Tula ngayong gabi
*May 3, 2022*
*Martes*
Tula ngayong gabi
*Sa balkonahe nakatanaw,*
*sa halaman din nakadungaw,*
*kalaunan nakatulala;*
*at sa taas nakatanikala .*
*Kay tahimik ng gabi,*
*at dampi ng hanging kay lamig,*
*sa paligid nama'y nakamasid,*
*iniisip ang mga bakit:*
*bakit sa lahat akoy nagdurusa,*
*bakit sa tuwina'y Pera ang problema,*
*bakit nga ba sa balkonahe nag-iisa,*
*bakit sa mundong ito ako'y tila nakaantala.*
*bakit dasal ko'y laging na-aambala,*
*hiling ko lang naman pamilya'y guminhawa,*
*Nang makamtan ang buhay na maligaya,*
*sapagkat matagal na silang nagdurusa.*
*Ako man ngayon ay madaming iniisip,*
*sa problemang pera ay sakin kumakapit,*
*pangarap man ay nasa palad ng Diyos nakaukit,*
*pananalig na ito'y makakamit,*
*alam kong sa Diyos di ito ipagkakait.*
Ikaw man ay nalulumbay at may panahong nag-iisa *sa Diyos ka tumalima dahil sa lahat ng bakit sa buhay, tanging ang Diyos lang ang nakaka-alam sa mga bakit.*
*Mahal ka niya at tandaan na kailanman di ka niya pababayaan. Tayo ay magtiwala at laging manalig.*
*Hayaan niyong dito ko tapusin Ang tula*
*Sa malamig na gabi at muni-muni*
*Sa pagkakataong mag-isa,*
*Ang Diyos ay akin palang kasama.*
Muli ang inyong lingkod,
Hope
Tula ngayong gabi
Isinulat ni: Frustrated writer Hope
Who was it?
Hola My May 2, 2022 entry
Greetings to all readers and writers!
How to be you? :) Just joking, Hope you are all good and just chillin' all the problems in life, Just keep going ok?
Who was it?
*Who was it* is not about my past relationship that I am going to write about
bagkus ito ay paalala sa mahilig gumala pag gabi.
it is all about what happen last night with our neighbors creepy experience.
Just this morning, I woke at 6 am because I have lot of pending works to do aside for being a good daughter and responsible ate I am also struggling to survive haha I mean find a job and many more.
but despite how busy I am (assuming) my neighborhood gathered in one area at that time. As a Marites of our town I did my role.
I just listen to them attentively, and so I discovered how creepy our world that we are living.
Last night Sunday, our barangay had this meeting di goberno it started at 6 pm and it almost ended almost 12 midnight.
Our house is far from the gymnasium and it will take you 2 minutes walk to get there, I have this neighbor of mine who attended last night and yeah they got home at maybe almost 12.
Creepy thing is, as they got home, the mother and her husband went inside their house and talked about what happened during that day alam niyo na checka sa ganap ng araw na iyon
when suddenly someone shouted "Ma"
Of course they opened the door, It was thier niece who is 12 years old who literally went their just to confirm something ( she lives in her Lola - near the gym) tumatakbo pa ito papunta sa bahay.
according to my one certified CCTV neighbor haha really my one neighbor also who just live just front of our houses alam niyo yun. she saw someone with the child. Makikita talaga kasi sa bahay nila ang sino mang dumadaan.
and because the child shouted "ma" she opened thier window and she saw someone with the child wearing brown blouse
" it was like her Lola, I assume" Akala niya kasi may kasama ang bata pero nagtataka siya kung bakit hindi man lang pumasok ang nasabing tao sa loob ng bahay.
or was it a person?
She immediately called his son to confirm if who was that person/ someone, but it was all gone
she even see the child leave (niece of our neighbor) but no one followed her anymore.
Pero kasi ang Lola niya ay mabagal ng maglakad dala sa katandaan at laging may bitbit na kahoy o tungkod
That was the commotion: They believe aswang yun.
I have not seen aswang or whatsoever but I am very aware of them.
They can be in a form of animals and humans
And this I think is the reality that we are not alone in this world.
But what if someone copied your identity just to get you? What if you're going to be the victim?
What else can they do aside from copying someone?
What is your thoughts about this?
Creepy.
*Note: Wala daw talagang kasama ang bata papunta sa bahay ng auntie nya.*
Hope 2022
Month of May: Choice, Chance and Change
My May 1 entry.
