"Thinking to Try my Luck Abroad: Should I?"

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10:18 AM|01.20.2022#170|

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I had some conversations with a friend of mine regarding the thing of trying our luck abroad. As all you know, I have been so problematic about the fact that I was still being dependent with my parents, not actually about financial support because I have a part-time job which is this one, being a content creator or writer. But mostly, I am still dependent with regards to some matters of life. One of them is, "Decision-making."

For all you know, I been living with my parents since then. You also know that I am an only child. And being an only child, its not always like living a life of a princess. Well, probably, at some point. But now that I am getting old, I been thinking that I am really useless with regards to having a stable job which can help sustain the needs of my family. I really don't know. I am a Degree Holder, but I felt that I am just that. A Degree Holder without a job. Useless! What's the point of being a College Graduate if I can't have a job? I tried to apply other jobs but I didn't get hired. Maybe, I am not lucky. Or should I say, I am just not good enough.

As I was saying, I had some conversations with a friend of mine. She is a read.cash user too, but unable to continue her journey just yet, because of the unstable signal in their place.

I chatted her, asking if where is she working right now. She said that she was working as a laundress. She's just kidding me. Actually, she meant to say that she's still not working. I asked her again if she wants to go back to Cebu City. (She was a call center agent before.) And she said she will ask permission if she can go back in there. She asked me if I want to go there too. I said, "I want to try, but I am afraid going there alone." (Am I ignorant? I mean, I just don't have the courage to be in the city all by myself. Haha!)

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As the our conversations going on, she suddenly said, "Bal, Abroad nalang ta!"

Meaning, she said, we should just go abroad and try our luck in there.

I asked her, "Where?"

Then she replied, "Maybe in Canada or Japan!" She added,

"Because if we go to UAE, common job we might get in there is DH or Domestic Helper."

"Its better in Canada or even Korea, because we can work as a factory worker or a fruit picker." ( I smiled while reading her message.)

I replied, "How about the requirements Bal, and the expenses?"

She replied,

"You might have an acquaintance in there Bal."

"You should ask for some help."

"And about the expenses, it can be paid after we get our salary." (Parang siguradong-sigurado talaga siya.)

Actually, I had a Godmother who lived in Canada, together with her family. I bet, its been 10 years or more, since the last time she visited us here in the Philippines. She's a rich woman now. She owned a huge business. Well, she married a rich Canadian guy, no wonder she's living a good life in there.

Going back to our conversation, I just ended up saying,

"I think I still don't have the guts to ask her for help Bal, especially that she's rich now."

(Hindi ko rin kasi bet yung side nang pamilya nang ninang ko dito. Hindi ko nalang din sinabi sa Bal ko, kasi ibang usapan na yun. Aguyy, Marites na naman. Haha.)

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"Napaisip nga din ako sa sinabi ni Bal sa'kin. Ano kaya ano? Baka nga nasa ibang bansa yung swerte ko." On the other hand, I also think about all the process na maaari ko'ng pagdaan. At yun nga, "Expenses" or "Financial Support". Sa'n ako kukuha nun? And one more thing, "Will MGD allow me, as well as my parents?"

If you're wondering why I called her "Bal". We had a professor back in college who said that we are look alike. Parang kambal daw. "Bal" short for "Kambal". Hehe.(Share ko lang.^_^)

Anyways, how about you? Have you think of trying out your luck abroad? I know some of you here are OFWs. What can say about it? Should I?

That's it for this article my read.cash fam!

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Maka huna huna ma sab tag abroad aning kapait sa kinabuhi sa Pilipinas oi. Same ta sis ay, wala pamn tuod ko ka graduate pero option na nako mag trabaho abroad if wala ang swerte drea sa Pinas.

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2 years ago

Mao lagi sis uie.. Balita.i niya ko puhon sis ha. Kay murag tua jud tali didto's laing dapit ahung swerte. Paits diri uie. Degree Holder na unta, useless gihapon kay wa gihapon magamit...

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2 years ago

If you decide to go abroad and you achieve your goals it would be perfect, if you don't make it, you are left with the satisfaction of having visited another country.

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2 years ago

You said it right sir Frank. Maybe, I just need to have some time to think about it again..

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2 years ago

I want to go abroad also to help my self and my family.

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2 years ago

Then.. We should go there together.. haha..

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2 years ago

I'd suggest you try it out, I believe you'd be glad you did. If it doesn't work, you can easily come back.

