What I Learned in 2k21
We all know that this year is the worse year we have ever seen. We have witnessed so many things both good and bad. But the best thing is we all are safe and healthy and it matters the most.
2020 taught us lots of things , I'm not decieved from this blessing, so today I will be sharing some of those things which I learnt in this year.
**TAKE YOUR TIME TO BLOOM**
Our life is totally uncertain and unpredictable ,so anything can be happen to us at anytime. We have to accept everything which our life is giving us whether we want or not. So we need to be well prepare for every circumstances , every situation it can be both good or bad.
Every single thing need proper and enough time to happen. Just like Flowers needs time for blooming. Just like Sun needs time for glowing brightly. Just like Moon needs time for sparkling gracefully.
Nothing can happen in an instant, it is not like that '*You wake up oneday and you will see all your pains , sufferings are gone and you have achieved everything which you were craving for years. No our life not works like this. Things may take lots of times to befall, it can be just a one day, it can be weeks, it can be months and it can be years too*'.
In this process of gaining and letting go, one must need to be patient, if you have pateince only then your pains, longings , aches will make a huge space for your upcoming happiness, joys and dreams and many more things. Like flowers, you will definitely bloom oneday, so wait for that special day to occure and wait for your turn with patience and with a wide smile on your pretty face.
Do not lose these 'Smile and patence ' , because they can save you from all the negetivities, all the worries all the sorrows, all the failure and it can fight for you against everything which want to hurt you, harm you like a brave warrior.
Take your time to bloom like a flower. Take your time to glow brightly. It is not a selfish act, it is important and necessary.
**DO NOT COMPARE YOURSELF**
It is the most common thing, we all do in our daily life. It became our tradition unknowingly and nowdays we are following this custom blindly. I know it is difficult and hard to abolish this practice completely but it is not impossible. If we all give our contribution then we can do it.
We all have possessed different physical appearance, different mental ability, different passion, different likes and dislikes, different hobbies SO there is no point to make a comparison between each other. We all are special, unique, beautiful , talented in our own way SO it is better to try to improve ourselves instead of comparing ourselves in vain.
**CHERISH EVERY MOMENT**
As I said before , our life is truely uncertain and none of us has the slightest idea about our future, we do not know when and how we taste the bitter Death. We are thinking unnecessarily about everything.
No matter how wisely and carefully we prepare everything and ourselves, the unexpected thing and people will come in our life that is why we do not need to worry about anything.
Always tell yourself ' *I'm healing with time and rediscovering myself by cherishing every single moment which our Almighty is giving us'.*
*We*, the strong and smart human being, are mortal and fragile,,,we have to fall in the lap of cold Death oneday it does not matter whether you want or not. We have to leave everything in this world and go under the darkest shadow of death of death one day.
So ask yourself, What are the things which stopping you from enjoying your most precious life ? No one can't give you back your Life for the second time so break the shakles made of mean and negetive words. Live your life ___Love your life.
Never avoide those things which makes you happy. Never avoide those people who loves and makes you feel 'Worthy'. Learn to love truely without any kind of deceit.
Adorn your smile. Adorn yourself. Adorn your imperfections. This is the best and greatest gift hi can ever gift to yourself.
**SET YOUR BOUNDARIES**
Sometimes we need and have to set our boundaries for the sake of our own selves. Learn to say NO sometimes, it will not make any harm to anyone but a simple NO can save you from decaying, damaging your own soul.
You have to learn to recognise your own self if you want to be successful and happy.
Our life is like those small saplings which we plant in our garden. The more we care , the more we love, the more we nurture, the more we accept, the more we cherish THE MORE OUR LIFE WILL NE ENRICHED SND FLOURISHED LIKE THOSE SAPLINGS.
**Closing Thoughts :—** This is the fruit of my immature and imperfect imagination, I hope you liked it.
Thank you sooo much my readers, upvoters, commentators, upvoters and rusty too, without all of I'm nothing, remember I appreciate you all.
How was your day? I hope you all had a great and blessed day and your having a good day too.