***"Start making your choices to grab rare chances to change your life." -Hope***
I would like to say Hi and thank you to @renren16 for being my sponsor. I'll do my very best in writing, It means a lot to me :) and Hello hello to my 11 readers out there. haha stay strong to us. :) 💚 LET US CLAIM THAT THIS MONTH OF MAY IS A MONTH OF CELEBRATION AND SUCCESS. Kampai 🥂
MONTH OF MAY: CHOICE, CHANCE AND CHANGE
*We often asked ourselves " What should I choose in this situation? " " What is the best option? " "Should I take a risk? " and many more to say indeed it is hard to make a choices.*
In our world that is full of uncertainty, that is ever changing- Nothing lasts forever as they say, Nothing is permanent. People also are in pace of progressive than before.
It seems like our life is a game- Chances of living and if lost no points of return. And as we live *chances of making a decision will make our lives change.*
Start a business? Marriage? Job Search?
Go abroad? Keep or Let Go? Heart or mind?
But decision making will always be in our life and good decision will help us build our confidence and become independent as a human being.
We sometimes seek for someones approval if our decisions is right or wrong. but whatever it may be decide from yourself and allow yourself to be committed to it besides it doesn't matter if you are following a public opinion as long you know from yourself that your choices will bring you success, then proceed.
**For me, It is always a tough chance to decide in choosing the best of life.**
***Should I start my business now?***
***Is this the right time to get married?***
***Should I still follow what my parents wants?***
***Should I really follow my degree in finding a job?***
***Who among the candidates is the best leader for being a leader in my country?***
*above questions are hard to decide weather what to prioritize first or last, what to follow mind or heart? Ego or principle in life?*
*but in the end I need to decide and make a choice.*
*And time has come for me to use my rightful choices into action.*
*Should I start my business now?*
*In this month of May I'll make a choice to start a small business I know this seems quite hard and challenging but I wanted a chance to make my path change. My mind knows I am not an entrepreneur but skills and dedication will be a key for a first step.*
Is this the right time to get married?
*In this month of May I choose to help first my family financially and let marriage as my last priority.*
*I am not being a bread winner here but witnessing how my parents struggled to raise us eight lovely children I know it isn't easy, I first choose to give them comfortable life while enjoying my relationship with someone.*
Should I still follow what my parents wants?
*In this month of May*
*My mind says " No" My parents wanted me to become a teacher. I've been trying to prove that I can't be someone they wish I were or I am.*
*I've tried my best but it wasn't enough. I know this may hurt them. But I can't wait another year for nothing, no improvements in my life.*
I will make a choice to give me a chance to change my path.
`Conclusion:`
`We make choices for what is best in our lives, Let us just be confident in making our decisions, There may be a time when we screw up and make a mistake still we need to keep going and letting ourselves move on, we need to stand up again. Remember that success starts with a good decision considering how small choices it is acknowledge it as a part of growing and to improve you as a person,`
`Start making your choices to grab rare chances to change your life.`
Thank you again for this time see you again tomorrow.
Take care because I care.
Hope
*LeadImage: PhotoCollage edited*
Writing Practice
My April 30, 2022
Magandang pagbabasa sa lahat! ☺️
Ommo ilang Oras nalang pasko na. *haha chos lang po*. ***May is waving and election is fast approaching bilis naman ng panahon.***
I just wanna flex my everyday named flower. I actually don't know its name. nabinyagan lang namin ni mama ng"everyday" simply because it blooms everyday that is so beautiful and pretty. (may iba't-ibang variants yan)
This photo is mine and only be mine. char lang
Another writing prompt for today. Kasi frustrated writer ako :)
*****WRITING PRACTICE*****
*As I was checking my messages and latest updates in Facebook of what is happening in the world on my timeline this happened to come out and found this very interesting for a writing prompt. I immediately visit the timeline and wow this page is a great help for all inspiring writers like me.*
*Note: This is from Stary Writing you can visit the page* *here* *for reference.* https://www.facebook.com/106223151068928/posts/532570208434218/?app=fbl
**Let's Start**
Pick a random object in your room and write a short paragraph from its point of view.