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2 years ago

Thanks for your suggestion bro. I will really think about it. :)

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2 years ago

I also have the same thoughts especially when I graduated in my degree. I wanted to go abroad and help my parents, but my parents don't want me to go abroad because they think I could not take care of myself there. So I'm jist here in my country, working in a company, feeling tired of a not so big compensation

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2 years ago

But still you have your job. Unlike me, I am a degree holder but jobless... :(

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2 years ago

Ano ate plan ko abroad soon, iipon muna ako diro tapos gusto ko wala oang 5years makapagabroad na xd

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2 years ago

Nakss.. Tama din yan be ha.. Sama nalang ako sayo..Haha

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2 years ago

Hunahunaa ug tarong dai kay basin pa d i maoy destiny jud. lahi lahi man ang kinabuhi sa taw kung mag abroad. hunahunaa tarong ang mga consequences :)

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2 years ago

Mao lagi ate. Mahadlok pud ko sa mga balita bitaw anang mabitay.. Haha.. Ja unsa-unsa pa diha. Kanang about sa amo, basin maltratuhon or unsa ba. Maju laman ug matunong ug buotan tawn. Mao lagi na'y ginaingon nga Pa-swertehay ra jud..

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2 years ago

Personally I think there is a no problem in trying your luck, if you truly think yourself as a capable of staying alone there. My best wishes with you dear.

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2 years ago

Omooh! I can't still imagine myself being alone in there and away from my parents..

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2 years ago

Isipin mo muna sis ang mga instances sis , isipin mo dn kng ano ang advantage at disadvantage. Bsta mg desisyon ka kng ano nasa puso mo.

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2 years ago

Oo nga sis eh. Kailangan talaga yung desisyon na wala nang bawian..Hehe.. Salamat sa payo sis. :)

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2 years ago

I would tell everyone to at least try it once in their life. Even if it turns out its not for you, you can always get home again!

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2 years ago

You said it right dear. I will think about it again.. Thanks a lot.. :))

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2 years ago

Sis, abroad kana sayang ang opportunity as long as bata kapa sa expenses naman kahit magka utang kaman ngayon mababayaran mo naman yan kapag nandoon kana. Pero syempre kapag mag decide ka mag abroad dapat yung sa bisaya pa hinugtanay sa bakus nga desisyon.

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2 years ago

Mao lagi sis uie. Haysst.. Saon nga di man pud ko pwede mag-decide ug ako-ako ra. Naa na baja ko'y partner. Tas, syempre only child ra pud ko.. Wa pa ko ka-imagine pud nga malayo sa ahung ginikanan uie.

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2 years ago

Try mo mag abroad marengs. Good luck! Alam kong di madali pero sana makayanan mo. Ako din ay, nagiisip if igragrab ko naba opportunidad na mag work sa Mcdo pero di pa ako nakakapag paalam sa parents ko

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2 years ago

Hayystt.. Thank you sa support marengs. Ramdam ko talaga suporta niyo dito. Hayss.. Kung ganyan lang talaga yung family ko dito.. Di na talaga ako magdadalawang isip.

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2 years ago

It happens with most of us that we are degree holder but jobless I think you should go abroad to try your luck i wish you prosperous journey to abroad

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2 years ago

I'll think about it again and again my friend. Hayyst, if only I had a job right now. I might just focus myself in doing it at my best..

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2 years ago

No worries gayud mamsh pag mu abroad ka ug naa kay kaila adto mamsh. If magkinaunsa, naa kay maduolan. Ako mamsh kung naa pa lang mukuan nako abroad tas kaila nako tas uban mi adto, mu go gayud ko mamsh. Kauban lang gayud ug kaila. Depende sad sa trabaho mamsh.

Bitaw mamsh nuh. Basi tua imung swerte adtoa mamsh. Akong friend mas bata pa nako lakas loob mi abroad mamsh. Tua siya Dubai run.

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2 years ago

Mauwaw man sad gud ko sa ahung ninang Mamsh uie. Arang datu.a naman to tas naa raba'y pamilya. Maikod c.e ko magsamok-samok nija. Basin pud di mi magkasundo sa iyang junakis, mga dalaga ug ulitawo na raba. Wa pa man ko masayod lagi ug unsay kinaiya kay dugay namang panahon sila ning-uli, pila na katuig.

Nindot gud unta Mamsh. Ambot uie. Libog pud ahung huna.huna ron..

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2 years ago

Aguyy ang uyab biyaan Tungod sa abroad ? hahahhah mingawon sa uyab uyy dina kaya hahahah

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2 years ago

Hahaha.. Atud ka ris... Ag uyab ra jud diay kamingawan. Ang ginikanan diay..

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2 years ago

Fix namn nag parents, mingawon gajud sa uyab pud 🤣🤣

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2 years ago

Kung wala responsibilities na iba. Mganda mag abroad.. Enjoy your life lngm.