Good Evening/Morning/ Night to all of you
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I Found My Lost Being
We can't deny this fact that we all have lost ourselves once or twice or thrice or more than we count not physically but mentally, emotionally. The best thing is Many of us have found ourselves and unfortunately many of us have not yet been able to find themselves.
After so many years of penance, after losing so many thing & so many people I found my precious self , my worthy soul.
When and how did I lose myself? That is what you're thinking I guess, so without further delay or taking your too much time let me delve deeper into this topic.
**I Found Myself that Day when I Started to Care for Myself**
Until few months ago, I always tried to give my all efforts just to care for others more than myself. I'm mature now both physically and mentally, to be honest I gave most of my priorities to them , I gave most of my time to them. But What I have got from them in return? I asked myself. They gifted me with lots of precious things which I want to cherish and remember in my future too. I got a full bag of hatred, envy, poisonous words and behaviour. Now ,these things can't bother me easily like my past , I already broke my rapport with these things. By the grace of Almighty I got some valuable persons too who never fails to pamper about me or love me.
I learned one thing, **" Life is much much better when you choose to live in the present time than in your past".** We must and have to learn to cut our ties where we no longer feel our best.
Whenever I decide to trust someone they immediately start to show their true colour and luckily I am not colourblind so the teary eyes and shattered & broken heart of mine always remind me that, **"It is better to cut myself off from those mean and selfish people and live a lonely but peaceful & content life".**
At first, I was afraid of living a lonely life but **TIME** taught me ***"Being alone is a great power that very few people can accept and maintain it. I can proudly say that I'm one of those kind of people who can handle her torn pieces and lonely life gracefully and beautifully. Loneliness is not a curse ,it is an unexpected blessing".***
I Found Myself that Day when I Started to Love Myself
One upon a time when I was a fool and deaf & dumb( not physically but mentally) I gave all my love to others instead of giving myself. I consider this habit of mine as a foolish thing and it never fails to make me laugh again and again, but believe me it was not funny then as I'm saying. The more I wanted to love others, the more I began to hate myself unknowingly. I wanted to know then ***' I'm giving my best efforts, I'm doing so much then why I'm not happy, why I'm not feeling content with my life, why I'm feeling worried all the time, why I'm getting betrayal ?*** I used to feel weak , devastated, exhausted then once I found a miracle, the most important thing , an eternal healing source **"SELF LOVE"** . I realized Self Love gives a person power & strength which nobody else can.
**I Found Myself that Day when I Started to Give Myself all My Priorities**
It is the nature of every human being to give advice and command to others. As I do not have any strong proof or evidence so I have to believe that Peoople want good for us, people want to see good in us but they never want to see us better than them. We can't resist ourselves from doing this but sometimes we have to say *NO* from doing this particular selfish things for the sake of our own selves.
I tried and am trying my best to value myself, my peace, my joy , my dreams, my dear ones than fake & negetive people's opinions. Someone's opinion can't define our true worth, our true nature, out true personality so it is better to leave them in their own feign and negetive world. Live your life on your own rules. Do whatever makes you happy not others, currently I'm walking in this path.
I'm happy and content since I stopped expecting from others. I'm happy since I stopped giving priorities to others.
**I Found Myself that Day when I Stopped Neglecting Myself**
Once, I used to ignore myself in order to give all my attention to others, this is the worst thing I have ever done. Once I wanted to feel, say, hear according to my own will & wish but I never did just to impress others in vain.
After walking a long & thorny way , I learned I'm not the kind of person who should be ignored, I'm precious enough. Some people always tell me that you have changed a lot & you're not the same person you used to be. They are right in their own side, **"I changed because I realized I deserve much better than I'm craving".**
Life is full of unexpected and beautiful good byes, I just wanted to taste those goodbyes more in future. I learned **"We should and must love ourselves a little more than others. As people don't have to care or love you like this you don't have to care about them as well"**.
I wanted to be perfect but when I grew up a little, I began to think differently now I always remind myself that _**"I'm mine before I'm anyone else's so I don't need to compare myself to others or suppress my own potential just to lift others a little higher position than mine. My imperfections makes me unique and special, so I do not need to feel insecure about myself".**
No I do not even think to belittle or ignore or hate me and I think this is the real and most valuable thing I have ever achieved..
