Taking Mum Out For a Drive

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Yesterday our family had a great time at the field with Mum. That's her first time going out when she got Shingles. She still has not fully recovered as her head is still aching terribly at times. That's the only thing now. But at her age, it's not easy to stick with such pain. She really doesn't want to go but the kids convinced their Lola to come with us and they succeeded.

After going to the field and living the trailer with the bike, the husband told Mum to stay in the car. He will take her for a drive.

First stop, we took her to the Mill. This is Comber Mill.

Mum worked here for 45 years since she was 17. Her name is written at the top of this chimney. She said that's a new chimney and before it was put up they inscribed their name on it.

This Flax Spinning Mill is erected in 1864 and owned by Andrews Family, Thomas and John Andrews. Thomas Andrews is a shipbuilder and the very one that designs the famous Titanic ship that sank in 1912. They are a prominent family here in Comber.

Mum worked at big machines in the mill. It's a man's job and at that time man's job pays more. She loves working at the mill. She's always been proud when she's telling me all those stories. And in front of the mill is the Andrews Memorial School where my husband went to so he just crossed the road and went to Mum whenever he needs money to buy something. Mum said everyone knows him at the mill. That's also the school where Tia and Jigz go to now.

The Mill has closed for a long time because the government want too much from it and is now a housing village.

Mum hasn't seen the inside of the mill since she left. And she's teary-eyed after. She said she's glad we take her back in there. She knows that it becomes a village and she couldn't believe how many houses in it. It is called Mill Village now.

Next stop we went to see the houses she used to live in.

We went to three houses that she lived in before but the two houses are gone as they build new houses on top of it.

This one is up the Belfast Road and she lived at number 26 that white one with pink on it. But the ceiling was leaking so she moved at number 28 the blue door just beside it.

Then we went to see the graveyard of her brother.

I thought for a long time that that's Mum's brother because they used to live with them before and my husband is very fond of him as he takes him everywhere when he was young. But she's no relation to Mum. They were neighbours before but Uncle Jackie was a family to them. Mum told so many good stories about him. When he died, we were in Thailand and my husband was upset that he cannot go home at that time.

This is at Killinchy Non Subscring Presbyterian Church. The building was erected in 1846.

After that, we took her to Whiterock Bay and Sketrick Island.

After that, we went to see her old school. And the dam where they throw their money in because when they were young their Granny not allowed them to accept money from anyone so not to get in trouble they throw it in the dam which is not visible at that time. Mum just point where it is.

When we pass a field we saw a big white swan. We watch it there wondering what it was eating coz it seems like it's enjoying a grub.

Then we head home as it's getting dark and the kids have to take shower to go to school.

Mum was tired but happy that she went out to see the places that were close to her heart. She enjoyed her wee day out and next time I will make sure we get out again together. This Saturday we're going to take her to Ford's Car Show in Bangor. Mum loves cars! She will love that.

Thank you for reading. 🥰

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This is love ❤️😍❤️😍 of daughter to mum

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3 years ago

I love the way you care for your mother, same thing and even more will be done for you when you grow old as well

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3 years ago

What a great day for her to tour around those places. Hugs for mum..

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3 years ago

Good ol memories to your grandma imagine seeing those places once again after a rlyear or a decade. I know she enjoy it every bit of it.

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3 years ago

For sure talaga sobrang nag enjoy Mum mo jan madam. While reminiscing the past, yong panahon na bata bata pa sya 🤩💙

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3 years ago

Oo, sabi ni Nanay yung edad natin na 30 lang lilipad ka na bigla sa 80 parang kelan lang daw. Kaya Ruffa make the most of your life huh.

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3 years ago

Hmmm...these are memories! Your mum had a nice time.

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3 years ago

Momsh for sure she appreciated the drive.. nkakadepressed din nasa loob lang ng bahay always.. masaya siguro siya ireminisce ung mga nakaraan nya.. lalo na dun sa mill kasi pumupunta din si hubby nya dun before

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3 years ago

Oo nagtatawanan nga kami kasi takas ng takas asawa ko sa school🤣

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3 years ago

Masaya si Mum mo moshie na balikan yun mga lugar na naging bahagi ng buhay nya. Bakit parang nafifeel ko yun nararamdaman nya, hahaha.