Pillow:
" Did you have a tough day again that's why I feel your head so heavy? what is this wet drops coming from your eyes? Oh, Teardrops! what is it this time!? *Can you have a happy night and rest with me with happy thoughts. Can you stop imagining sad moments in your brain as if it really happens*. (Imagine pa more) I miss the days you'll lay in bed and easily fall asleep with matching *tulo ng laway at hilik. "*
Wallet:
" Hi there hope, Did you check your shoppe app? what's the status? Stop ordering item if you can't even put me a single colored paper here! I'm all empty dude stop it. Let me eat a yellow paper or blue atleast and not just centavo so boring 😂 and please I'm so done with reciept and bills "
Ballpen:
"Here we go again, writing some draft for an article as if, it is worth to read. And if can't think of any more words to say or write I'm the one who will gonna bite and tapping her forehead. Hey! it is not my job not even my role."
Pencil:
" Can you stop the habit of biting me and spinning me around? I'm very sensitive you know, and can you please draw something unique that worthy of my erasure. "
Cellphone:
"Hoy, Memory's full :) I'm begging you to erase some photos from your screenshots 2 thousand (2k) screenshot is too much. plus your selfie pictures and many more named album, seriously? "
Monoblock chair:
"It is good this time that your the one sitting and not your clothes or bag worst is lots of papers. Really What am I? "
Mirror:
" I remember you seeing me few seconds ago and now you're here again. 😂 And can you atleast comb your hair but anyways you're pretty and loved. "
`(Let us all be mindful that everything here on earth is temporary-Nothing is permanent. Objects/things might be broken and won't take long if used too much. As you enjoy and pleasure it take also a time to your family/friends )`
***Remember long time ago our ancestors believed that things can talked before.***
Take care everyone because I care. See you tomorrow!
Hope ♌
Noise.cash account https://noise.cash/u/Hope2022
***Leadimage: PhotoCollage edited***
Stress Reliever: Q and A
My April 29 (Friday )
I have read some articles today and everything is so inspiring and motivational, as I was scrolling I have read this post from @Aimure thank you for this idea you can check it out here. https://read.cash/@Aimure/mental-planner-511da5d2
I found this as a practice of expressing my thoughts as well as releasing some stress today . (Yes Q and A) if ever asked why Q and A because it reminds of who I am and what I am sometimes (pabalik sa isip)
***Because a lot of things are stressful today so let me share my thoughts here.***
Do you make up a list or do you make it up on the go for daily tasks?
I don't make up a list for a what-to-do for a daily task but my style to become productive everyday is to think of what to do before I sleep. I set my mind before bed so that I will wake up early to do laundry, run an errands or whatever so that as I wake up my body would just ready and settle.
*I just make sure that everyday is a productive day something meaningful and just good.*
What's your favorite thing that is homemade?
Homemade? hmm not sure, haha seriously maybe *lidgid* but sorry I don't know what is that in English. My mother really is really good in making it. It taste different from others who sell or made one.
*I once sell my momma's homemade lidgid before and just wow everyone loved it.*
Would you say you have good Karma?
I don't know, haha maybe not maybe yes. Let us just stay kind, Also remember that what you give is what you get right?
*Let's play a random act of kindness.*
What city you can see yourself living in?
City? Hubby where are you from? haha Maybe in France or New Zealand? California? Manila?
*I love living where my soon partner in life would like to live. (Cute Laugh)*
What was your childhood dream job?
*"When I grow up I want to be a Nurse"* remember that line? I was kindergarten when I said that or not? haha I really want to become a nurse before because of its uniform the hat/cap is what they call that? also the white uniform.
*But hey, Future teacher is coming! haha*
What is your spouse's ideal height range?
I am 5'2 so ideal height is 5'5 to 5'7.
I love tall people but anyway It is just an ideal height. If I am for 5 flat no worries.
*Now say present :)*
What is the best thing to say to break up?
Breaking up should be mutual :(
" We tried our best to save our relationship. But the more we fight for it the more it hurts. Let's end this " I said that.
*I hate this question :) but for me, End a relationship with no regrets afterwards. You know be sure, Just a Happy Break up.*
First celebrity crush you remember?
Mr. Ben? HAHA
I don't know who was my first celebrity crush. I don't remember. But
*My first crush was my schoolmate : ) the one who gave me guavas before. (Oops)*
What is the cutest dog breed?
Bull dog - they are just so adorable and just keep smiling at you.
Image from: Google.com https://www.nylabone.com/dog101/top-10-dog-breeds-in-america
What is your favourite Greek god?
For me is Athena. Because of her confident and just being great, practical and a great warrior. I just give her traits aren't I? haha
*Wanna name my normal dog as Athena. hmmm*
Do you have more girl or guy friends?
I have a lot of female friends and gays few are for men or a guy.
What's your favorite part about your house?
Favorite part about my house?