I could write a book full of my insecurities, tensions, problems, sufferings but I was unable to compose even a single sentence with thing I like and love about myself but everything has changed. Now I am not saying that I do not have any insecurities coz I do but now I do not give my attention to this things, now I became my own Muse. After losing a lot, **Finally I Found Myself, the Precious Soul of Mine and I Want to Find Myself More. I believe "I" and "WE" can do this thing more effectively and gracefully.**
**Closing Thoughts :—** That's all for today as I want to stop here, I need some break from all the things I have right now.
Before ending, I want to thank all of you , my daily readers, commentators, upvoters, sponsors and Rusty too.
How are you? How was your day? I hope you're having a great and blessed day.
***Evaa__(28.11.21)*** ***Lead Image :— Unsplash.Com***
The Art of Accepting Flaws & Faults
We are human being full of flaws and faults on the other hand we are blessed with talents and passions. Some of us has more talents and some of us has less talents, the best thing is We all have something hidden within us.
As we all have flaws so it is pretty normal and simple to make mistakes too. We can't deny this fact that We all made some mistakes in our past which we can't change or erase and at the same time, we are continuously making mistakes each and every single day which we can change, reduce and control.
If we continue to regrets for our past , for our mistakes then we will never be able to become a successful, happy and peaceful person.
Here are some points which you can follow if you want____
If you want to become a successful person mentally, physically, financially, emotionally, then you have to accept your flaws. If you want to experience every joy which your life is giving you every moment then you have to learn this art.
**How do we learn this??** Well____. Let me shed some lights on this topic__
**Learn to Accept your flaws and drawbacks:—**
The first step to being happy is to accept everything. You're the one who made or making mistakes so of course you and only you should accept your deeds. Every single human being makes mistakes so it is better to admit our errors before pointing someone else for the same reason.
Remember if you can't accept your own flaws, shortcomings then Why others will accept your mistakes?? Think about it at least once.
Accept your flaws
Accept your own self. Accept your own mistakes. Accept your own faults so that you can accept others for the exact thing.
Accept your drawbacks,sins, you cannot hide from Almighty. So then, are you trying to hide from mortal people??? Please don't do this, no matter how hard you try they all will come to know about your drawbacks someday and then you will receive nothing but pains, hatred, longings, dissatisfaction, discontentment so instead of trying to hide it , accept and try to change it.
**MAKE HARMONY WITH YOUR PAST AND ADORN YOURSELF :—**
Sometimes it's totally okay to make mistakes remember you're still learning and growing. If you made some errors then it doesn't define you as a weak person or you are unable to perform or achieve anything.
You can't change your past you can't change your blunders , errors which you made once. So stop regretting and complaining for once.
By regretting, worrying, thinking, recalling those mistakes again and again like a loop,,, you're doing nothing but ____ You're ruining yourself. You're ruining your present. You're ruining your future. You're ruining your current relationships. You're losing your dear and near ones.
Stop ruining and losing your precious and rarest things just by counting your past flaws and errors.
We all have some shortcomings, no one is perfect on the other hand we all are perfect in this imperfect world. We all are beautiful and talented in our own way.
You can't judge a bird's talent by the ability of swimming. You can't judge a tiger's talent by the ability of flying. You can't judge s fish's talent by the ability of climbing a tree.
They all have talents but each and everyone has different talents so we can't call or tag them talentless.
We can't negate that all of us do not have equal talent and passion but our Almighty,our Creator always give us a golden opportunity to develop our talents.
**APPRECIATE YOURSELF:—**
No matter what happens, what the situation is please appreciate yourself. Please appreciate what you're doing right now.
If you can't appreciate yourself, your own work then there is no one who will even think of appreciating yourself, your works. Your past , your mistakes have made you what you're now.
A person who feels appreciated by someone always can do more thing than anyone even she/he can expect, So be that "SOMEONE" and do not wait for others to appreciate you. You're enough and you are capable of doing everything.
Take a moment to appreciate the woman or man you have become. You have worked hard. You gave up lots of things, your happiness, your cozy bed, your chilly and funny moments. You have spent endless sleepless nights just to get here.
