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The Happiest Are The Saddest Do you believe that "most" of the happiest people are the saddest? I do and I am writing this based on my personal experience. An individual who is sad knows how it feels to be distant from everyone else or not heard or misjudged. The circumstance can differ, yet the outcome stays same for example misery. Also, that person absolutely need to ensure the ones around himself/herself and attempts to make everybody cheerful and this is the main way he/she can conceal his aggravation. It's a quiet illness. Individuals you know have it, and you might be uninformed. You don't generally realize except if they need you to know. Some are experts of concealing it. Regardless of whether you know, you can't fix them. You most certainly can't let them know how to improve it. Regardless of whether you think you comprehend. I have been told by many that I'm a very positive person. A few years prior, I was treated for depression, which required nearly 12 months of treatment and some prescription. Toward the end, my therapist said she was satisfied with my advancement, as I myself was. Yet, she likewise let me know that I was profoundly passionate commonly, and that I would keep on having misrepresented highs and lows and roller-coasters. She was correct. I have figured out how to live with this, however have utilized it too.
One thing I know without a doubt is that occasionally the ones who appear to be the most joyful are the ones who hurt the most. Go check on your family and friends from time to time. And if you think or know someone struggling with this condition, share your inclinations. Offer some help and assistance. We are human and life can be messy and complicated a times. They may be experiencing peacefully. Their weight might turn out to be an excessive amount to handle. Your thoughtful gesture, your shoulder, your discussion may be the light in somebody's murkiness.
Has anybody seen how despite the fact that our everyday lives presently are really predictable? Our mindsets and sentiments on all that appear to change, in any case? Up, down, in general? Our mental health is very essential and I generally write to sort out the things I am feeling. We should be there for other people, yet we likewise should be there for ourselves, as well. Don't forget. I am just here, my friends. Message me when you need me. Right now though, I am off to bed, so I'll hopefully catch you again when I get back on. Time is just too scarce for me. One love, @Bloghound Find me on noise.cash https://noise.cash/u/wickedsoul `#Bloghound #Bloghoundism and I am a member of #ClubBrokeBch` November 27, 2021 12:06 am Philippines `(The photo is my own and taken by me unless stated otherwise)` Copyright @Bloghound 2021. All Rights Reserved. https://read.cash/@Bloghound/no-price-tag-85d0926d#copyright-at-bloghound-2021-all-rights-reserved `To my wonderful and amazing daily readers and my generous sponsors (old and new - TOO MANY OF YOU TO MENTION), from the bottom of my heart, THANK YOU ALL SO MUCH!`
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Hello sis, it was nice to hear from you again. Actually mas gusto ko magbabad dito at sa noise keysa sa Fb. Kasi dito mas supportive ang mga tao :) Thanks for checking :) Hope you are well too.
Hi, sis Jas. I am lacking time kaya I missed a few days here, but I am posting in noise.cash daily. Mas mabilis kasi dun ang time hehe. I am good, thank you. Well, I am trying. I hope you are too. Xoxoxoxoxo
I am trying din sis :) Salamat. Yeah I always see your post :P Mabilis lang malowbat tong phone ko kaya di ako nakakatagal sa noise :) Tulog ka na..
Salamat ulet, sis. Kitakits later. Goodnight!
Okidoks!
The brightest smiles hid the deepest pain sometimes. People try to hide their pain behind their smiles, and I know a couple of people who do this; it is sad to see them fake their lives.
Sad truth, Oikawa.
I very well agree with it, because that's me too 😿
Big hug, sis. I know you are. We get along eh. Panu yan, tila matagal tagal pa yung 75 natin maiba lang hehe.
Kahit 50 lang can't sissy happy na ako hehe Agree ako sissy na kapag masayahing tao triple ang itinatagong lungkot
I can relate myself to this Ate. That feeling you can make other people laugh but me myself can't make happy.
Thank you for the sentiments, Genisis and nice to meet you!
Happy to meet You ate.
Agree with the title sis. The person who show off happiness in public, mostly empty and alone inside and try to hide their sorrows!
Loveyah, sis!
For me I think happiness is an attitude not just a feeling. For in life we go through a lot everyday that can make one a sadist but in the midst of all that we still find joy and something to laugh about.
I wrote based on my personal experlence as a suicide and depression survivor, Venvie 😉
And I can also be a shoulder you can lean on madam...minsan talaga yung nakikita nating saya sa ibang tao minsan sign yun na nangangailangan siya nang kausap or malungkot xia at masyado lang siyang magaling magtago hope I have the chance to be a comfort to someone
Surely will, mamshee. Xoxoxo
It's sad when there is no one to tell about what is in your soul. Just because they will understand her. And it all accumulates, accumulates. Even the strongest and most cheerful person is weak and helpless in his soul.
Nailed it, Belozoriana. Nobody would understand unless they go through the same path.
Indeed, happiness is when you're with your friends, but tears flow out when your in bed
Ain't the truth? Hope all is well, Vincent.