Our balcony , My family and friends spend most of our time in the balcony. I also love sleeping in our balcony when it is too hot inside our house . I love it because of the fresh air that touches my skin and be able to see my flowers, see who'll passed by.
*was also a place for my first date with ex. :)*
What's your favorite chore? Least favorite?
Favorite chore, I like to do laundry
When I washed clothes since I do it manually, Either my brain went to New Zealand or I remember things I don't wanna remember anymore. :)
Least favorite chore, I don't like sweeping the floor because I have my four year old brother who keeps messing around called his playmate and again another mess. It keeps me forever. :)
What do you need to sleep at night?
I need a lot of pillows for my legs and sides also I can't sleep if lights are on.
What's your thought on pranks?
Sometimes good sometimes bad.
Know if that pranks are not gonna hurt other people or give them heart attacks.
*Be mindful that's all. :)*
See, I laugh at this while answering all some questions. this is really helpful in making yourself together again. as if my mind went somewhere else. :)
Reminding myself that there a way more than
happy thoughts than stress.
*Note: LeadImage edited on PhotoCollage*
***Take care because I Care.***
YourHope
I am sometimes fine
My April 28, 2022 (Evening)
**A day full of challenges and more of it. Greetings to all users how was your day today?**
*I really hope that you are having a great day no matter how frustrated you are may you count that as blessing and not a problem or whatever you feel.*
*Have you seen the movie* ***It’s okay not to be okay?*** *It is a Korean series (episode) about how people struggling deep inside but really they also have breakdowns, It shows that never judge someone by its cover. There may be situations that we may not be easy for someone else and* *****it really reminds me of what I am in the eyes and mind of others.*****
I AM SOMETIMES FINE
~~Don't judge me for being quiet.~~
I am sometimes fine but mostly not when other people will say “you’re so quiet today, stop being phlegmatic” if and only if they knew that *I know longer seek long conversation rather small talks excites me.* I’d rather conserve my energy than wasting it talking back with other people. What is so wrong about being quiet? I just don’t feel like talking. Don’t stop me from being Phlegmatic go away instead. I am fine being alone but I mostly don’t like it when I talked to you this hard.
Sorry, I am born to be this way.
**~~Don’t call me Kj (killjoy)~~**
I am sometimes fine but mostly not, Sleep is better for me than party night out on weekends. I always have tough weekdays and for two days I wanted some rest. Of course, I love having fun, spend it with nature or wherever it could be and I would love bonding people, meeting friends but sometimes I am fine resting my weekends and not on a splendid money night out. Don’t named me Kill joy.
Not all silence is a Yes , sometimes it is to avoid friendship over status. Saying no, is not being Kj
**~~Still forgive and forgive but never forgets~~**
I am sometimes fine but mostly not, I am fine in forgiving someone who made a mistake or to those who hurt me intentionally or not, I forgive because hatred is not healthy in a relationship what I am referring to are my friends and my family. I just don’t like how they sometimes use that weakness of mine to hurt me more and forgive them often. I forgive but I never forgets.
For the sake of healthy relationship, Forgive.
~~Don’t judge me for being single~~
I am sometimes fine but mostly not, I never force someone to love or even like me, I never begged for love, others will tell me “why choose being single if you have that face” I love being single! I love my life right now, I don’t define love as seen in faces I define it as loving oneself, I just don’t like how people judge me for being single I have my own reasons why and I don’t want everyone pressuring me having a love life.
Single by choice.