Give yourself a big hug, give yourself some worthy and precious words of complements. Because you're still fighting like a fearless warrior. Because you're still standing on your own feet after going through lots of things. Because you're still struggling for your dreams and desires. Because you're still surviving to live.
The moment when you start focusing and believing on yourself, you will solve all the mazes and the puzzles, you're experiencing now.
So believe on yourself. Do your hard work. Give your best. Accept your flaws. Learn from your mistakes.
Remember, You're great. You're worthy of love.
**Closing Thoughts :—**
I hope you enjoyed this :) ,am hopeful about it.
Thank you soo much everyone. A special thanks to my daily supporters, readers, commentators, upvoters, sponsors and Rusty too.
How was your day? I hope you had a great day and you all are having a good day. Have great, blessed and peaceful night.
Evaa**(26.11.2021**)
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Are You Taking Care of Your Health???
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Again I want to start my article with some small but important questions , I guess so.
**Are you taking care of yourself? Are you giving priorities & importance to your health? Are you eating healthy foods??**
I am sure some of us are very conscious about our health, in this article I'm talking about those people who are not giving proper care and importance to theirselves which they need badly including myself.
Nowadays our technologies got lots of development, we can't even trace or mark or Imagine about these developments. We are giving up lots of things, our peace of mind,our happiness, our good health just to keep pace with the progress of the present age for this reason we became so busy and lazy that we are not able to take care of ourselves on our own.
We want to achieve a ocean of things but we do not want to take care of ourselves. Remember if you have a sound mind and a healthy body only then you can fulfill and achieve your dreams and desires.
Nowadays, we became too lazy & busy to perepere our food on our own which are heathy for our body and mind. Instead of eating junk foods, exsecive oily foods we should eat those things which helps us to grow both mentally and physically with harmony and peace. We need different foods for our each of our organs.
My mom always tell me one thing **"You're what you eat".** We need to munch and swallow good foods in order to get a healthy body , a sound mind and a successful career. You heard right, if you do not take care of your health by eating healthy foods then you can't get proper nutrients which your body and brain needs. If you do not have a healthy body then you can't even consecrate on what you're doing.
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How do we know which fruit or veggie is necessary, healthy and effective for which organ? Nature has given us the opportunity to recognise those things long ago but we are the ones who have neglected those things . There are lots of fruits and veggies which mirror the body parts they provide nutrients for_ **Let me tell and show you something**
1.Carrot for Eye :—
We all have seen carrots in real right ? But never thought about it even I.
If you cut a carrot in round shape then you will see that it resembles to our eyes. If you look closely and carefully then you will observe a pattern of radiating lines which is imitative to our pupils and Irish.
Eating carrots actually helps us to improve our eyesight. Carrots are rich in ***Beta- Carotene*** , a compound , our body changes into ***Vitamin - A*** which helps us to keep our eyes as healthy as possible.
***Beta - Carotene*** also works like a protective shield or layer which protect our eyes from the harmful rays of sun and it also contribute to reduce the chances of cataracts and other eye problems.
It also helps to eleminate the risk or chance of cancer , they helps to keep our heart healthy by supplying ***Anti -*** ***Oxidants*** . It also helps us to remain our blood pressure normal , it boosts our immune system. Carrots are rich in***Vitamin- C*** , they can control diabetes, can strengthen your bones , can help to get glowing skin.
**Risk of Carrots :—.** We all know that every thing has both negetive and positive tendencies. By munching lots of carrots can gives us numerous benefits but on the other hand by eating too much carrots can makes some problems for us. I have already said that Carrots has ***Beta*** ***- Carotene*** ,if you take too much Beta - Carotene it can change your normal skin colour to orange - yellow colour and this particular condition is termed as ***"Carotenemia "***. Most of cases, it can resist Vitamin - A from doing it's work and affects most of our body parts.
**2.Walnut for Brain :—**
If you break the hard shell or cover of a walnut then you can see the folds, curves or wrinkles of a walnut which will remind you our another most important organ : - Brain.
