Extremely Challenged By Irony And Toxicity of Life

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Are you extremely challenged by irony and toxicity of life?

In a world full of irony and toxicity the best thing to do is to keep a strong fighting spirit to combat self weaknesses while maintaining a pure and humble heart just like the precious ornamental plants around you which continually conquer the toxic external factors of life.

Life is truly very ironic with the presence of dramas, bad news, and negativity yet through feeding your mind with the best foods, one could have a chance to be closer to an attraction toward a brighter possibility in embracing a perfectly imperfect life along with a taste of bitterness and sweetness.

"Despite the sweetness of life, it is both ironic and toxic."

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Life back then was really very hard yet I did not give up.

I always define life being ironic and toxic due to my past experiences yet life would always be the best for me and I felt so blessed in so many ways mysteriously despite a very hard life. I may not be successful in all things but I would always be grateful for all that I have now. As I wake up every day, I am always thanking the Almighty Father for the following:

  • Being able to savor a wonderful life despite growing up with a little of everything; and

  • For giving me the knowledge and wisdom to fulfill things with the right attitude.

I grew up in a world full of competition while savoring the goodness of life. Not to brag but I am so loud and proud to express that I am not born with a silver spoon yet through the irony and toxicity of life, I was deeply challenged to finish my studies up to the highest educational attainment not to mention a degree holder of a post graduate studies at a very young age with flying colors through numerous scholarships but I am always keeping my feet on the ground. And that I always think that everyone around me are equally fair and good in all aspects of life.

As I recall the moments before I had gloriously embraced my success in education which is to finish up to the highest educational degree and position, I must say that life back then was really very hard. Since I was young, pressures and anxieties are truly attacking my path side-by-side, aside from the fact that I have to make good of my life or else I would simply die very poor and I would always live a very hard life. Life back then was really so hard yet I did not give up and I ended up following my dreams.

Remembering my childhood days, I could still recall the moments that my father had to work hard just to sustain a very hard life with a very low wage while my mother had to take care for us. If not because of the scholarships possibly I would not finish all levels. Although we only had a little in life, my parents had always put a high value on education. I finished my elementary education at an early age because I was accelerated and I happily graduated being the top one in class, with commendable honors as the class valedictorian, and availed a scholarship in a private school. If not because of my hardwork and determination to reach for my targets in life, I greatly believed that I would not be enrolled in a private school because my parents are not financially capacitated and could not afford to send me in an institution with high tuition fees so I would always end up studying where there would be a free education to all.

I passed the bitterness of life until I graduated in high school with a scholarship to a prestigious University where I also earned a lot of benefits for my studies. I graduated in College with flying colors and enrolled to both graduate studies and completely finished my post graduate studies degree gloriously. Though I am not very blessed with a very comfortable and high status of life in the society when I was young, it did not hinder me to pursue for my ambitions and dreams. If I did not strive hard in life, I would not taste a comfortable life as better as my life back then.

I may be successful now in my own definition of success at a certain aspect which is to graciously finish all levels of education, yet I could not deny the fact that I was extremely challenged by both irony and toxicity of life. While I was very busy building up for my own empire, I experienced being bullied and misjudged by self-centered and selfish souls who were not as successful as the real definition of success and ended up playing tricky games in life. I often cried and stumbled down due to internal and external factors but I used them as both an inspiration and motivation to win a very difficult life.

How ironic life may be even when all your purpose is to keep a positive spirit yet people around you would always test your patience and goodness. People around you would always test you in every aspect they would like to and not everyone would be happy of your achievements. Even if I only had a little in my existence, people were always chasing for negativity and toxicity toward my peaceful life. I was quite affected both physically and emotionally but as time went by, the trying times had tested my great faith and beliefs. I did not give up and little by little I continued diving for my life because I greatly believe that no one would do that for me and as always my wisdom and positive mindset would always save me in everything I do.

One of my philosophies in life is to stay humble and kind to others even if others are not. Despite the irony and toxicity that I have experienced since I was young, I maintained a strong fighting spirit and kept a humble heart. My life back then was truly full of competitions even if I am just being neutral in life as others were threatened to compete with me even if my only goal was just to finish my studies to land a good job in the future because I do not want to die poor. To be born poor by chance is very fine yet to do nothing in life would make you poor. For as long as life remains one must strive hard to win a very hard life. Just like me I know you have been going through a very diificult battle in life. I know you were weakly strong while continually moving forward in life. And I know that you had also learned from your best experiences from the past. Move on and keep your gracious feet to be alive and kicking.