`Breathe. Let go. And remind yourself that this very moment is the only YOU know you have for sure. It is okay if you are not perfect because NOBODY IS PERFECT.`
***It is okay if people will call me dramatic because in their eyes, they don’t know I am in pain. And among all those who misjudge me few who knows me will stand beside me. (wink)***
**Remember this: Thank you for existing!**
*Thank you again for reading this far. I know that I still lack the skills of writing and I would really appreciate if you’ll give tips for improvements.*
*(this is actually not the piece I would publish today but I have troubled uploading a photo it says that ‘unable to complete previous operation due to low memory’ which is which? Just kidding)*
**Take care because I care.**
**-Hope**
Give Thanks
April 27, 2022
Wednesday edition
We woke up almost everyday, while we are still on our bed, were thinking stuffs, somehow were thinking about what happened yesterday or what was our dream last night! And at the back of our head "I wish today is my lucky day"
*Greeting to all users! how are you all doing? Well, I hope your doing a great day and kicking all the worries away.*
*Are you doing your everyday routine, planning what should be our day to accomplish?*
*If you do, please take a deep breath inhale and exhale and pause for a moment. At this moment, first thank God for the gift of life - wherever and whatever your doing right now, Say "Thank God for waking me and giving me a chance to live, love and forgive again" You see, not everyone of us has that chance now, breathing and seeing good things God has prepared for us, we are sometimes blinded with our task, we are somehow woke up with a burden carrying with us and sometimes we really don't know how to face the day. we just wake up and do our everyday routine as human.*
`This Wednesday, I am so grateful that God gave me a chance to clear things and to talked about misunderstanding with my auntie. Talking with courage just to get things back to normal.`
`And thank God every thing is all good now.`
`Today, During our brief meeting for this coming election I meet new friends and be able to talk to them about life. How different experiences molded them to become a better version of themselves. I learned and realize Life is so short if you didn't do anything in your life.`
`I am also an ear of my mothers rants about my father's alcoholic problems. Her demands for my brothers MUST TO DO. Her one and only listener when someone and new checka is out. I found myself purposeful this way I am someone she can look to when she feels too much burden in our family. Being a mother I know is not easy but seeing her brave enough of standing off our problems is what makes me stay or become a good daughter.`
`Being an Ate to my bunso is so much prouder. The one who he can look up to and call upon his needs. I am very delighted whenever he learns to become humble and wise.`
`One call away friend.`
`I am always thankful to God because he has given me a friend that is one call away whenever I am in trouble. I lost my wallet when I went to town and calling her to pay for my transportation for me to get home is a love.`
**Let us be grateful for today, Let us give thanks for God has given us a chance. A chance to find your purpose, Make your everyday as a blessing despite all the challenges and stormy life you have. Know that God has a better plan.**
**Deep breathe. Let go. And Let it be**
**Happy Wednesday! Thank you for reading**
Let us get to know each other.
***Click the link*** ***here*** ***to read my article about My intro and how did I get here in read.cash.*** https://read.cash/@YourHope/intro-and-how-did-i-get-here-myblog1-059a8063
***More about Me in*** ***here******.*** https://read.cash/@YourHope/more-about-me-799c64c9
***My self-care bingo Edition*** ***here******.*** https://read.cash/@YourHope/self-care-forever-76f256ef
***If you want to read about how to take of your heart. Please check it out by clicking it*** ***here******.*** https://read.cash/@YourHope/heart-health-tips-37b2a33f
***Uninvited Guest by clicking it*** ***here******.*** https://read.cash/@YourHope/uninvited-guest-b387fd09
Photo of Lead Image link https://www.dreamstime.com/illustration/self-hug-illustration.html
-YourHope
Self Care forever
*Hello users! Happy Tuesday to each one of you reading tonight.*
*I've been so busy lately that I cannot finish my short story draft. It's been two days since I started writing about it but until now, nothing happened :) But soon*.
**How are you this past few days? have you been taking care of your self? like unwinding, taking fresh air, visit new place, overnight trips with friends or savouring your coffee, sleeps eight hours a day, go to the gym and have time to talk to your love ones?**
I've asked this question to check if you're taking care of yourself and you better be because self care really matters in doing well and great.
Take a time to care for yourself, it is not being selfish it will help you become healthy well-being so that you can do your job properly and make your day productive.
Tonight I am going to talk about my own self care bingo edition ***BECAUSE IT IS NEVER TOO LATE TO HAVE FUN***. I have seen my new friends posted article about this and found it interesting and fun so, why not try.
*Thanks to* @Usagi *for this idea.*
Introducing Self care card bingo edition! From here, we are going to pick out our own self care.
we just have to mark all the items that we prefer and share or explain that describe the things that we mark.
I have now selected my own self care activities.
****My way of Self care****
**Go for a walk**
I feel so good every time I walked within my neighborhood and see people. Especially when my mother and I decided to walk from our house to the nearest river in my hometown, it was just so refreshing.
I also go for a walk whenever I feel bored and lonely in our house it helps me unwind and refresh my mind.
Garden
Because of this pandemic I discovered myself that I am good at gardening or having this green thumb thing. I love watching my plants grow and produces flowers or fruits, Like hey I take care of this plant. and I'm so proud of it.
My grandmother shared a technique when planting "Talk to them" I can't say I didn't do this :)
Plan a fun day
Yes, I usually am the one who'll start singing using YouTube karaoke songs connected to our Bluetooth speaker and ohla my mom joined me and my younger brother requesting Love is gone he is only 4 years old by the way. :)
One of my favorite time and surely going to miss if I'll go to Cebu to find a job. Spending time with family is self care.
