Habits that make us angry.
Who wants to voluntarily dig into themselves, find their mistakes and work on them? Long, tedious and unpleasant. Far better to recognize your strengths and proudly proclaim them to the world. But it's possible to be an extremely talented, charming, wonderful person and have all that erased by habits that make you angry. Here it is:
The habit of only talking about yourself.
Always and everywhere. Even when we're not asked and sometimes not even noticed. You have to enter the conversation and express your opinion that no one wants. Remember a funny story about your own personality and laugh about it. Talk about your experiences and don't let anyone else care about them.
Unfortunately, people around us only care about themselves. They can't even dream that they can understand how we live, what our problems are, how we feel. Even if they do ask questions, it's only out of basic politeness, nothing more.
You have a habit of making promises and not following through with your plans .
At the same time, we have a very negative attitude towards those who do the same and don't understand why they allow themselves to do it. It's simple: they copy us and give back what they are angry about.
We have a habit of sharing details of other people's private lives
People have confided in us, told us something secret or not so secret and have told someone else secretly. That person may continue to tell you, only they no longer realize that this information is not for everyone. And so on down the chain, until the distorted information is returned to the sender.
It's a good thing that after another leak, the person who gave the information doesn't completely sever their relationship with us. But he will certainly be careful what he says from now on.
Enforcement Habit.
We weren't invited, but we came. We hear that someone is going somewhere - we ask them to take us with them. Our colleague lives nearby - we comfortably got into the passenger seat and asked him to take us there, stopping at the store on the way.
It's hard to imagine that if we had wanted to, we would have asked them to come with us. And that seems silly and not very pleasant. Begging never made anyone pretty.
The habit of living with a cell phone.
People talk to us, we talk to someone - it doesn't matter. We have a phone in front of our eyes all the time, doing something very important and outrageously interesting. We do everything with our eyes on the phone. As if a minute without it will lead to something terrible.
It doesn't. The world won't be destroyed if we put our phone away just for those few minutes when someone wants to take it away. But the quality of communication can be degraded. Yes, and the desire to communicate in the future.
It is up to each person to decide whether to get rid of these habits or develop and improve them. Such behavior cannot be called bad or good. One's goal may be to remain proudly solitary and deliberately upset others so as not to be intimidated. And if someone doesn't understand why they feel lonely, that's a clue to solving the problem.
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03.03.2022.
I'm not good also in promises and I don't like also keeping promised but never did even one.