If you observe a walnut then you will see it has left and right hemisphere like appearance just as our Brain. Walnut is a symbol of wisdom, intelligence
**Health Benefits :—** Walnuts are rich in ***Alpha - Linolenic acid*** which is a plant based ***Omega - 3 fatty acid***. Walnuts has acquired more ***Polyphenolic*** compounds than other nuts such as chestnuts, cashew nuts, peanuts etc. Both Polyphenolic compounds and Omega - 3 fatty acid are known as brain food that's why walnut is called as "Brain Food".
**3.Celery for Bone :—**
Celery looks like our bones , so it is obvious that it will help us to make our bones healthy and strong.
Celery and it's seeds has almost 25 types of ***Anti - Inflammatory*** compound which helps to fight against Inflammation, *arthritis, osteoporosis* and other bone disease
Celery is rich in ***Vitamin— K*** which is very important for making our bones healthy. Celery also has provides Calcium, Silicon which gives strength to our bones. Celery is termed as ***"Bone Builder"***.
There are some more supplements which helps to build our bones healthy and strong , such as
***Manganese*** :— It takes part in the synthesis of connective tissue in bone.
***Vitamin - C*** :— It helps to bind our bone matrix cell together.
**4.Tomato for Heart :—**
Slice a tomato in half and the you will see it resembles to our Heart.
Tomato is filled with ***Lycopene*** which helps us to keep our heart healthy by reducing bad cholesterol. The Vitamins which tomato contains are ***Vitamin- B, E*** and ***Anti - Oxidants*** which helps us to make and keep our Heart sound.
**5.Ginger for Stomach :—**
Ginger is very common thing and I know we all have this spice in our kitchen or garden. We use ginger as a spice but it contains more things than we think.
Ginger can be used as a medicine of ***morning sickness, menstrual pain , indigestion, bloating*** etc.
Whenever I suffer from a headache my mom simply gives me a cup of tea with ginger and bay leaf instead of pain killer , coz it gives us relaxation by eleminating head ache.
**6.Sweet Potato for Pancreas :—**
Sweet potato has a strong resemblance to our Pancreas, from this we can guess that it is meant for our Pancreas specially.
Just like Carrots , Sweet Potato is rich with ***Beta - Carotene*** which helps to protect all tissue of our body and it specially helps to keep our Pancreas healthy and safe from damages.
We all know that Pancreas helps to break down the food we eat and produced insuline, Sweet Potato helps us to balance this produced insuline and save us from becoming a patient and victim of diabetes.
**Authors Message :—**
How was your day all the members of this wonderful family? I hope some of us had a great day and some of us are having a blessed day.
I want to thank to my daily upvoters, commentators, readers and specially my love Rusty thank you for your gift Rusty , I'm really grateful towards you. Thank you again for all your support and love.
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Evaa(25.11.2021__6.18pm)
Don't Surrender to Negetivity
Hello Lovely and Handsome writers of Read.Cash. How was your day? Mine was great as I spent my whole day according to my plan and I enjoyed reading articles in this wonderful platform.
First of all I want to say thanks to __ @Abhay for his kind sponsorship and trusting on me, thank you soo much again for believing on me.
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I would like to start my article with a short question___
***Why do we often face Failures??? Why do we meet to Stress as our unseperable best friend??***
I guess I'm familiar with the answer to these question. Let's find out___
Because We easily surrender to negetivities, to our problems and most important to our unchangeable past.
We are allowed to look back at our past but we are not allowed to cling close to our past for a long period.
***Who did not give us the permission to do so???*** Actually they are our broken heart and shattered soul who once were decieved by our demon like past.
***Then why are we allowed to stare and look back at our past???***
We are most intelligent, smartest living creatures on Earth among all, instead of having lots of intelligence we are not free from making mistakes. There is no one who can confidently say that She/He did not make any mistakes in their past . Because they did. We made numerous mistakes, we can't even count them.
**"To err is Human"** __ We all have heard about this phrase. It is surely true. We can't set ourselves free from making mistakes but we can reduce and control it by learning from our past.
***Our past is our great teacher. Our past is our true advisor. Our past is our real guider.*** So do not hesitate to look back to your past, because you will find millions of solutions to your present problems from your past. So proudly recall your past and learn again & again from your mistakes ,from your errors but do not stay there for too long.