Listen to Music
Listening to a classic song helps me relax my mind and helps me fall asleep in no time. It is just too good to my ears singing along and feel it's rhythm.
Eat Healthy Meal
It is better to face each problem everyday with a good meal.
Plan a solo trip
Traveling alone became my thing when I got separated with my friends. I just realized that in order for you to find yourself and how are you going to face adventures and experiences gives your self a lot of respect for conquering it all.
Be kind to someone
I appreciate and acknowledge small things that that is around me. And being kind to others is meant by being nice to yourself as well,
You don't know what other people been through each day. And by being nice you are not just helping yourself but also others.
Take away from social media
Their comes a time when I realized that spending your time in social media gives less interaction with family. For me, I take a break in any of this and try to have good talk with them.
Organize your room
It freshes my mind whenever I see my things well organized. No more Laundry in the basket all clothes are well folded and Clean trashcan stuff like that. Cleaning and organizing room give me time to become creative and self seeking.
Go out with friends
Having a moment with friends is fantastic for me I just chill with no pressure. Making myself at my most comfort you know just being you in front of them gives you more self worth.
That's it for this game. Did I win? Oh I surely am. It's Bingo!
Hope you'll learn something about me and I would love to know you too better.
Taking care of yourself is not being selfish.
it's about taking of your self mentally,
physically, emotionally,
socially and spirituality.
See you tomorrow and thank you for reading!
Hope
April 26, 2022 ( Self Care: Bingo Edition)
Uninvited Guest
Let us all be reminded that prevention is better than cure this statement does not only apply to our health but as well as our safety at home. What will you do then if somebody entered your home uninvited?
In this article I’m going to share to you some ideas or pointers on discouraging a home invasion and what to do if that happens by means even if you live in a mansion or a gated village you are not safe. Some intruders may be the one who work with you or who live in the same village much worst neighbors. **It is better to prevent than not knowing at all.** I got all these ideas and pointers from **Mona Sabalones** and picked up the most helpful one.
I talked to one of my long-distance friend (from Manila) today through messenger and I was worried about what if- what happened to them (friends family) will also happen to me or to somebody else? She got recently experienced home invasion in their rented house in Manila. She said “she pretended to sleep when invader entered their room” she was with his sister and its 3-year-old child who are both asleep when this happened. All thanks to God that everyone is safe.
This worry brings me to write an article about it.
Discouraging a home invasion
Your **window grills** must be strong enough if intruders will try to cut it using their tools, if sliding windows try to make it more secured. Your **entrance and exit doors** should require a key for inside and outside.
Trained a dog, never ever underestimate a dog, you can train your dog to become a **guard dogs** . Dogs are very protected to their homeowners so trained them to become a pack leaders.
Plan where to escape- suggested by Mona Sabalones, which I totally agree is to have an **escape window** that a grill can remove from the inside ready for your family to escape anytime. Or a secret door that connects you all to the secret hideout.
If you’re alone and you don’t recognize the caller or you don’t have an expected guest ***don’t open the door.*** Make sure also to lock all the doors and closed all the windows. don’t post online that you are all alone and lonely they might joined you.
Be careful who you enter into your house, if something weird or unusual changes has done. **Fix** it already.
Intruders enter your house/room
My friend is lucky enough that nothing worst happened, in case you still have a time to protect yourself and escape, **then use your brain as your best weapon**. Call a police, barangay Tanud or people who can help you immediately.
Used a fire extinguisher, spray intruders in the face to blind them.
Use other weapon such as knives, pens or any sharp objects.
If things get serious don’t play a hero try to escape at the risk of getting injured or hurt.
They came for something so make sure that your safety box is safe.
Your family can have a code word in case of emergency like “ditch” or “escape” or any other word that meant for trouble or home invasion.
`Let us all be safe.Thank you for reading`!
-
Hope
`LeadImage edited from Photo Collage`
More about Me
I decided to share this amazing Question and Answer posted by a new friend of mine. Since I'm newbie I wanted to share More about Me. Enjoy Reading! <3
@Freedom007 posted these questions in his article. You are free to read about that in *****here***** .You are free to answer them also and make a post of your own. That way we get to know each other better. https://read.cash/@Freedom007/an-inspiration-from-articlee-4e556a85
If you had a pen and paper what's the first thing you would draw?
A lot of flowers or nature view like.
