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Rules to Become The Best Version Of You!!

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We all aspire to do one thing in life, that is to become the best version of ourselves... we can take a moment and really sit and think, why do we all do whatever we do everyday? let it be being a student or a trader or a Mother or just be alone and not do anything. why do we do that? It all ends in same answer that we just wanna learn who we are at the end of the day. We all wanna know what can we achieve in life and what lengths we could go to perceive our dreams and aspirations. Because when we stop to chase after money or possessions and actually start being passionate about our life and about our character development, everything else will follow soon...

But thinking about it, what can we do to be the best of ourself?? here are some pointers to learn how to become the successful person internally and externally...

  • The first and foremost point would be, we are one and we are unique.. Let the rest of the world give up on you, but there would be that one person that always has your back, which is you yourself... as long as we live, never give up on self..

  • Do not Panic, whatsoever the situation is.. My father used to say, many times what kills a human is not the actual problem but the fear itself.. Don't fear for anything, as long as you are ethical, just keep on doing your thing

  • It is never enough... we never stop learning enough. No matter how much we achieve, there will be still so much in this life to learn. Keep the thought "enough" away from your mind and strive to be extra joyful, extra successful, extra happy... after all, good things when came in extra does not hurt

  • Do not be greedy for money, be greedy for your aims, goals and ambitions.. Forget monetary benefits... strive for excellence in learning, execution and achievements. This type of greed is not a sin.

  • Do not settle down until you achieve your goals. At times, we become tired or exhausted enough to stop chasing our dreams and settle down to the level of what we have achieved and live in regret until we last.. do not do that, never compromise on your dreams because only you can achieve them.

  • Do not be afraid to fail... Failure is the first step for success as some scientist rightfully told.. If you have not tasted true failure, you can't learn the value of true success and true version of yourself... Fail a hundred times and still get up the next time like the warrior you are..

  • Comfort zone is a joke.. We all have been guilty of doing this aren't we? we are afraid to take risks thinking what if it does not work out.. but think "what if it does...". If this does not motivate you, I do not know what does. Take risks, fail, get back up and again fight

  • Surround yourself with positive people. This is something that is not in our control many of the times. But as much as possible, always try to have non-toxic positive, high dreaming people around you.. if they grow, you will too.. if you grow, they will too..

  • Accept the fact that everyone will not be happy about you. The sooner we accept the fact that we cannot please everyone, the quicker we will find our peace.. stop giving value to other's opinions, especially about your life that you live.. You are answerable to YOU and then GOD.. you are NOT accountable to anybody else.. Period!!

  • Do not take things very seriously.. Find humor in things, find your work as an interesting thing, develop passion and uniqueness for doing things.. That way, you can keep yourself alive while aspiring your goals.

  • Always give back.. the kindness you receive must be given back 10 fold.. Never take people for granted, always appreciate their help and sincerity towards you. Imagine you putting out such energy into the Universe and what Universe will put forth for you...

  • Never forget your roots.. This is something I have seen personally with some people and even with some family members of my own.. as they grow, they start forgetting their roots and where they started from.. The moment you forget your roots and your struggling days, you are inviting greed, ego, jealousy, arrogance in your life..

  • And the last point is, remember, when you are old and look back into your life, you must see how much hard work you did, how much passion you had, and how proud of you for coming a long way on your own.. Life includes both happiness and sadness. Embrace it all.. accept it all. And Never forget to keep smiling :)

That is all I wanna add here you guys, hope this made your day better and made you remember you can be your best version.. you do not need anybody, all you need is you... Go get them!!!!

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Hi friend !! It is true that in order to grow and be better, we must get away from toxic and negative people. and above all, never forget our roots, since there lies the moral values ​​of the human being. Nice to read your article

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This is one of my favorite thoughts cause you have something to learn. Thanks for sharing. Removing out negative thoughts might be the first step

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Forgetting one root is like forgetting himself, no matter how happy the person feels outside, he can never feel complete.

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Incredible! I felt that it was my mom who was giving me advice, all very good, I love being authentic and unique and learning new things every day

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2 months ago

Very beautiful piece of article Bhargi! 👏 All the points you gave here goes beyond just becoming the best version of us, it's the basic recipe to living a happy and fulfilling life. If we stick to all you have said here, our lives will become easier

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2 months ago

I agree with the word of wisdom you shared Blackdoll. Greed is one the major cause of conflict in the world, it simply pushes one to do evil like; steal, lie, murder etc.

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2 months ago

Every morning when I wake up from sleep, I say to myself that no one can support me the way I would do, no one will stand by me in times of trouble till the end like the way I will do. I put my trust on God and myself alone. Part of your writeup has spoken so deeply to me.

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2 months ago

I agree wholeheartedly with everything you wrote. thank you

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And you nailed it💯. The humour really got me. You know sometimes work would be tough and you can't leave that because that's the source of earning. Instead of getting it hard on a daily, improvise means and get it easy going, get things that'll make it soft and life goes on

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2 months ago

Live simply, do the right thing, be grateful, and be kind.. These rules can make us happy and a better version😊

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2 months ago

I love these powerful words that you shared my friend. They're truly inspiring and adds a great impact to us who are reading.

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2 months ago

They say best things happened outside the comfort zone. Yet sometimes we are too afraid to take the risk

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it's normal to be scared, but if worked out it's going to be so worth it

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2 months ago

Happiness version if you wish to get then never escape from battle ground and never fell unhappy with failure. Just try to gain it before achieve it.

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2 months ago

I'm saving this for myself 💖

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2 months ago

We all need that reminder for sure, thank you

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How inspiring you said my friend, to become the best version of ourselves we must never give up, don't fear anything, and we must never stop learning. We shouldn't be greedy for money and don't settle down until achieving our goals...

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2 months ago

There is a saying show me your friend and I will tell who you are. It is true, the type of friends we keep determines how far in life we could go.

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"Don't be afraid of failure, don't settle until your dreams come true" This is one of the best tips that a person can follow to reach the best and happiest version of himself

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2 months ago

Yes for sure, thank you my friend. You guys inspire me everyday too

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2 months ago

I remember that scientist who wasted and failed 5,000 bulbs first if I am not mistaken until he successfully made these bulbs we are all using right now. How inspiring.

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2 months ago

That's true.. and he said "I did not fail 1000 times, i just found out it won't work that way, which is success itself"

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yay you remember it as well po💗💗

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