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Scolding Is Necessary And I Will Do It *You idiot, what do you think you are doing? Slacking another day in the name of rest and still feeling positive don't you have any shame! Is that how much serious you are about your life and goals? Ah, not again I'm out.* *Reply of 90% of teenagers when anyone tries this now. Scolding is not as bad as what we think it is or what we have heard about it. I had an impression that scolding mostly means degrading and overreacting but it's something else.* ***Scolding*** *most of the time puts people in places and makes them realize the real truth about life and their existence.* **Relationship Structure Of Scolding** *From kid to old age we all have someone to scold us or to say correct us. Like a toddler, a teenager, an adult has parents. Old age sometimes gets scolded by the young generation. There is a teacher and principal to scold you for your bad performance. There's a supervisor or boss to check up on your work report.* **An Exception** *See almost everyone has someone to scold but there's one profession that opts out of scolding as it completely removes the authority of any person over you. It's Entrepreneurship or when you are doing self-business all alone.* *Many teenagers, as well as adults, are now choosing this profession of becoming their own boss where they have all the freedom to do and work however they like. This profession gives you great power but leaves you in the vulnerable zone of no scolding.* *When you don't perform, make similar mistakes again and again, slack off, procrastinate, and don't give value to your profession while pursuing Entrepreneurship or self-business there's no boss or any person to look after or over you.* **The Most Targeted People** *This mostly happens with teenagers like me, we think that we have lots of responsibilities and task load but compared to adults who have families our pressure is still lesser than that. If they don't work or perform for even one hour their children may not be able to get their desired snack. But what about us, oh we just won't be able to enjoy a fancy meal. That's not known we have seen worst days than that, lol.* *And this is where the seriousness stops because the pressure is not too much. We do know we have to do a lot to secure a better future for our parents and for ourselves still we choose to ignore it. For adults either a wife, a husband or even the kids may scold them if they don't get their desired things. But for us, for now, there's no one to pry.* **Don't say we are young we should have fun. If you want a simple and mediocre life then do as you like but if you want to climb a class you have be serious and responsible and put extra effort than others.** **Random Realisation** *I just realized about those who are single and studying, badly need someone to correct their habits and mistakes and do whatever they can to straighten their bent tail, lol.* *I currently use myself as a* ***scolder****, you can see the example. Many times I humiliate myself in my mind or in the mirror. It's not completely effective when someone does this for you but it will keep you on track.* **Sponsor Of This Article:-**
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When you love someone , you correct them when they are wrong, but sometimes, they might see it as an oppression especially the elder- younger bro/sis relationship
Yeah, but the same people realise it later on it was necessary for them at that time.
That's true. At least it wasn't too tlate before they realized thier mistake
I feel like some teenagers do not like it when they are being advised by older people. They usually think that the ones who advise them hates them
But the reality is opposite, I realised this very even though it hurts but it works to put us in right track.
In life we need someone to correct us or notice our mistakes because sometimes we thought we are doing right because that's what we believe in until someone will make us realize that we are not. I am free for corrections as long as you do it in a way that you won't hurt me or insult me.
That's how people should be but seniors don't value much about others thinking so you have to work on that not to get hurt by their words.
Well you are right about that. But It does take a whole lot of introspection to realise that sometimes we do need to scold ourselves.
Yes, it just situations make it happen. You can't scold yourself everytime and feel it, it depends on time and build-up.
Smiles.. I got scold today about using my drugs because I was trying to skip it after meal and to be honest, the truth is always bitter. I also had a good laugh when you said you stood back up like the undertaker.. I can understand well because I'm always a WWE watcher
Haha, the deadman was a legendary performer in WWE.
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Scolding, I do this a lot, most teenagers need this not to go astray, if you know how to scold issokay... Thanks for that article
A bit of strictness is needed in our life because many times we don't take seriously sweet words.
The biggest problem of teenagers is they think when someone give us advise means he/she is scolding me.That's the problem as i think.
Ah yes, some people don't like to hear even valuable advices from others, it's just that they think they know everything while they know nothing.
Scolding can hurt others sometimes but it also waking us to open our eyes to reality. It is like have a pros and cons..
Scolding has to be done in a strict way which can possibly hurt but those who take those words in a positive way even after getting hurt get back in track if they are lost in their path.
Scolding yeah sometimes hurt but when I think it deeply it's for our own benefit mostly kids like my sister's if mum scold her she usually think that mum is hating her andoves only me that's why she is always scolding only her, and sometimes if mum is making her understand the world or giving her advice or suggestions she thinks like mum is scolding her
She will understand it later on, the value of those strict words. Until an unless people don't experience it themselves they don't take it seriously.
I am for scolding. It is a reminder to everyone that we are doing something wrong and that it needs to be righted. In this generation of sensitive people, it's a shame that many don't like to be corrected.
Yes, true and I don't think scolding without acting strict works at all.
Yes as a teacher, I scold my pupils too. Especially, when they do something bad. Bad actions should not be tolerated, in a young age, they must know how to act properly and practice good manners. They will become good people in the community if they are already aware of it.
A teacher most probably knows the best value of scolding, because I still remember their harsh words which were actually meaningful words.
That is true. Teachers may have a very sharp tongue but they are careful. Be careful not to hurt the feelings of the learners, instead get lessons from what they did wrong.