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We all are totally different from each other, we all have some different qualities, we all have some different potential, we all have some different talents , we all have different passions__We all know these things so I'm not going into the depth of this topic anymore.
Allow me to share a story which actually happened with me when I was in my high school.
After completing my primary education from a very good school which is located nearby our house , my parents decided to change my school for more better education.
I made lots of friends there in the first day of my school as I was very good at making friends even now. Shortly after that good situation, my so called good friends started to bully me and they said **"You're an introvert, you're shy and you're not like us".** I swear I was not... I did not mind to their words , I always tried to avoide their bad words , bad behaviour which made them more furious, more envious towards me.
After bearing lots of pains, hurts I changed myself little bit but believe me I'm still surviving, still fighting for my own self. I'm happy for having myself ( Sorry for not diving deep into that story actually I'm not in a mood to recall those bad Memories, I hope you will understand). I want to dedicate a brief letter to my bullies___
**Dear My Bullies___**
I didn't see anyone of you since 2years actually I cut myself off from all of you long time ago. I think that's why You all forgot that I was not shy or introvert, I loves to talk. You couldn't even imagine about my nature. Actually I was just protecting my fragile self from destroying and decaying. I was not bitter , I just loves to speak the truth and straight. I could not make maze by weaving words even now. I was not weak , I just trusted all of you blindly. I did not give up , I was just healing my wounds secretly and preparing myself for a great war against every evil thing.
I wanted to hang out with all of you. I wanted to fit myself in the fake world of yours. I wanted to talk to all of you but I chose to swallow my words, my feelings which I wanted to reveal. I tried my best to hide all my fears and for this reason I burried one piece of my own self in my past in the graveyard of my heart. I think it was the hardest thing I ever did. You forgot that I was stronger than all of you. I know how to play and use with both pen and sword, I can still fly with my broken wings.
I can't deny that I had a mental breakdown for quite some moments then, but it doesn't mean that I was & am weak. Life, bad time, bad people can even knock down the strongest hearts too.
I also had lots of storms in my head,but those storms made my life anew & beautiful. Now I am able to see and hear those invisible and unspoken words which my soul want to whisper to my mind. So Thank you soo much my bullies for making me strong than ever. Thank you sooo much for making me who I am now. Thank you soo much for making me more precious. Thank you soo much for making me more worthy. I'm still grateful towards all of you. I want all of you back in my life as I have to walk a long way towards my dreams and I need some motivation, some encouragement from all of you. I know you too want to see me in a higher position than all of you, you too want to help me to fulfill my aims that's why all of you were helping me to achieve my dreams in disguise of bullying. Thank you sooo again my Dearies.
**Conclusion :—** Remember, bad people and negetivities either makes a human being great or destroyes her/his whole life . It's up to you how you take these things.
Every single thing happens for a great reason, so never say *' Why me '* or never complain about your bad condition or situation.
Do not blame yourself or your Almighty, Just because you're going through hardships, pains and hurts. Remember our creator always gives hurdles to those who can bear and can clear His test. These are the things which will make you stronger than ever.
I do not hate those people who used to bully or mock me because according to me __It is totally pointless to hate someone for their bad deeds, we can give them a chance to change. I think the most important and precious things in our life are Friends and the relationships between human beings.
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Thank you soo much for stopping here and reading my article. I'm not a good or professional writer so please bear with me and forgive me for my mistakes. I just started my journey 3days ago, so I need sometimes to make myself more professional.
How was your day ? I hope you enjoyed your day beautifully.
23.11.2021
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An Ending is not the End
Article No :— 2
Date :— 22.11.2021
Hello beautiful & handsome writers and readers of Read.Cash. I hope you all are doing well and all of you are having a great day.
First of all allow me to show my gratitude and love to @Sweetiepie Sisi. Thank you sooo much sis for your love, support and a big thank you for becoming my first sponsor in read.cash.
Let's move on towards our today's topic without taking your precious time.
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**O**ur life is filled with lots of Mysteries, Uncertainties, a huge and vast Ocean of emotions both positive and negetive.