Perhaps I am not rich nor the richest but somehow I was able to move forward a little step of a bitter life in the past. And now, I am happily tasting the sweetness of life despite the storms of my existence. Through my experiences I gained a bolder and more resilient self to fight against difficult life battles and trying times. I may be extremely challenged by irony and toxicity of life but without those I would not learn to be strong as life goes on and on and most of all, I would not grasp the best and precious moments of life.

Like me, I know you have been going through very difficult battles in your existence, too. Just keep calm and feed your mind with the best foods ever while keeping a strong fighting spirit.

Feed your mind with the best foods

Despite the irony and toxicity of life, always embody a brighter life as you feed your mind with the best foods such as discipline, positivity, and dreams. Just like how eating nutritious foods and supplements have greatly increased your physical growth and development, feeding your mind with the best foods ever could actually help you become what you ever desired and wanted in life without worrying of any cost for any forms of positivity and targets for yourself are all for free and that no one could take those things away from you.

Sooner or later these would become your legacy bringing big smiles to your bitter sweet life. Just keep calm and feed your mind with the best foods ever such as positivity, discipline, and dreams and never ever bounce back with a wrong move to anyone. Most importantly, stay humble at all times by keeping your feet on the ground no matter what you are now and where you are today in the world of fame and victory.

"Never ever bounce back with any forms of negativity when you are extremely challenged by irony and toxicity of life yet always feed your mind with the best foods ever to sustain your growth and development."

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Disclaimer: No part of this article is used to advertise nor commercialize and it falls under the guidelines of fair use. All photos are mine and were taken by me. All contents were purely based on my personal experiences, personal thoughts, and personal opinions. This humble article is mainly intended for entertainment purposes only.

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Excellent article definitely a friend..you always write a amazing article my kind fellow

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I was reading your post but I was just impressed with the plants, are they yours? They are beautiful. I love all plants but cacti and succulents exert a very great love on me. Well, I see myself in your mirror too, I had a very hard life but in the beginning I let myself be carried away by the criticism and envy of my surroundings. Then I learned and I am happy with what life has taught me.

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Yes my dear friend, gertru they are actually mine. By the way, grateful of your attention in leaving a reply in here. To be honest, I could really feel the emotions of your words because I could relate so much about your life. The moment you become successful in any endeavor, people would truly start throwing stones at you. I cannot deny the fact that there were really times I got so weak and even cried a river but I accepted life as it is and go on with my life without letting others dominate me. What matters more in life is how you treat others fairly despite toxicity. And the more you stay down to Earth, for sure you would be blessed more in life in so many ways you would just be surprise and would never thought you would achieve.

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Actually I had wanted to stop by earlier because I saw that you had gone through a post of mine, but then I don't know why I got sidetracked and didn't get to your post, until today. And I am happy for the beautiful plants. I went through all those city survival trials many years ago. Toxic people, friends who are not, deceit, betrayals, but all stages overcome to this day. I live with a lot of peace, I love my plants, I share on the platforms and I am thankful for the loyal friends I have. A hug for you and success in your life.

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awww such an inspiring story of yours my dear friend, Gertu. Much love.

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A very inspiring one, we should never let toxicity and irony envelopes ourself, I agree to you madam! We should always fed up our minds and soul a positivity that helps our growth and development.

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let us move forward with positivity, always and forever. grateful to you my dear friend sky

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Rough roads leads to beautiful destinations@Talecharm . I'm happy for you ,you didn't give up

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Your story has given me a new lesson that you have fought hard in the past. It is difficult to study in private institutions because educations is expensive here. But your parents supported you in difficult times. I'm trying to stand on my own two feet. I'm glad my friend is strong.

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I am more than glad of knowing someone as kind as you my dear friend, Tila.

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You too Tale, I am also happy to meet a compassionate friend. Thanks a lot!

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My gosh, this is so nice, my dear friend. I knew you were something. You are right, finishing studies really changes lives. The people in the networking business will tell you otherwise. I was born poor because my parents chose to, my mom made the wrong decisions, I had chances of going to the best schools despite them being public. But I didn't want to blame my parents anymore. I had the drive to finish school. I paused reaching for my dreams when I had my second baby and I wanna pursue them soon. I don't wanna die poor, really.

