@Rubymercy

@Rubymercy 29 November 2021

Procrastination Good morning my fellows friend on readcash, it's been a while here have been busy with a lot..... Wow Today is the last Monday in the month of November, this morning I want us to be grateful to God for life, let's forget about what we have not achieve this year and focus on what he has done so far🥰🥰 So today I will be talking on PROCRASTINATION....procrastination means to delay or postpone something,also to delay something to another time.... What are the causes of procrastination? 1 FEAR:Fear means to be afraid or scared of something, sometimes we are afraid to start that particular thing we love to do,we keep procrastinating..we are even afraid that that we will fail...on the other hand it may be fear of rejection thinking that we will be rejected by our friends if we start that one thing we love...let's put away fear and stop postponing what you ought to do...I want to know that ""If you want to conquer fear, don't sit at home and think about it but go out and get busy 2 HELPLESSNESS:Is the state of needing help..When there is no help anywhere,we think of giving up and even procrastinating,no you don't have to give up on yourself take the bold step and do the needful without anyone help ... You have to take responsibility for your own life,don't blame your friends or family that didn't help you.. 3 MOTIVATION:When there is lack of motivation..We want to motivated before we start that plan or that work.. You have to motivate yourself 4 WHEN THERE IS NO FOCUS:Lack of focus can also procrastination.. When there is distraction from friends,movie, internet and family..all you have to do is to ignore them, disconnect your self from them if you have to and focus on what you ought to do .Find a very calm and quiet place where you can focus on that plan or works 5LAZINESS: Sometimes what we ought to do,we won't do it because of laziness...we feel Time is still on our side..So we should do away with laziness and remind yourself of the consequences of not doing what you are supposed to do... WHAT ARE THE WAY OUT.   Create a Schedule:You have to plan with time cause time wait for nobody.. always set up reminders in your calendar,plan your time well Change your mindset. Stop thinking you can't do it..Stop thinking as a procrastinator. Set your mind right, speak positive, think positive and feel positive.. In Conclusion, Beware of procrastination, Yesterday has gone forever. Tomorrow may never come. But today is within your reach what are you doing with it.. Procrastination is a common enemy which every man must conquer.Let me remind you that life is a check board and the player opposite you is time..If you hesitate to move or neglect to move promptly, your life will be wiped off the board time. Therefore make use of your time judiciously,time wait for no man...... Thank you for reading

@Rubymercy 23 November 2021

Tips for taking of care of Children""Part 2 Good day my fellow readers here...Today I will be continue from where I stop on ""tips on how to take of children..I talked about LOVE in part 1🌝 and I hope you learnt something... Before I continue I will like to say a big thank you to those who read and comment on the first one(part 1) Today we move to the second tips for taking care of children which is ""PATIENCE"" What is Patience??Patience” is word that you have probably heard a lot!  But you may wonder…”what on earth is patience, and why does everyone keep telling me to have it?”as a parent Patience is waiting for something or someone.  It is accepting delay without getting angry or upset also Patience is a person's ability to wait something out or endure something tedious, without getting riled up. Let's relate it back to our topic"tips on how to take care of children after the first step have been taken which is LOVE,the next is PATIENCE As a parent let's cultivate the act of patient"Maybe your child is lacking in one area or the other in his or her academics and you started complaining or stop caring for such child that won't help at all we should be patient with our children,cause having patience means you can remain calm with such child,give him/her some time... It involves acceptance and tolerance..Being patient with your child is about being able to communicate with them without being fearful about what others think... One of the importance of Patience is that it allows your child to learn valuable lessons. When you become a parent, your only goal is to raise and nurture a good child. You do this, in the hopes that one day they will grow up to be a great person.As a parent being patient and addressing them is the best way to ensure that your child learns valuable lessons in life.. For example Children want to play longer and don’t want the fun to end. Being upset when the fun is over is natural and completely normal. However, when a child gets upset, panic can set in for a parent. Tears and wails can make parents upset and punish their children. Instead of being forceful with your child, a dose of patience might be what they need. So, instead of shouting at them to stop crying, perhaps using the opportunity to provide them with a lesson and show them love cause ""with love and patience nothing is impossible" Also, Patience helps acquire positive attitude If things are not going the way you want for your children, instead of getting frustrated, you must learn to be patient. You need to see things and situations in a positive light to make your child life happier. And to get that positivity, As a parent you need to be patient. In conclusion at large,like I said earlier "people who can wait long achieve better things than those with no patience since it is impossible to acquire success in a single day..😊😊 Thank you for Reading

@Rubymercy 22 November 2021

First Of all, Introduction Good day everyone,My name is Ruby mercy, I'm from Nigeria,am a lady,a lover of God and kids... I am an interesting, fun loving lady with a good sense of humor. One thing about me that is important to know though is that at first I come of as a very shy lady but once I get to know people and are comfortable with my environment I am great. I joke, laugh and humor people and I also get as much as I give. I am also a very principled lady and stand strong on what is right and wrong. https://www.123helpme.com/topics/joke I'm a student and my field of study is banking and finance.. MY LIKES ARE I love making friends, hanging out and meeting new people I love to act drama, cause am a very jovial person so I had to join drama team in my school fellowship -I love listening to music,cause music is life ..music is life, If you want to feel happy, you can listen to songs that are happy **cause Music let’s your imagination flow and that’s obviously a good thing for your creativity and health.**  Lastly,I love teaching and reading.. Initially,one my friend invited me to read.cash@maryjay..Thank you so much dear FINALLY **I hope we get along here @read cash and let's keep on reading 😊😊**

@Rubymercy 19 November 2021

Tips for taking care of Children""Part 1 Good morning,I woke up this morning and feel like writing on tips for taking care of children.....Children are the heritage of God as the Bible made us to understand that in Psalms 127:3 Lo, children are an heritage of the LORD: and the fruit of the womb is his reward. My take on taking care of children are: 1:I believe the first thing is love, firstly show them love them.Love is an essential part of growing and developing as a human being. As a parent your child should understand your love language to them cause they needs are important... Love your child,love them all equal no partiality..Talk to them, appreciate your children and give your child that praise. Things like “you did a great job!” or “thank you for listening so well to Mommy and Daddy”... “thank you for washing off your plate and putting it in the dishwasher” or “you did a great job on your spelling test today; I’m so proud of you”. Words of praise are easy to incorporate into your day and a good way to focus on positive actions they do.Tell your children you love them on daily basisd“You can also say things like “I’m so proud of you” or “I’m so thankful the Lord brought you into our lives”. The important thing to remember is to focus on the each child as an individual. Sometimes this may be difficult if your child is exhibiting extreme behaviors, but it is crucial to explore the reason behind those behaviors and not specifically the behavior itself. This will enable you to focus on loving your child the more Lastly through Physical Touch, I want to talk about the way to employ physical touch when disciplining your child. Gently placing your hand on your child’s arm or wrapping your arm around his or her shoulders when discussing something he or she may have done wrong is a great way to use physical touch to show love.Cause such child will feel loved.. This can be an opportune moment to build bonding and attachment with your adopted child. Using physical touch and being aware of your body language can show the child that even though he or she is being disciplined, he or she is still deeply loved and treasured by the entire family.