**I**f we want to unravel all the mysteries of our lives in an instant, then we will find nothing but failure.
**I**f we want to succeed in our life, if we want to become mature, strong in our life then we have to experience and face our life , our fears step by step with a brave and courageous attitude and mindset. What would our life be like if there were no sorrows, sufferings, problems in our life? **H**ave we ever pondered about this?? Maybe yess or maybe no. Many of us have enjoyed roller coaster ride , our lives are a lot like this. Problems, pains, sufferings, longings, miseries, prevent our lives, ourselves from fading.
**O**ften we feel ashamed and afraid to express our thoughts, our feelings, our weaknesses, our fears, our tears to others. We think if we reveal these secret things then some people can hurt and harm us, they can tear our soul apart, we are right in our place.
**W**e need to understand that we will never be able to distinguish between real and fake people if we are not decieved by others. This doesn't mean that Go and Tell all your secrets in an instant to a wrong people without thinking for once. I'm just saying that___ We all are allowed to feel what we need to feel, We all are allowed to say what we need to say,. We all are allowed to think what we need to think,. Never ever try to suppress yourself, your feelings just for others who do not even want to understand you.
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**W**hen I was a kid just like other kids I valued friendship the most, I always gave all my love, all my care and importance to my friends but when the harsh and rough Reality hit me on a sudden like a unwanted cyclone , I understood nothing and no one is permanent in this temporary world even our own shadow and soul too.
**I** do not know unfortunately or fortunately, I never got any helping hand from my so called best friends except their rudeness, anger, envy, selfishness etc. They were just sucking all my strength, all my love, innocence, even myself like a hungry and crude leech. Finally, by the mercy of Almighty I got some strength and decided to cut myself off from those so called friends. Although it is easy to say, but it was not an easy task for me to perform.
**T**hose people whom I once thought Oasis in my lonely desert like life were actually a group of mirage. They always tried to increase and enhance my sufferings instead of reducing it.
**F**rom those worst yet necessary experience, I learned lots of things. Their unfaithfulness taught me , we should be with those people who chooses us every single day , not just only when they are in the mood for us.
**R**emember, the right one will always try to adjust and accept all your dark side and even your thorns as they embrace your bright and glowing side.
**I** used to feel lonely, even when I was surrounded with a group of friends, I thought it was my own fault for not feeling satiesfied and I did not have the ability to be one of them at that moment, but I was totally wrong. I was trying in vain to fit and fix myself in the wrong place, I was trying to mold my own self just to hold an wrong position in their fake world, they tried to mold me like an unfit cookie cutter mold.
**I** was not like them or I think I was not meant for them, for their friendship, I realized this thing much later. They were not my real friends coz real friends will never try to make you feel like an outsider. I had a bad habit , I could not resist myself from vomiting all my secrets infront of them whenever they asked me about myself, about my personal things. After tasting so many bitter things, I understood that not every people deserves to know all side of ourselves. Sometimes we need to hide our true and valid emotions & feelings in order to avoide unnecessary drama.
**T**here is a saying,**"Better to have an enemy who slaps you in the face that a friend who stabs you in the back."**
**S**ome of my friends were demons & monsters in the guise of angels. I'm not saying that I do not have any friend, I do have. Although the circle of friends of mine is very small but they are all trustworthy and precious, I think this is the thing which matters the most.
**N**ot everyone around us is our true and real friend. We, the intelligent human being, can pretend and act well. How can we detect those fake people??? Do not worry, our hurdles, our pains, our worst situations will reveal their real face , will expose their real intention. We just need to pay our attention to those secret signs.
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**N**ow, I'm mature enough. Now, I can distance myself from those fake people for the sake of my own self. Now, I can recreate my broken parts. I have already turned my broken pieces into an unbreakable masterpiece. Now, no one can't break me like my past, I think this is my real achievement.
**N**ow I learned how to wear a happy mask on my sad face . Then why can't I feel that I'm happy?? I can answer this question__ I can't feel happiness because ***Fake happiness is still the worst sadness****. We can't turn our sorrows into happiness by coloring them with bright and glowing but fake colors.*
**L**earn to end something, it can be a bad relationship or a harmful friendship. It will do no harm but will make you strong. Try to say hello to positive things and try to bid goodbye to negetive things. Be your own healer because no one will help you to heal your wounds, your broken heart. We need to remember ***'The Endings won't end us'.***
Thank you soo much for stopping here and reading my article. Thank you for your love and support.
