Parenting Goals Ideas

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Being a parent is never an easy job. The responsibilities in taking care of your children requires a lot of efforts and and strong determination in order for them to grow the way you want them to be. We are glad that someone can supports us in raising our kids. Aside from our partners in life, our parents from both side never failed to show and give their supports in order for our kids to grow up well. But of course, not at all times they are there to guide and helped you out in raising your kids. Can we still properly raised our little ones? I know we can still. Here I am sharing some parenting ideas which will helped us in raising our kids or our future kids.

Prioritize more quality time

When we say quality time this is like bonding moments with your kids. Get more interactions with them because as they grow older their interest and likes changes too. It is much easier when they are young because a simple board game or a bedtime story at night is great way of bonding with them. There are really times that as a parent myself I neglect a quality time with my kids, but to catch up with them, we’ll go on a simple date at the mall. We’ll go eat at their favorite restaurant and play some arcades which both my boys like.

Teach them while they’re young

What does the scripture says about teaching kids, “ Train up a child and in the way he should go, even when he is old he will not depart from it” (Proverbs 22:6) Giving kids responsibilities at a young age is a good training ground for them. You can start giving them household chores that is appropriate for their age. I believe in this way, they can learned how to be independent in no time. It can be a big help for them if they wanted to live on their own in the future. Aside from household chores, we must teach our children some good manners and conduct as early as possible. Since they have tendency to forgot things the next morning, we have to be consistent in reminding them from time to time.

Be firm with your rules at home

Having rules inside our home is not an assurance that your kids will easily follow it. In my experience they will only follow it on the first week and start ignoring it on the following days. Why is that so? I guess being firm with the consequences is the best solution to it. It is much easier to let younger ones do it, but when they grow a little bit they began being stubborn most of the times. Talking to your kids and be consistent in the consequences in breaking the rules will surely help. I just hope so.

Be a good listener

Listening to our kids is a good way to start conversations too. To avoid misunderstanding in the future proper listening should be practice. Listening shows respect and makes you understands the problem well. We should never make a conclusion right away, instead listen to every side of the story in order to make a good decision too.

Focus on family values and be a role model

Paying respect to the older ones is one of the values we should keep. We don’t want our kids to grow rude and have a bad manners at everything. It will definitely reflects on how we raised them. Moral values always begins at home, by being a good model to them I am sure they will learn little by little. Walk the talk, which means putting your words into action. You can’t just say, do it and do that yet you’re doing the opposite. We should always remember that younger ones always looks up to us.

Final Thoughts

We all have different ways to raised our children. The ideas written above was just a guide and it’s up to you if you want to follow it or not. At the end of the day, it is still depends on us on how we want to discipline or raise our little ones. I know we can do it. Just enjoy parenting no matter how hard it will be. I assure you, all the sacrifices will be worth it in the end.

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Hello sis. Would love to apply this at home when My Clea is big na 😁

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2 years ago

Cge lang sis😍 ambilis noh sis, magulat ka na lang gagapang na yan😁

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2 years ago

Parents should really listen to their children in order to support mutual respect and understanding. Parents should really promote open communication with their children. 💖

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2 years ago

I definitely agree friend😊

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2 years ago

Though I have no experience about parenting yet I will definitely try to use this advices on my nieces, nephewas and younger cousins. Sometimes we too need to listen to our younger ones, we can't make a children good, calm just by yelling or insulting them all the time. We too have to change our bad habits in order to teach our next generation

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2 years ago

Yes dear, very well said:) We should be a good model to them because they will always look up at us. Thanks for dropping by:)

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2 years ago

Agree po ako sa lahat ng sinabi nyo. Dahil ang unang guro ng mga bata ay ang kanilang mga magulang. Kung ano pong ugali ang mayroon ang isang magulang ganoon rin po ang nakukuha o nakikita ng kanyang anak. Kaya kailangan po talaga ng kalinga dahil mga bata papo sila. Thank you po for this,papabasa kopo sa tita ko haha

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2 years ago

you're such a good parent. For sure your kids will look up to you in the future. I am lucky enough to be blessed with such parents. Someday when I become a parent, I will remember all of this. This is very important 💜

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2 years ago

I know you’ll be a good parent one day because you are guided well by your parents 😍

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2 years ago

I agree with what I have read sis.. baby pa anak ko and this is a good guide for a first time mom like me, specially that i wanted my son to grow in a right way. Thank you for this sis..😊😊😊

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2 years ago

Walang anuman sis, you’ll learn more habang tumatagal etong mga ganitong tips gabay lang 😍

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2 years ago

Kaya nga sis, maganda makabasa ng tips mula sa nanay na din. Ako madami pa akong dapat matututunan

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2 years ago

All these are needed for a good parent to train up their children. I wish all the parents could read this and learn.

