Give value to what is around you!

There are people who suffer from a terrible evil, which at first sight is not seen but attacks directly to the heart, "The complaint", is a terrible condition that makes the person believe that they have nothing but in reality they have everything. People who are accustomed to cry for what they do not have; the complaint makes that it is born inside them and that makes them suffer much more.

Have you ever seen someone complaining because they don't have a new outfit from the latest Kardashian's collection, but don't they have thousands of outfits in their closet that they don't want to see? On TV they show programs where they show people who accumulate things and more things, they have hundreds of shoes, even many of them have never worn them, they call them compulsive shoppers, because even though they have everything, they still want more.

Maybe I could include myself in the line of people who complain because we miss the affection of a person, but we do not realize that next to us we have a lot of beautiful people, who are always there to help us and give us the love of a good friendship; many of us suffer from loneliness because we have neglected interpersonal relationships and have managed to get other people to move away and reject them.

Let us not be ungrateful, lest by complaining about everything and for everything we stop seeing the good things we have around us.

But I am not saying that we have to be a stick that does not feel and suffer, the truth is that there are times when faced with the need and injustices we have to complain, that is inevitable, but today I am not referring to those situations, I am referring to those who complain without valuing what we have around us.

You can't spend your life crying about this or that, because in the end the tears end up blocking your vision. When you live from the complaint people move away from you, no one can stand you, everyone runs away when they see you and even close the doors of their house because you are not a person who carries good energy on you.

Some time ago I heard someone say that it was good to live as a poor person, because everyone felt sorry for them and gave them everything, but what that man did not see was that one day people got tired of that situation and seeing that he was a young man, with good hands, good legs, who could go out to work, he preferred to live at home crying all day long for what he wanted to have and did nothing to get it.

A few days ago I heard my sister complaining about my younger brother, he is a good person, you just have to know how to handle him, we all say the same, but she does not see it that way and makes every mess and those things make my mom suffer; so I told her that I could not change my brother but instead I could solve things in another way and I think that after our conversation things have calmed down a bit.

I am not putting a blindfold on myself to not see, I am only seeing the good in things, the positive and in this way it is better for me and I see more clearly the way to be part of the solution and not of the problem.

Give value to what is around you

Based on this I would like to invite you to recognize every day the blessings in your life; when you open your eyes when you wake up, thank God, enjoy, live, enjoy everything you have. Give value to everything that by habit you fail to see. Value your wife, your husband. Value your neighbors, your siblings, friends; do not look elsewhere for what you have there by your side, take a look and realize that there are many things that you no longer enjoy and do not enjoy because you are looking the other way.

Stop living in complaint, stop crying, on the contrary, move, do something, work, look for help and do your part to get out of that situation that afflicts you. We are all capable and we can do it. You want to complain! It does not matter, do it, you have the right, but fight, do something, show your virtues, your abilities to solve.

Be generous, don't be selfish or individualistic, connect with others, help them, don't allow life to wrap you in a bubble and separate you and disconnect you from others. If we all understood that God has given us gifts and that it would be wonderful to put them at the service of our own project and collective projects.

To be happy, we must give value to everything that is around us, understand that there are always important things that we fail to see, we downplay their importance and even though they are there we fail to see them either out of habit or because of monotony. How sad I feel when I see people complaining over and over again and we do not value and recognize what we have in our hands, I pray to God that we stop being so stubborn and blind so we can see that we have our hands full of many good things.