I'm a left handed person but... unfortunately not born to be an artist, Flowers, sunset and a greeny grass field is the very first thing I'll draw and a tiny little house and oh! some river like. Kindergarten skill hahaha
**Do you wear your favorite color often?**
Funny is, I love skyblue color but I only have like ten of them in my closet. So, No I don't usually wear skyblue color. I do love wearing black t-shirt to cover up my fatty billy I don't want them to get exposed. (wink)
What is your favorite candle **scent**?
Sorry dear, I don't have one I haven't got a chance to buy those. So let's proceed :)
What is the best Christmas activity?
Like washing dishes, sweeping the floor, cutting the ingredients need for the Noche Buena ? I was just kidding :) My family doesn't have such activities in Christmas such as games, vacation or sports to play. after attending church my family member just do their stuff.
But I love singing in karaoke during Christmas season so, let's consider that as the best activity haha
If you could go to any concert, what would it be?
I would definitely first go to Avril Lavigne's Concert like wow if given a chance it'll be my most memorable one. Singing Wish you were here, When you're gone and Keep holding on.
and..
To BTS concert. Army is waving! My bias is Jin by the way :)
What childhood toy did you always want but never got?
Doll House
I really want to have a doll house before that is big and Pinkish just like my friend but my parents can't afford it. Now that I don't play dolls anymore I, instead bought my niece a small doll house and she loved it!
If you could be the best at any sport, what would it be?
Badminton, I was in highschool when my teacher praised me for being a good player. (Good job self)
Do you have a favorite cousin?
Yes, Her name is Arah she's very witty and sweet. She's now in her Senior High School journey. The one who will ask me if how was my day , keep asking about my friends also , the person I can tell about my personal life .
Have you imagined/planned your wedding?
Haha Yes , why ? before that I'll find first a boyfriend ok? My cousin already made a promised that she's the one who will organized the event. My Gosh boy haha and everyone is invited.
Do you have vegetables that you hate?
I don't like okra . My brother once cooked an okra when I was a child and was cooked incorrectly! from then I used to hate it especially the slimy texture inside the pods that thickens the soups . I just don't like it. No offense to those who loved it. It's just for me.
Do you have a math brain?
I assume Yes but for sure my teachers would probably say NO, hahaha so no.
What are your favorite board games?
Checkered, I tend to learn chess but my brain can't digest any of it so let's go to checkered.
What's the last notably nice thing that someone has done for you?
This is hard well , A lot of things happened to me that I am very grateful of from finding this platform because of a friend of mine. Having a one call away friend but For me it's my mother, Just this afternoon she comforted me because I received a news that is very disappointing so she told me things I need to realize I even cried. A little tap in my shoulder and boom it vanished my worries. Just a tap it seems like magic.
Do you cry when you are injured?
I'm a cry lady, better take care of me (charsss) Yes I am, I would even called "Ma" please don't judge me. :)
What isn't normal that is in your wallet?
A 25 centavo why? I don't know for some of you reading this if you still have a centavo coin. because my grandmother keep telling us (grandkids) to better have a centavo(s) than nothing at all. Witty right?
So, What's more about you? Let me know in the comment section below. Let's get to know each other.
Thank you again for reading far!
See you again tomorrow
-
Hope (April 2022)
Heart health tips
Please be careful with my heart. A famous line for lovers and also one of my favorite song sang by one and only Josie Marie Chan. But I'm not writing to talk about my love life besides I don't have one :) Lol
Let's talk about some steps for a better heart health.
Taking care of our heart is vital it serves as the powerhouse to your whole body. That's the reason why it's important to provide it with care and attention.
For someone like me who used to wake up late because of insomnia or overthinking things at night. Or for someone who have a busy schedule ahead of them (Sana all) For those who don't have enough time to go to the gym for fitness. Or maybe just tired of doing some exercises.
I have here some small tips on how to take care of your heart. I've been practicing these for quite some time.
• Breathe Deeply
Try breathing slowly and deeply for a few minutes each day. It helps you relax and lower blood pressure. You can do this tips the moment you wake up while sitting. Or the moment you have a free time. Breathing deeply helps oxygenate your muscles which is good to your heart.
• Take a 10-minute walk
Walking is great!
It's a great way to start if you don't exercise at all. You can take the dog out if you have a dog, Go for relaxing stroll. It can fight weight gain to improve heart health. Walking reduces stress, Clear your mind and can boost your mood.
• Eat one extra fruit or vegetables a day.
These are inexpensive, it also taste good and yummy also this is good for your brain. As we know, the Nutrients and fiber make them heart healthy.