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2 years ago

Thanks my friend:)

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2 years ago

I agree with you but most parents forgets to be a good listener and it's very important

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2 years ago

Yes listening is a very good way to understand:)

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2 years ago

Agree ako sa iyo sis..nasa parents talaga kung paanong lalaki ang kanilang mga anak kaya dapat tama ang pagpapalaki sa mga ito.

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2 years ago

truelala, kasi maraming napapariwara dahil ang lagi nilang sinasabi napabayaan sila ng magulang nila, kesyo hindi sila pinapansin tulad ng napanuod mo kanina, nakakalungkot lang

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2 years ago

korek...mapapriwara talaga kapag walang tamang gabay

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2 years ago

I know it's not easy to be a parent. But whatever point you have discussed here, if anyone listens to them attentively, I believe he will be able to take good care of his child. good topic mate.

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2 years ago

Your welcome friend😊

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2 years ago

I wish to spend more quality time with my eldest because she has her own room na and she spends most of her time with her phone..

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2 years ago

Naku sis kami tabi tabi pa rin matulog, ayaw nila sa kabilang kwarto 🤣

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2 years ago

Salamat nito sis, yung quality time talaga di dapat kalimutan. Mag enjoy din tayo kasama ang mga anak natin, makinig sa mga kwento nila, yan ang bonding moment namin ng mga anak ko

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2 years ago

Oo nga sis, yan kasi ang di ko magawa sa parents ko noong bata pa ako, kaya sabi k sa mga anak ko walang secret at dapat lahat kinukwento, mejo iba kasi kabataan ngayon, mahirap ng maligaw ng landas

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2 years ago

True sis, kaya Kailangan pagtuonan natin sila ng pansin kasi pag parang nabalewala lang, kawawa sila, minsan nag rerebelde pa yan para lang mapansin at yan ang ayaw ko mangyari sa anak ko

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2 years ago

No matter how great you say it is, especially since parents need to be good listeners to their children, sometimes it is very enjoyable to see some parents who spend so much time raising their children with full understanding.

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2 years ago

Yes it is dear😊 Parenting is a very hard job, but if you enjoy it you’ll definitely love it.

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2 years ago

Will take note of these tips, sis. I am not yet a parent but someday I will be. :)

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2 years ago

You’re welcome sis, that’s only a few I am sure you’ll encounter more tips in the future😍

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2 years ago

Wow..I love this.. thanks for the article

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2 years ago

You’re welcome dear:)

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2 years ago

Thanks for the tips sis.. Rules at the house are easily to be broken. Dami pasaway sis no hehehe pero mgmamature din yan sila.

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2 years ago

Hahaha! Sinabi mo pa, sa umpisa lang magaling sumunod mga anak ko eh, not unless may punishment saka sila susunod:)

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2 years ago

Nttwa ka n lng hahaha.. Gnyan tlga mga bta no.

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2 years ago

Thank you for this information mommy yhanne. This could be helpful for me soon when the time is right having own family and raising little babies in the future.

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2 years ago

Your welcome sis:) I am sure you’ll be a good parent someday😍

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2 years ago

Aweeee hehe with Gods guidance😍🤗

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2 years ago

Yeah being a parent is really a tough job especially in todays generation. Way back when I was a kid and even teenage year ,just looking at my fathers expression is already enough to behave.

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2 years ago

Iba yung disiplina noon sis, naku karamihan ngayon spoiled mga bata, I admit mejo napagbibigyan ko mga anak ko, parang deprive kasi ako noon, yung tipong di ko naranasan eh pinararanas ko sa knila, pagdating sa disiplina daddy nila ang bahala tingin pa lang noon behave na sila 😁

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2 years ago

hahha ganyan talag siguro, kahit mga pamangkon ko ganyan na din. Kasi just like you deprived din kami dati sa mga bagay-bagay kaya medyo na spoil din ng mga kapatid ko

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2 years ago

Oo sis, parang matik na din kaya naku kasweswerte ng mga generations ngayon

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2 years ago

Well written my friend, a good parent must be ready to listen

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2 years ago

Thank you for dropping by friend:)

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2 years ago

I like your article friend. Yes as a parents you should have a goals. It will help you a lot to have a smooth image in your home. You should know how to set yourself as a parents.

You must know how to balance everything. Yes it's really important to have a quality time to the children. They need it. They need an attention with their parents.

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2 years ago

Exactly sis:) Quality time is neglected nowadays because of the technology, gone are the days that family bonded over watching movies, playing board games and other stuffs because of gadgets and the updated technology. So I guess the solution to that is proper time management which is actually hard to do as well😅

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2 years ago

Yes sis the "Time Management" it should be given an importance since it is the way to continue having a quality time of a family.

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