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Finally I found you :— Read.Cash
Hello Beautiful & Handsome writers of Read.Cash. I hope you're having a very good day and you're doing great and best.
**Who I Am :—** It is truely important to introduce oneself before starting a new journey. For this reason, I thought I should give a brief introduction about myself, so here it is___
My name is Evaa !!! Umm no it is not my official name, my maternal grandmother used to call me by this name.
I celebrated my birthday last October, so I'm 20+ years now, I'm pursuing my graduation in English literature and I wanted to enter in the field of Administration Service in my future. I'm blessed with a beautiful and sweet family and I'm first born child out of two.
**What are my Hobbies??** We all have something special within us. Some of us can draw, some of us can dance, some of can sing , some of us can cook and there are many more things. By the blessing and mercy of my Creator I'm not decieved from these things.
What are my Hobbies??? Let's see and count
**1.Gardening** :— I know there are lots of people just like me who likes to cherish and love plants. I finds peace whenever I spend my time with nature.
The fresh and cold breeze, the sweet chirping of birds , the mesmerising fragrance of flowers and wet soil, the amazing beauty of nature, the sweet buzz of insects , the murmur of flowing water never misses a single chance to amaze, astonish and confound me.
The more I try not to be attracted to those the more I become attracted to their charms, to their beauty, to their sweet warble. I usually loves to cherish herbal plants and flowers,here one of those herbal plants
**2.Cooking** :— Almost every girls knows how to cook , I am one of those girls. I loves to cook specially for my family and other (homeless people). I learned how to cook from my mother and both grandmother (maternal and paternal) . Am I forgetting something?? Umm yess. How can I forget to mention YouTube, I already learned some dishes from watching videos on YouTube.
**3.Photography :—** Though I'm not a professional photographer yet I love to save those memories, those beauties, those charms, those graceful things in both my cellphone and my memory . I never miss a single opportunity to click pictures of nature and her creation. You can see some of those photos, here they are__
**4.Painting** :— I did not take any classes or lessons for this, whenever I feel bore ,low, devastated ,broken ,I just took my brushes and pencils to draw my inner thoughts and I always try to bring out my Thoughts on canvas. I usually loves water paintings and I'm trying to learn oil painting too but I love pencil drawing the most that's why I chose to share my pencil Sketches here
Apart from these hobbies I love dancing and singing too......
**Fears** **:—** I'm really very strong both mentally and physically, but I too have lots of fears in my heart which I always try to burry them,but I can't because these are things which are related to me too.
I have water, height, insect, snake phoebia , it is better not to dive in my fears so I'm leaving this topic here, I hope you won't mind.
**My future goals :—** I have lots of dreams, aims in my two black and big eyes....
***First of all,*** I want to add at least 50 people in my Read.Cash family in one month. Am I looking for something impossible?? I think absolutely NO, I hope I will definitely achieve this goal of mine coz I know here everyone is very supportive, helpful and kind.
***Second***, Shortly after creating my account, I started to read some articles as I did not have the slightest idea about this platform where I came to know a kind person (though robot) called Random Rewarder who supports everyone by upvoting their articles, I hope I will be able to attract him/her as soo as possible. I believe he/she will fall in love with me and with my articles just as I fell in love with this platform and with her/him at my first sight coz I do believe in love at first sight.
**Third,** After reading some articles, I realized that they very experienced and good writers , I just want to become like them but I am not sure about myself,about my writing skill, so I want to improve my writing skill and the art of bring out my whole thoughts in paper.
I hope I can do these things. I can call myself as a 'Curious Person' as I was lead by my curiosity to creat an account in this wonderful sight.
**Message** :— I hope you enjoyed this article, I will definitely try to impress all of you with my hard work and consistency. I hope you liked this article, let me know about this.
Thank you for reading and stopping here
**Evaa___20.11.2021___11pm**
All photos are mine Except lead image it was edited via Canva App.
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