A successful mindset
I will start by saying that most successful people are the classes of people that do not take no for an answer, the see everything as possiblities, they believe that there's always a way out in every situation they might actually fine themselves in, a man mind with a successful mind set will do all it's takes to see that he's never left behind, he would really like asking questions pertaining to what he is about to achieve in life, and they are all deligent in whatever they might fine their self doing, it's said show me a man who is deligent in his work then I will show who will stand before the queens and kings, why there will stand before the kings and queens is that they are worthy in thier performance.
The successful mindset of people are the classes of people who are really with strong determination, and this set of people never allow negative thought to pry-occupied thier mind in a given situation, strong determination is actually the act of someone letting his mind role with a good thoughts because it is what you have in the inner mind that is controlling the outermost part, of course you can really see it with me what happens to you be it negative or positive are the result of your mindset it is what you have already accepted it to be. Because your thoughts and feelings about yourself and what you are able to do or cannot, becomes the sum total result of a lifetime of experience and conditioning and it's usually have a little relationship to what is truly possible for you.
Adding to that through my research I have notice that repositioning and transforming of the mind to be taking a very good action in a given reaction will truly excel you above others and it is discovered that most human are so lazy and that is the only psychology you need to know to become successful.
A successful mindset is always a winner in the sense that they don't see excuse as the reason of thier failure,when it comes to confidence humility and respect they have it, and they are always living a grateful life by showing appreciation to people and God.
The mind consist of three levels which is the preconscious, the concious and the unconscious mind.
The preconscious mind
The preconscious mind which means prior to consciousness is the mind which memories can also be recalled through the concious mind it is really from the concious mind it is consist of the things that is also coming out from the concious mind
The concious mind
The conscious mind which is awareness and it's also help to observe things, it's also control our conscience towards when we are right or wrong, it contains all of the thoughts, memories, feelings, and wishes of which we are aware at any given moments. This also includes our memory, which is not always part of consciousness but can be easily be brought into awareness. This mind can only hold one thought at a time which is either positive or negative.
The unconscious mind
The unconscious is the mind that can easily perform without conscious control, without no awareness, it's has contents that are unacceptable or unpleasant, such as feelings of pains and anxiety, unconscious mind is a reservoir of feelings, thoughts, urges, and memories that are outside of our conscious awareness.
Someone with a successful mindset always comes up with such mind for a reason, he has some many reasons that causes him to take what ever risk that will show up, and his reasons is always the very strongest one, he just decides to do it through the strong determination that he has allowed to pre-occupied his mindset, a successful mindset is a person with a success thought because it's happen that anything you dwells upon grows in your reality, anything you think about long enough and hard enough becomes part of your mental challenge and problems.
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Beauty without a good attitude
Let me rightly start by saying beauty without a good attitude doesn't really make sense because it seems to unbalance equation through my life experience and depending on what we all know and understand about the sentence, in some few decades we really see that beauty has destory so many things in our world and it is because of this same beauty without a good attitude that we have so many single mothers and fathers in the world because we go after the beautiful girls and handsome guys not knowing if the attitude in inside is beautiful or handsome also, so when they both settle down together for marriage they end up divorce because that's not really what they all expected from each other.
I don’t really think that everyone in the world nowadays are going after a beautiful face , though some do go but out of the hundred percent 100% ninety percent 90% are not, but it is literally the first thing many of them see that you don’t see is attitude the same way you see the face. Attitude is everything and is something you experience afterwards, and there’s often little way of telling before that. You could be the finest face, the most awful one, or either of the two with whichever faces.
Beauty and handsomness can easily be seeing from someone through the outer look and also attitude can be reflect on outer but the real attitude is in the inner you discover all when you're close to the person, attitude can not easily be detected just like beauty is done, before one detect some one with a good attitude he has to study the person by spending good a time to understand which type of the attitude the person have or whether he has it at all, and based in my opinion and my little time experience I have discover that attitude adds not just only beauty but it's add beauty and value to a girl and a guy. Mostly if a girl have a good attitude, you will find out that she won't be easily overlooked as well as taken for granted. People will value her because she has what makes her a complete and virtue woman.
**Does every beautiful girl have an attitude?**
The answer here is yes they do have attitude but it depends on the type of attitude they all have, the attitude I am talking about here is a choice, it's said that people who do best in life are those who realize that they have power to choose thier attitudes, just as they have to choose their clothing, thier food, and thier cars. We are of types is either you choose bad attitude it's your choice or good attitude is also your choice but no body lacks the both is either you're alive or death.
Meaning of attitude and thier types
The words attitude which refers to an individual’s mental state, which is based on his/her beliefs or value system, emotions, and the tendency to act in a given situation. a person attitude is been reflects on the person's thought and feelings it is also seeing as our everyday response to people, places, It can be referred to as a person’s point of view, mindset, and beliefs. We also have different types of attitude which is positive, negative and neutral.
