless otherwise stated)
my condolences to your family. sis. She's now in a better place where no pain and burden. Until you meet again. :)