Mum is very well loved by you and the whole family kaya I am sure she is so happy everyday.

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3 years ago

And we are loved by her and Dad Momshie. Napakabuting byenan at napakaswerte ko.

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3 years ago

Bihira yun swerte sa in-laws..

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3 years ago

Teary eyed si mum mo madam kasi ang tagal na din na ndi nya nagagawang balikan ang mga places na malapit sa puso nya, ang gaganda nung mga structure dyan, ndi sya ung common na mga building lng. Looking forward po sa carshow na pupunthan nyo, at sana gumaling na din biyenan mo

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3 years ago

Thank you Adrielle. Sana nga playfully recover na ng hindi na say nahihirapan. Megan's at n't maintain yung Mill, nakakatuwang balikan.

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3 years ago

I believe that was really a good trip with your mum,she's really a hardworking woman when she used to work on that mill, that was totally a remarkable for her.Im glad you did it for her, she deserve to have a trip.God bless you.

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3 years ago

She really works hard. No one in the family has lazy bones. And that's what we want the kids to learn as well. Thank you dear and God bless you too.

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3 years ago

That’s a good legacy of the family where everyone is willing to work and learn to established their own life as well.

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3 years ago

Quite an adventure you guys had. Really beautiful pictures. I'm sure you guys made the best out of the experience.

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3 years ago

Yes Ada! Happy to see Mums happy face and enjoying her wee day out. Thank you dear.

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3 years ago

Napakasaya ng mum mo sis binalikan niyo yung lugar na nkatatak sa kanya.. at napapawow ako habang binabasa ko at nakikita yung magagandang tanawin feeling ko nag around the world na din me hehehhe..

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3 years ago

Thank you sis. Nakaktuwa kasi masaya sya. At sobrang pinagdaanan nya lately natuwa naman kami naenjoy nya ang kanyang day out.

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3 years ago

Opo sis buti nman na enjoy niya hehe

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3 years ago

Lola can't say "NO" to her apo hihi. Your mom is so happy, I can tell 😍💗

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3 years ago

Haha pag apo talaga hindi makakhindi. 😁

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3 years ago

Totoo yan momma, di talaga maka HINDI hehe

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3 years ago

Sometimes I always wish to back to places I have lived or work before but because I relocated to somewhere far from where have lived I don't have time to just go back there and see how it looks like now

And one more main problem why I can't do that is because I am not financially bouyant to go for that kind of trip but seriously I will still so that

I love how to took Granny out to see places like this

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3 years ago

I pray that one day you visit places you'd love to see again dear. You will love it just like Mum did. Thank you Esthery.

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3 years ago

Ok sis

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3 years ago

Such a great day bonding with our loveones and your mum inlaw is so beautiful even she's old. The place is so beautiful too and its reveal a lot of stories behind it. Memories in the past is too precious to keep in our heart.

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3 years ago

Thank you sweetie pie! 🥰

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3 years ago

Your relationship with your mother in law is really amaizing, just like a mother and daughter. It's really great to see that how much you think about your whole family. In this old age everyone feel them as an alone person, but your mother in law is so lucky that she is enjoying her beautiful life with all of you.Stay happy always with your family dear momma!!

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3 years ago

You know Hiyamoni I also wish that when I become old I have a family like this that will be with me. I know that the kids will soon be having their own families. We all wish not to grow old alone yeah?

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3 years ago

I wish your desire dream comes true.When you will old your sister in law also take care about you like this.

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3 years ago

This is lovely. You're taking care of Mum in the best way possible, i love the type of relationship and connection you have with her. The part about throwing money into the Dam surprises me. If one can turn back the hands of time and take the money😂

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3 years ago

Haha my husband said were going to buy a metal detector to find those money. 🤣

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3 years ago

Perfect plan 😂

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3 years ago

It is always wholesome to create memories with the ones we love❤, you must love your mum so much and thats sweet!!❤✌

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3 years ago

Coz Mum loves us too much as well! 🥰

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3 years ago

I love the way you took your grandma out to places like that it will bring back so much sweet memories for her

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3 years ago

Yes, we are all happy as well. Love to see her precious smile.