Positive attitude
I would rightly refer this type of attitude to a good attitude because people who is with a positive attitude will pay attention to the good, rather than bad in people's situations and conditions, They see thier failure as an opportunity to achieve success they are so confident, so optimistic, sincere, flexible, reliable they have strong determination, they are reliable they are ever ready to tolerate anything that comes thier way, they are humble, they are willing adapt situation of all kind.
Negative attitude
This is a bad attitude because People with negative attitude usually hate the wise cancelling they ignore the good and pay attention to the bad in people situations, they are likely to complain they have hatred in them , they are easily to get anger , they are full of so much doubt in thier mind, and because of such reaction they like been frustrated in life.
Neutral attitude
The neutral attitude is also bad that's why I tittle it with such name , I would rightly said that people with this type of attitude don’t give enough importance to situations or events. They ignore the problem, leaving it for someone else to handle it. They have feeling of being disconnected, they are also unemotional.
Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder
I believe we all know the phrase though it's sounds some how but it’s definitely true that beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder, it not all the people that sees you that will admire your beauty but some will do. And the day they approach and they get accepted you will realize how they will be madly in love because they have finally locates the beauty that thier eyes sees and what thier heart admired.
Beauty can take the princess to the palace but is her attitude that will determine how long she will stay
This is another beautiful phrase I use to tell alot, it's true that beauty can take you to a place where you never expect but it is your attitude that will determine if you will stay or if you will leave, attitude can keep, promote you far longer in a place than beauty, beauty will quickly sales you out but it is your attitude that will determine your price worth.
Everyone one like a beautiful thing, everyone loves a beautiful woman there's no mother that wouldn't love to born a beautiful child, no father that would rightly love to brought up an urgly child but what would really make a beautiful girl or a boy what they are, finally goes down to thier attitude.
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Fear can kill faster than a bullet
Fear been an uncontrollable emotions or I should say a selfish emotions can simply kill faster than a bullet, from my research I noticed that fear kills faster than a bullet in the sense that before the bullet even touches you or before the tricker is been pull out you're even dieing inside, the fact is that it lives in us and the only thing we have to do about it is to learn how to overcome it or else it will definitely damage all the good dreams we ought to achieve we would not be able to achieve it because we have allowed fear to rule us instead of us ruling our fear.
I can rightly recall when I was a little boy of seven years there about, I definitely experience fear of so many things then I was appointed to Iead the children's choir song presentation and when I got up on stage ended up I disgracing my self by letting fear to overwhelmed me so I ended mixing up the song lyrics and if not for the good choir director I had that told boy you have to overcome and rule your fear instead of letting it rule you. As I grew up, I realize this fear has grown on me taking different forms. Now all I do is learning to overcome my fear, and as a child, I always wondered how some people would just perform on stage without any fear but I realize they all have this fear inside them, but the only thing they do is that they know how to overcome it. Fear that always occur in my childhood stage was that I allowed so many thoughts to occupied my mind, things like what if I goes wrong, what if I can’t satisfy the expectations of my choir director or that of the audience at this point I would think of something like, I was taught not to do this not to do that, and with this I was also contributing to the fear that weigh me down.
I just realize that everything that happen to me happen just because of how I was brought up, I am rightly bold to say that I was brought up with fear because during my young age my father would come up with something like if you fail in this exams, if you fail in this test, if you fail in this or that then I cannot tell people that you have failed that would be shameful because I cannot rise up a failure, so with this I ended up not trying a lot of things because I fear of failure anything success didn't come to my mind. So I wouldn't advice parents to come up with such strategy with their children.
Why fear kill faster than bullet?
If you can really see it with me you will agree that fear kills more faster than bullet because if someone said he will shoot you the first thing that would come to your mind is fear mostly I know so many who died from gunshot died from the shock.
At times people do survive form bullet because it doesn't always instantly kill, its the kinetic energy that is transferred to the body, which create a cavity. In a body hit, this means surrounding organs and tissue can be destory or get damaged. But when it's come to the head hit, it has the same effect, but it's affecting brain tissue much. That is more likely to cause death, but not always.
Fear being a selfish emotion is said to be ninty percent 90% of our fear exist and the remaining ten percent 10% is overwhelming and everything we need is on other hand side of fear, fear comes with some basic type.
The basic types of fear
The fear of failure
The fear of rejection
The fear of poverty
The fear of ill health
The fear of old age
The fear of death
Let me try to say something about two basic types of fear that mostly affect in today's life
Fear of poverty
Fear of poverty is the basic type of fear that people would do anything thing possible to get their selves out of it because people really see poverty as the worst enemy and some describe that poverty is a sin, poverty can definitely reduce a man to nothing in life and that is why when it comes to poverty people would do everything in their power to not fall into one.
Fear of failure
Fear of failure can also be title as fear of the unknown, this fear put most people in poverty because people rightly think of the failure rather than succeeding, I would always said it's the two word (success and failure), is either you succeed or you fail, this has make much people not to take any step in life because every new opportunity that they see they will think of the failure instead of trying forgetting that success comes out from failing.
