10 Steps To Be Positive In Life!!

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Being Positive in life is not as easy as we talk. For that, we need strong will and our heart must throb us to be positive and happy. Life is of course a confusing game where we have to be so clear and alert all the time not to get fooled easily. To make this happen, we have to be calm and positive even though at tougher times which could be achieved by following the below given points.

But Before jumping into the actual topic, let us see why we need positivity in life. If we know this, we would know the crystal clear reasons to be at good side of life no matter what we are facing in life.

We need to be positive in life because being negative lessens our scope to improve in life. It reduces our concentration to achieve goals and lessens our boundaries of success and we would always think to stay in our comfort zones. Which means, development in life is stopped.

Being Negative never helps: This is an important point for why we need positive energy. Being negative would never help us in life and sometimes if we keep thinking about the same negative side of life, we would have a greater chance of being pushed towards depression or the worse case, suicide..

Bad decisions being sad: The next point is that whatever decisions taken with a negative mind or emotional mind, would always resulted and going to result in bad decisions or maybe disastrous many of the times.

No Alternative except to stay positive: If you want to see your future life as bright and good, you need to be being positive and there is no alternatives for this.

Physical threat: Being negative not only result in emotional diseases like depression, but physical illnesses like heart attacks and other similar diseases. If you do not want to be ill health, you must be positive always. After all, if you are fit and sane, then only you could run towards achieving more goals right?

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Now we have seen why we need positivity, we must also know how to be positive in life. Positivity is contagious and it spreads to your vicinity from you and you are so obligated to spread it correctly. When positivity is around, there is no place for sadness in life. So, let us see how to create positivity in life. Before going ahead, remember that nothing could be achieved easily in life and so as positivity. You must practice it throughout all kinds of situations and thus making it a habit

Choose your companions properly: We live among people, talk with people, eat with people and do everything among humans right? So it is said that we cannot do anything without people and in some way or other, we are always dependent on them. So, be careful in choosing your companions. Always have positive people around you. So, what happens? Whenever you are going towards negative vibes, they will pull you back into positivity.

Read, Read and Read: And when I said read, you must register yourselves in online motivational blogs or motivational magazines. Just keep reading happy things and those books which keep your adrenaline pumping up like high voltage fuse box. And keep those paragraphs in your mind and keep thinking about them again and again. Also if you got time, read hilarious jokes and fun books. Because smile is the best medicine to heal anything in the world.

Ignore the past: because change is inevitable, and whatever situation we are in would change, good to bad or bad to good.. so, there is no meaning in thinking and mourning about the happenings in the past. Just ignore and develop take it easy policy. If you cannot ignore things like losing a loved one, then start to remember beautiful memories with them... at least you cannot lose those memories ever....This makes your mind to stay in peace and peace means being positive.

Think about your previous positive memories: As I always said, your past would surely involve so many beautiful memories and moments that you always wanted to think and cherish. So, start thinking about them and feel happy and believe yourself that those moments would happen again if you are positive about life.

Stop expecting too much: Usually you would have heard from others saying that keep dreaming and aiming high. But what happens in real is when you expect beyond, I mean really far beyond your capabilities, those expectations are broken. So, know your limits, analyze what exactly you want to do in life and take risks just above your limits and you can still achieve big in life. This makes you sure that you reach all your goals and keeping you positively all the time.

Take deep breaths every day for some time: Exercising is very important and if you cannot indulge in full sessions, then make yourself alone for some time and take deep breaths. When oxygen levels are increased in body, it stimulates smooth flow of energy head to toe. Also, do observe your breath. This is a kind of meditation.

Have strong faith: well, I cannot leave without including God in this post.. Trust me when I say this, God makes everything better.. I wouldn't give you pointers about what religions or cultures to follow.. that is up to you...I'm just gonna tell you "Just have strong faith on God. He will help you if your call is genuine enough.. I have seen this wayyyyyyy toooo many times in my life... God is amazing". And when God has your backbone, what is even there to worry about??

Stay Accountable: Make yourself accountable for whatever you do in life whether it is good or bad. When you audit yourself, you would do no or less mistakes, thus less failures and more positivity around. Keep responsibility as core of your determinants.

Keep chanting “I can make it”: Self-confidence is the one which runs the leaders. Never ever lose it. If you face a failure, take it as another opportunity and try to learn more and keep doing it again and again until you hit the right block. Just keep yourself saying you can make it and you can achieve it.

Find Opportunities: At times, we feel that though you have so many skills and still opportunities are not coming. The world is full of opportunities friends. Just search for them. Do not stick to one area. Just keep connecting your circles like a spider’s web. One day or other, you will get one beyond your assumptions.

Don’t run, just face it: The biggest problem of human kind is most of the people when face issues, try to run away from it. But this wouldn’t help because the problem still exists. So, face the problem and just eliminate it forever.

You are the King and Queen of your world: Well, this is a bonus point. Just believe that you are the king and queen of your own world. To develop this habit, you have to

  1. Eat well and stay healthy. Do exercise every day. Remember, everything could be achieved only if you are fit physically.

  2. Treat yourself often. Smile often and buy some nice goodies to yourself.

  3. Call close friends and relatives often for simple tea parties or get together. When people meet, there is always smiles around. If you know someone is toxic, avoid them as much as you can.