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3 years ago

It's nice to see mum showing good progress of recovery madam. ❤🥺

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3 years ago

Sobra, Jeaneth. Thank you sa concern. Pero naglose weight sya pinipilit kong kumain lagi dahil wala syang appetite.

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3 years ago

Baka may vitamins kayo jan madam na pampagana ng kain. Baka it will help.

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3 years ago

She looks so happy in the cover photo bhe, she deserves to be pampered ☺️

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3 years ago

Bhe kaya nga natural gaming lumabas sana lagi syang sumama ng laging ngumiti ng ganyan mawala isip nya sa shingles nya. Thank you bhe.

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3 years ago

Oo nga kasi kitang kita sa ngiti yung saya nya bhe.

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3 years ago

How cute & generous you are! Loved the entire story. And the architectures are awesome. Cute mum too.

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3 years ago

Thank you. And oh she's lovely! 🥰

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3 years ago

Thanks to you, tia and everyone for taking care of mum, and really thank God she is back and can now go out with the family

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3 years ago

Yes and we will take her out to more places soon. The k you Adereign love.

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3 years ago

I pray you will grow old and your children will take good care of you and make you happy. Well done momma

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3 years ago

Why so napakaganda naman po diyan madam 😍😍. Ganon po pala? Huwag kunin yung pera na binibigay ng iba para iwas masyado problema, tama po ba? Hhahaha

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3 years ago

Hindi bhe nung bata sila hindi sila pwedeng tumanggap ng pera ng iba gasi gusto ni Granny nila na matutunan nilang kumita sa sarili nilang pamamaraan.

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3 years ago

HAHAHAHA ay ganun pala, sorry po 😅🤧

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3 years ago

I am glad to know the way you both take care of her, brought her to favorite places Mill,her old houses and school.I am sure she would be happy to visit all her favorite places. I will definitely wait to see her tour to Ford's Car Show.

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3 years ago

I will surely share it Farah dear. Thank you.

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3 years ago

Such a wonderful daughter you are to her. Job well done for making your mom happy. Keep it up. 🥰

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3 years ago

She's an amazing Mom and Lola to me and the kids Grace. 🥰

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3 years ago

Wow she really deserves it.

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3 years ago

The houses' and buildings' appearance are really different to what I am used to seeing. Fresh to my eyes, and curiousity. Surely your mom enjoyed it!

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3 years ago

She did have a lovely time. Thank you Michelle bhe.

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3 years ago

Walang anuman po. hehehe.

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3 years ago

You really took mum through a series of pleasant emotions with going out and visiting her old houses. That's so sweet. Thanks to Tia also for persuading mum to have this awesome feeling. She deserves another ice cream, momma hahaha. Don't let her read this haha.

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3 years ago

Oh no haha, no more ice cream in the fridge and it's not Sunday yet to go to the market. She should read this comment lol. Thank you Olasquare! 🥰

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3 years ago

Awww...you are always sweet, momma.

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3 years ago

Sis, ganda talaga ng lugar niyo. At for sure, happy talaga mom dahil nakalabas at naka pasyal pa ☺️

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3 years ago

Oo sis magthree months na syang di nakalabas kaya nakakatuwa na masaya sya. Salamat sis.

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3 years ago

Kakatuwa pagmasdan ang matanda na tumatawa 😁 minsan nlng sya mkalabas.. Ganda ng smile nya

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3 years ago

Oo madam. Tuwang tuwa ako sa picture nyang yan. 🥰

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3 years ago

Must have been a great day for your mom. He remembered the good old days and refreshed his memory. Your value in his eyes must have increased because you offered him this opportunity.

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3 years ago

Mum always appreciates everything. She loves us and we love her even more. She's the sweetest! 😊

Thank you dear.

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