• Try the fruits of the sea
Instead of eating red meat try eating fish or other seafood once a week. It's good for the heart, our brain and waistline.
• Make breakfast count
Have some fruit and a serving of whole grains like oatmeal or whole wheat toast.
**• Wash your hands often**
Scrubbing up with soap and water several times throughout the day. Flu and other infections can be very hard on the heart.
• Count your blessings
Living is a gift so take a moment each day to thank and acknowledge the blessings in your life. Start with positive emotions which leads you to better health. Negative emotions like anger, worry contribute to high blood pressure and heart disease.
**Small daily activities such as cleaning the house doing laundry and running errands can add up to better brain health.**
*****Remember that a risk to your heart is a risk at your brain.*****
What else can you do to make your heart healthy? Please leave a comment below : )
See you tomorrow!
-Hope
*****Disclaimer: All the following is presented as personal opinion and does not mean to be medical /health advice.*****
Intro and How did I get here (Myblog#1)
Hello Everyone! How was your day? Hope your doing fine and enjoying the gift of life. New user here, Fresh and never been touch. (lol) : ) h
I am writing my first blog with a grateful heart to God and to his given angel. I am yourhope signing in.
You can call me hope, not young and not too old. I live in Leyte and currently struggling to find a stable job.
I am an introvert person so, I often socialized and sometimes I don't entertain guest (which my parents always complained about) and you'll feel bored if you'll talk to me for a minute because I certainly keep agreeing with you : ) you know what I mean right?
**but**
yeah there is a but- I am very talkative when I am with my closest friends, I laugh so hard when we get together. I really what I am sometimes when I am with good people. I shared everything with my mom when I'm happy or sad. my father and I aren't really close. I hardly trust someone so, it's very complicated for me.
So How did I get here?
God send one of his angels, I once prayed that God would give me a job since it's pandemic and I'm at home doing nothing. well not nothing, but you know not earning something.
And just last year I met a good friend although were in the same community we rarely see each other never ever remember that I bumped into her. We became friends because we're applying for a same job that time. we've talked a lot actually. I also wonder why, maybe she's also an introvert :D
introvert to introvert = Long Conversation
fast forward.......She told me about this blessing
The moment my friend told me about this, I undoubtedly never thought this is a scam. So, I tried.
Around this month of April, this good friend of mine selflessly shared this good platform to me, how she was able to have extra money just writing an article, she was able to provide her own needs especially in processing for her job application because this platform pays your hard work. I am really glad she told me about this.
“It’s not an easy money" "you are going to put effort on it"" Soon you’ll be rewarded.” These are some words she mentioned to me, I get the idea. I took the chance. Also I am here because….
***I Love writing***
I am not a journalist or whatsoever but I sometimes wrote poems back in high school. Writing was my big escape back in the days I feel unpromised, sad and being left behind and so, I would just look around mesmerizing and make it a piece.
I remember looking up in the sky and talked to myself **“ I soon will touch the sky, souring and smiling, God I know I will not get left behind”** this was the time I didn’t go to college after the year I graduated highschool, I feel jealous by my friends that will study in the university, studying their dream professions and you know they are into another level. I just really love making a piece of poems and out of the blue wrote something. I miss those days, that's how poetic I am BEFORE. now, I'll try something different I'm open to be corrected and happy to learn from you all.
Now, I got this opportunity to get back to the old hubbies, make progress and soon write a masterpiece.
**My Only one talent**
I take this chance to use **my one and only talent**- over imaginative/over thinking. Haha yes, I cannot sleep easily because I overthink a lot, I imagined and create my own love story or another life's story. How things SHOULD happen. My own prediction. I probably would fall asleep at dawn and woke up late.
That's why I'm happy that atleast all of my thoughts will be put into here. My eyebags will now have a purpose!
Gaining
Gain some money-I also wanted to help my parents, Since finding a job is not just stressful and hard it is also a CALAMITY of my wallet :) disaster, Applying a job in this pandemic is very costly. I tell you, Its not easy. So at least soon my hard work and effort here would be fruitful. Wouldn't bother my parents anymore and got my own wallet of success. cheers to experiences and love. Call it personal gain for me that is how life goes.
***Given this chance to publish an article is a blessing- I am not the ONLY ONE who would read my writings I'll soon share it to you all.***
Big Thanks to Leahbels, Keep being a blessing.
THANK YOU for reading this far, See you tomorrow. God bless you!
@YourHope