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2 years ago

Hindi naman siguro responsibilities Ms Jane, just want to help my parents lang din naman and sa future na din.. Hehe

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2 years ago

It's good naman na mag try, prefer ko din Japan ate kaso hindi rin ako papayagan ni mama.

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2 years ago

Yun lang. Yung gusto natin tas meron namang ayaw..

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2 years ago

Set your priorities, renren. You're single pa naman di ba? Go do what makes your soul happy. As they say, it's now or never. Goodluck.

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2 years ago

I am not single anymore Ma'am. Haha.. I will, maybe. Thanks for the advice Ma'am.

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2 years ago

It’s better to try it out. But just try your luck instead of depending on the so called Godmother. Only if you know she would respond to your call well.

And I still can’t believe why we have more unemployment rate yet we produce degree holders each year.

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2 years ago

Thanks for that suggestion bro. And yes! I will not be dependent to her. I am also shy. Haha..

Hmm..I am also wondering why. Haystt.. Sad to say, its the reality.

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2 years ago

Same thing happening over here in my country.

By the way if you are meant to make it out there abroad. I pray God make it possible

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2 years ago

Thanks my brother..

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2 years ago

Binalak ko dati mg abroad sis kaso ayaw ng boyfriend Kong Canadian dati kasi ayaw niyang iwan ko ang daughter ko

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2 years ago

Chars.. Canadian eh.. Hmm.. Maganda din naman kasi yung rason niya sis.. :)

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2 years ago

Oo nga sis. Sayang eh pinagpalit ko siya sa Pinoy

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2 years ago

Nope. Actually I had a a chance twice Yun sa Taiwan. As in tanggap nako but I choose not to go. Ewan ko ba.. then my tita din ako sa hongkong at gusto nya din ako pumunta dun pero dipadin ako pumayag tapos nung nakaraang buwan tinatanong nya din ako sa Canada Naman. Ayoko padin 🤣

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2 years ago

Hehehe.. baka kasi inaalala mo din yung mga loved ones mo dito Ms Yen. Kaya siguro ayaw mo din pumunta. Iniisip ko din naman yan, pero yun nga, baka lang kasi ba, nandun... Pero, mag-iisip pa din talaga nang maayos din. Tyaka, alam mo na, sure ako na may tututol talaga.. XD

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2 years ago

Personally sis, iniisip ko din yun na baka nasa ibang bansa yung luck ko. Pero I know my love ones won't allowed me to do so

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2 years ago

Same here sis. Lalo na si MGD. Sasabihin na naman niya, nagde-decide lang ako for myself..

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2 years ago

Let's go to South Korea na po. Hahaha! I also want to work abroad after college but it's not easy pala and madaming proseso, especially kung sa Korea. Pero wala namang masama kung susubukan. Ehe! Fighting lang para sa mga pangarap.

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2 years ago

Oo sis. Mag-aaral ka pa sa language nila. As in, ang dami talagang prosesong padadaanan. Yung panggastos din talaga..

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2 years ago

Habang bata ka pa sis, why don't you try it? Kung ako lang eh gusto ko talaga, yun lang nabuntis kaya iba na pinagkaabalahan. Try mo lang naman, at least masasabi mo na nasubukan, malay mo swertehen ka rin. Goodluck!

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2 years ago

23 naman na ako sis uie. Matanda na. Hehe.. Hmmm..Pag may enough na courage na sis. Gusto yung buong-buo na talaga na subukan..

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2 years ago

Bata pa yan sis, yung iba kakagraduate lang sa age na yan gawa ng k12 education. Basta pag isipan mo pa rin ng maigi, mahirap yung pupunta ka dun ng half hearted, dapat buong buo para walang regrets

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2 years ago

Good luck to you, may God tells you what's the right decision. Being an overseas worker means you are also dependent 🙏

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2 years ago

Naks! I felt the support sis.. Thanks a lot..:))

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2 years ago

Ask yourself. If you think it's worthy, then why not?

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2 years ago

You're making me laugh mate. Hehe.. I don't know why..

Hmmm.. Well, maybe I should really ask myself..:) :D

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2 years ago

oh that is the meaning of Bal. Malay mo sis, try mo lang baka nga lucky ka dun at syempre wala naman akong iwiwish kundi maging matagumpay ka dyan kaya kapit at laban lang.

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2 years ago

Thanks sis.. Marami pa ako'ng iniisip sa ngayon sis eh. Hmm.. Hindi ko pa alam kung sa'n ako kukuha or manghihiram para sa gastusin. Alam mo naman, binagyo pa kami. Hehe..

Oo, lalaban talaga..:))

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