What Do Ladies Want?

Hello there! How are you doing today? It's early morning here in Nigeria, Ibadan, Oyo state to be precise. I woke up a few minutes ago and was thinking about what to write. I thought of different topics but I knew that if I begin to write an article on those topics, I may not write it to a preferred extent. It pains me whenever I don't have a topic to write about. It makes me think too much. I guess this happens to every writer. It is not every time we always have something in our head to write. Are you getting me?

I began to think about my experience with people. I began to think of the general things my friends and I talk about. Eventually, I found a topic. I remember a time when I was chatting with a male friend. He told me how troublesome his girlfriend was. He also said that every girl is troublesome because he has never dated a girl who is not stubborn. Some people also believe that all Nigerian girls are stubborn😅. I'm not part😅.

He gave me a few instances and I guess he is right. I also explained some parts of my stubbornness to him. I'll give a few examples of the annoying things that I do. If I have a boyfriend and he asks me what I want to eat, I may decide to be quiet not because I'm stubborn but because I don't know what to eat. If the guy eventually buys food for himself, I would want to eat the food with him maybe because the food looks nice. It's one crazy habit in me which shows that I don't know what I want.

Also, there are many times that I want to talk to my man. You know it's normal for a guy not to be with his phone. Maybe due to work, he went out, played ball, or did any random thing. As a calm lady, you're expected to call again for the second time and if he does not pick up, drop a text message. I'm a stubborn goat, I'll drop too many texts. I'll begin to tell him that I dislike him and tell him all sorts of things without even asking why he didn't pick up the call. Some ladies even go as far as challenging him that he was with another girl.

Girls are so stubborn😅. There are times that a lady is angry. If you're angry at someone, you should tell the person what they did so that they won't repeat it. Whenever our boyfriends offend us, we keep quiet and begin to keep malice with them😅. If he touches you, you'd shout. If he calls you, you'd get angry. But if he doesn't call you, you'd still get angry😅. I don't know how these men can satisfy us. I'm not left out in all that I listed😅. I guess we express ourselves anyhow we like because we are too emotional.

One thing I know about ladies is that a man can never satisfy us😅.

It brings me to the question, ' What Do Ladies Want?'.