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I so agree with you my dear friend, jas. Being poor may be an option if you are already aware of your situation. I love to hear those stories from you and I know your baby is a blessing that would motivate you to do more.

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Yes, my friend. I want to give them a more comfortable life, something my parents haven't given us.

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Such a inspiring story. Your parents are blessed to have a smart daughter like you. You manage to fight for your own dreams. Nothing is Impossible to an Eager Heart.

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Forever grateful to The Almighty Father for All glory and Honor belongs to Him Forever. You are very much appreciated my dear friend, Jam and thankful of your time.

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Thank you too. Not everyone smart can maintain a humble heart. So thank you Talecharm for always having a humble heart. May Almighty bless you always ❀

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Each parent wants his kids grow and shine like stars but some times unfortunately didn't work due to negativity , neglence , society and friendship. We must keep space in mind and heart to adopt the positivity.

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Positivity is truly the key yo success. Grateful for leaving your wise words in here my dear friend, Amjad.

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Dear, you ok? Felt like you are having some issues. Can I help?

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I am very fine my dear friend, Luci and thankful of your kind gestures.

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I learned something from your articles, as always there is something lesson that your article has. Thank You CharmπŸ’•

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Lessons in life would always bring optimism to us my dear friend, MoonTrader.

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I can always find some kind of inspirtion from all your posts.. What a terrific writing dear and as a person who live with toxic people around, I can relate to the pointers here

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Aww I did not expect that beautiful impression from you, my dear friend, blackdoll. You are so loved and very much appreciated.

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Against all odds, you have grown and achieved a lot of things. Never stopping any step of the way, or letting the trials deter you from achieving what you want. I say a big congratulations, and more power to your elbow πŸ’ͺ🏿

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That is so heartwarming my dear friend, Aimure. Grateful of tour compliments.

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That's a another important article, I am so excited that everyday I keep learning different things from your article, this word "extremely challenge by irony and toxicity of life" has really affected so many lives and unfortunately it's defeated those who have no strong determination to stand their ground in life, those who only accept what life brings to them without knowing their main reason of living. Thanks so friend.

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Your words are truly encouraging and vert motivating to write more. Grateful of your positive feedbacks my dear friend, Defrank.

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Every parent wants a bright future for their child because most parents go through their difficult moments and they do not want their child to face the same difficult moments as them. You are right that we should overcome our weaknesses and move towards success. I find some motivational speech in this article. Thank you buddy. πŸ™‚

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You are most welcome my dear friend, Seik and thankful as well for reading the article. Yes you are right. Parents would always want brighter future for their children and I am glad to have it.

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Actually I joined here today so forgive all my mistakes, buddy. And Please explain to me the correct one.πŸ™‚

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Your story always inspires me whenever I read it. You are truly a success in your own right and you're someone worth looking up to

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awww This is just me my dear friend Daria. I am happy to hear that you are inspired.

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Such a wonderful day for me to here for a beautiful and amazing photography by you , Honestly speaking you are really appreciating and creative person and I'm happy to see that type of beauty And today another topic another level of happiness story Today h get some more word for my next text and today again picking up more word on Daily basis

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Same to you my dear friend Abdul. I am wishing you all the best and may you grow more in love and faith.

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Yeah yesterday i was a facing same problem. I have anxiety and depression. This is because, of COVID 19 lockdowns and lack of exercise. Sometimes we think that, without a person you are incomplete but that time we always thinking over. Dear you need to do some excersize and visit open places. insha'Allah you would feel comfortable.

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Thankful of your advices my dear friend, Rehmat.

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You are most welcome my friend 😊

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Wow another inspiring story. Such a beautiful life story you have my friend. I can relate coz i really feel you. That's how my life before just like you my friend but because of perseverance and hard works. My life has change. Change into better one. We are so blessed that we were not born with a silver spoon that's why we strive harder and it's worth it my friend.

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Awww you have a very inspiring story too my friend. Grateful of your attention.

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I'm touch with your inspiring story my friend. It makes me realized how Strong Iam to surpass all those toxicity in life.

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Keep calm and stay strong my dear friend, Septamber. Much love

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Yey thank you my friend.😘😘 Same to you my friend. More blessings to usπŸ˜‡πŸ˜‡πŸ˜‡

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A lot of us are being pulled with toxicity and irony in life. We must fight for that and make ourself steadfast when ever we encounter those negativities.

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Just Say no to negativity and embrace positivity in life.

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