  4. Do shopping. Know the latest fashion. If you don’t have money, do window shopping. Not to worry about buying actually. When you see a beautiful model posing on a magazine cover with wonderful clothes, imagine yourself in them and smile. Trust me, it works awesomely. After all, Happiness is one's perception.

  5. Involve yourself in sports clubs. Play outdoor games at least once a week. Sports are one of the greatest gifts for humans to get relaxed and stay fit and they help all the energy that has been weighing inside you and make you feel light...

  6. Last but not the least, live life as if you do not have a tomorrow. Do everything that you can do on one given day, legally of course...

Hope you all loved reading this, Yesterday I could not post anything but I wanna start this December by posting something positive as Dec is such a beautiful month... Thank you sponsors, ya'll are my Christmas :)

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Good subject . It makes me feel happy.. Really we have to do that

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2 years ago

Life changing motivation i really appreciate bro

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2 years ago

You can't be positive all the time. Sometimes you allow yourself to be sad too because that's how you really feel. However, you shouldn't let yourself get stuck in the situation because your life will be stagnant.

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2 years ago

Thank you so much for such motivational article! Brilliantly written.

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2 years ago

Thank you Vincy, glad you liked it

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2 years ago

Expect nothing, remove all negativity and make your own luck is my way

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2 years ago

yes 100% .. negative brings us nothing but sadness

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2 years ago

I love watching and reading motivational videos and articles. It gives me positives vibes. Good article thanks for sharing. I love the photo of you.

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2 years ago

Thank you Peter, you are so sweet and yes, keep watching them because knowingly or unknowingly, it will mold our brains into positivity

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2 years ago

I love that part. We should live as if the were not tomorrow. We should waste valuable time regretting about events of the past or worrying what the future would look like.

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2 years ago

If we forget tomorrow, then only we can live at the present :)

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2 years ago

This is very much motivational. I couldn't agree much more with all your words. We need to be positive in all our life. We are battling negativities that surround us and we don't want to be eaten by those. We are the kings and queens as you said, so we should rule ourselves correctly for prosperity.

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2 years ago

yes very true, everyone is fighting our own battles.. we don't need more negativity anymore

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2 years ago

Being positive is a state of mind in which we must work. It is said that to counteract one negative emotion we need 7 positives so it is better to focus on it, hehe. I know you don't celebrate Christmas but I wish you and your family a great month.

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2 years ago

Thank you for wishing and wishing you the best month too.. :))

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2 years ago

Negative thinking doesn't help at all it keeps diminishing our value and we should ball accept that the past is gone and it can not be changed

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2 years ago

This is good, I love the point of letting go of the negative past. That's a major destroyer of the future, when the negative past keep hurting and it wins, it's gonna pin you down in a spot. A mind filled with positivity is the most recommendable, because challenges will come and how you handles it is what matters.

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2 years ago

It's easy to advice to everyone that line "be positive always" but we know to ourselves that it's hard. But if we really want to move forward we have to really do that right OMG.

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2 years ago

perfectly said my sis, it is always easy to advise.. I wrote this post but when time comes, I be behaving anxious like heck

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2 years ago

It's good to be positive, but it doesn't always work out. Thinking positively and spending time with friends is always a joy.

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2 years ago

Yes, this post is abot trying becuse nothing can be achieved overnight :)

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2 years ago

"Stop Expecting too much" yup, that's what I've been telling to myself these days that has been my everyday words lol

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2 years ago

You reminded me to take care of myself Sis. I actually trying to do it but because of busy schedule I always forget about myself. My I accomplish it now:)

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2 years ago

I'm so glad sis, can't wait to see you treating yourself like a freaking queen that you already are

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2 years ago

Well said dear. We should focus and narrate our own fate. Then we have to analyse our faults to reframe it again. Such a positive article surely inspire a lot of people.

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2 years ago

Hayst how o wish i could manage myself to become positive. Thanks a lot with this very informative post ate

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2 years ago

Thanks a lot blackdoll... I'll try to be positive even though that's not really who I am... Much love...

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2 years ago

Wahhh! I wish can make myself as positive as the others knowing how negative I am. I mean I keep on looking for the outcome though I never tried to do it in the first place. My what if's that lead me to overthinking. Anyway, thank you for sharing I badly needs it.

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2 years ago

That is factual! Positivities cannever be compared with its opposite number - negativity. When we are positive, then we are duty bound to forgetting our problems and focusing on those things that give us joy rather than succumbing to our own wounds due to being or the feelings of being negative

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2 years ago

Oh you made my day after breading a motivated Article from you. Yes expectation always lead to distruction. Point to be noted.

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2 years ago

you are so sweet.. thank you

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2 years ago

That's right Dolly. There is no use crying over spilled milk. Even when we have problems,let us just smile at them and dont let them get into our nerves

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2 years ago

Your right, in this world full of negativities it's very important that we need to find positivity in things that we do and people we interact. Positivity is everywhere and it depends on a person if he or she will grab it or not. Another thing is negativity can devour our will to continue in life, sometimes it can lead to big trouble that involves our health and worse our life.

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2 years ago

Positivity is all about mindset. The way you position your thinking is the way you speak out.

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2 years ago

We need to speak positive things this new month and make sure we are persistent to reach success.

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