This reminds me of a Tomas Grey poem "Beside some water's rushy brink With me the muse shall sit and think (At ease inclined in rustic state) How vain the adour of the crowd How low how little are the proud How indigent the great" I'm sorry about your health. I hope you're a lot better now... Take care of yourself too...
I think I have stumbled on this poem somewhere before. Have to check it out. Beautiful. Thank you so much, Mac. Nice to meet you!
Yeah... It's a great one once you are comfortable with ancient English...
A long time ago I was dissatisfied with everything and my life was very conflicted. But then I had to learn the hard way. I started reading and looking for another answer and it led me to be what I am today. I learned to accept myself as chubby as I am. To embrace more. To ask for forgiveness. To share more. It's not that I'm a lucky person, it's that I learned to live with who I am and what I have. And that makes me happy most of the time. A hug my friend.
Yes that is so true. Sometimes the cheerful needs some cheering up, too. If not the most. Hey ate... I am here for you .. ;)
You are a wee star Mrs P, and I am the same, I am always available for anybody that needs someone to talk to or vent.
Yes i am agree with you. Happiest people sadest. Actually those who have everything in their life but still they are sad because happiness does not stay for ever. If you are rich enough but can't buy happiness. I saw a lot of people in my life was so rich but never able to enjoy peaceful life. More money more problems. Who dont see sadness in their life. If unfortunately, they caught by sadness they dont easily came out of this.
I think I understand what you're writing about. Everyone should make their own peace, to turn for help if they cannot help themselves. Your therapist is good at her job, she did the right thing. If I understood you correctly, people told you to look happy. So you overcame depression, you learned to live with it! Well done to you 👍
Casi siempre los que son más fuertes son los más de viles en cuanto a sentimientos se trata. Es triste estar solos y no tener a quien contarle nuestras angustias y problemas. Feliz día mi bello amigo saludos un fuerte abrazo y que tengas un bonito fin de semana
You said it all, there are some people that has depressions in their smile.
Yes, dear. Sometimes a little condolence from a person is a lot to a depressed person. Anybody can fall into such kind of situation. Only he/she knows how hard that time is. Thanks for reminding us again.
Thats true! The happiest are the saddest. I am very observant to people. One of my classmate is joker her personality is really possess sense of humor, she even throwing jokes thats makes you laugh in every way. Sadly, some part of her life has many problems that shes into her. How brave she is by handling those.
True the one joyful is the one who hurt the most. Ako Ata to sis. I love making other people or laugh but deep inside I'm struggling to make myself happy. Honestly I'm teary eyed while reading your article sis
Just like the clown with thousands of delightful moments, may appears to be the happiest but not everyone knows his broken soul is greatly longing for a light, that would vanish all the sorrows and despairs. Life is really so unpredictable. If something is so unwell, simply look up at the silver linings with a great faith holding a tight grip from the powerful hand above, while screaming out loud with bended knees, and a brave heart to keep going no matter how ironic life is. Always remember that you are very precious my dearest sis and you are very loved by many. If only I could paint a rainbow in the sky, I would. Whatever you have been going through, I am hoping that it will just disappear through time. A big and a tight hug for you sis.
That's why it's difficult to discover talaga if a person is depressed, kasi it ia being masked by happiness na pinapakita nung taong depressed..
I totally agree with you. Kasi ganun din ako. Even before na nag aaral ako, my friends love my company kasi napakajolly ko daw. They never had a dull moment when I am around. The didn't know that I am suffering from depression. Siguro its our way to hide the real us.
This is really true sis. I have heard this before, and I have meet people who have been facing this kind of situation. but I never that this can be called a depression. I'm sorry to hear that you face this kind of illness. I hope you totally get well soon sis. Stay positive, life is beautiful.
You are quite right in saying that we should be for others but not forget to be for ourselves. A big hug my dear wicked amiga :)
Inasmuch as we try to make people happy, we shouldn't forget ourselves too.
I believe in that thought my friend. Even I could testify. I've been to a situation before that all I could give is a beautiful laugh or smile even though deep inside, I'm truly sad.
I don't want to tell anyone of what I'm going through right now. Not my family nor my boyfriend if I can handle this all alone, why not? If I can't then I deserve it though 😊
I agree with this , I had a classmate way back in college who happens to be a joker in class. All I thought he had a happy life . Sadly he doesn't. He experienced a lot and came to a point couldn't sleep at night without taking alcoholic drinks
I am that type of person who laughs a lot, jokes around but is at the same time battling with anxiety and stress in silence. It's never easy but I always pray for myself. I hope you're okay now ate 😊
I noticed that too the happiest people that put smile on people face go through alot and they still try and put on happy faces.
Ako ate, nasanay na akong hindi mag share ng problema ko eh, sinasarili ko lahat and there's nothing to worry kasi I can still handle myself naman. Minsan tamang breakdown at eme eme lang, tas later on balik na naman sa pagka boang hahaha
I got swings of sadness from time to time. I do not know if this is a depression already. I feel empty sometimes without any reason. It's hard but I must carry on.
1000 times yes, yes yes! This one is absolute true. People justify them with their smile but deep down they are the shadow of smile with a sad heart. Who cared about them? No one.
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