Fear can easily kill faster than bullet this fear is real and usually based on thousands of years of evolution, so I will end up by saying learn to overcome your fear, face your fear don't let it rule over your life acknowledging, facing and dealing with your fears matters alot to you.
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No one has everything and one also lacks everything
Through out my life time experience and through what I have seen with my very own eyes without any body telling me I noticed that no one really has everything and no also lacks everything, through out my research I have realise that no one on this planet earth has everything and no one also lacks everything, I can quickly remember what happened during my school days when one of the most prominent man's duagther that everyone knows the father capability ran out of something and the worst fact is that she was so feel with pride she was seeing her self like the queen since she was the parent's only child so I think that's why they pampered her by allowing pride to take over her completely.
I mean she was so arrogant that some of her girl's friend were not close to her cause she didn't even know how to maintian friends talk alot of keep good ones she chased every one that goes around her just because she was early expose to wealth and that makes her feel she has everything or that she has no problem, but one precious day during exams times she ran of ink to write and with her pride she wanted to get it from the canteen but to her greatest surprise the teacher didn't permit her to go out rather she asked her to get a pen from her friends after the exam she can get it, hmmm everyway was silent like grave yard because they know the type of a girl she is, and she could not even open her mouth to ask for it cause she knew no one will offer her even the cover talk alot of giving her pen so with her pride she could not even tell the teacher what was going on all she did was she silently walked down to her sit and sat without writing the exams but since then she has really learnt a lesson from that knowing no one has everything in life.
The poor have something and the rich also have something the poor lacks something and the rich also lacks some certain things, I wouldn't be in a position of arguing a dream with the poor both the rich have dreams is that the poor a dreamt and they could not achieve it and the rich man had it also and achieved to some extent not all, also I can't be in a place of arguing a blind man's dream cause I know even they can't see they are still dreaming.
There's this saying I likely used to tell people, a poor man is never a man who lacks money but a poor man is someone who doesn't have vision, we might have the vision but we don't have finance, we might have the finance but we don't have a good vision and ideas, the rich man might have money but he's still seeking for advice from the poor why because he lacks some certain knowledge in some certain areas.
It is impossible to lack everything
It's not possible to lack everything in life, it is inevitable to lack everything if we say we lack everything except we are totally death because the poorest man on earth is still breathing which means he has life and he still remains a living being, we all have strengths, we all have dreams, we all have ideas cause we are wonderful and fearful made, though we still have the desire to have everything but I don't really believe we can have everything in life, come to think about this keep bothering me, they are most beautiful girl and handsome guys in the world some are beautiful without money and some are handsome still without money and I really talk to my self that this is not balance cause they are urgly people with real money but not handsome just seeing that no one lacks everything. Mostly we the young people we are always looking forward to strive harder, to move further to take the world to the next level, yes we will do our best part and leave the rest for nature to handle it.
It is not also possible to have everything
Come to think about it's not just possible to have everything in life if such happen I believe there will be no struggling in life anymore and that is why there's no person in this world that has everything. Those who are wealthy who see money as nothing in the other side they lacks something, they might have much money yet they have worries, taxes, they sometimes get disappointed by friends still with their money false friendships or spouses. Everyone in life has worries. Some people are beautiful, talented, and rich, but lack family and friends, or are unable to have children, or aggressive or cheating in relationship, that is just life no one can really predict it correctly it's too short no one can really figure out when it will end. but with this try to show love as much as you can, make yourself happy by so doing you definitely feel like you're close to having everything
Life is short. Really it is. You never know when it will end. Try to do the things that make you happy while you are here. Love as much as you can, give as long as you can. That's how you can, feel like you are close to everything.
Though you might really think that some people are so lucky to have everything, they are beautiful or they are handsome the see money as nothing, they have authority to excerise power, they have fame, intelligence, health, and all have you. But if you go deeply in research you will know that it is impossible to have everything in life. Not only the word used that we as human are never satisfied, but we are not meant to have everything in this life. But we definitely can have a feeling of having everything or be alittle closer to having some but not all.
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No one lives without any problem
Some few days that I have been on the platform I have learnt some important things I have read and listen to different writer's telling thier different stories then I know that there is no one in existence without any problem but the fact is that they didn't allow the problems to weigh them down rather the they were able to come up with a strong determination and say no to thier challenge, by facing the viccisitude of life and keep passing all manner of examination that life brings to them and by so doing the more they passed the exams the more they keep striving higher and higher.
life doesn't really works out the way we wanted or planned it to be problems keep visiting us unexpectedly every nights and days of our lives without giving us any notification or taking permission from us, until you see that problem is a vital necessity you will eventually don't like to face it when ever it comes your way, I know no one would want to be a friend to problem but there is no way to escape from it, it is different people with different challenges and difficultiess.
Much of life isn’t fair.
It’s how you live that matters.
It’s how you deal with your
today that determined your
tomorrow.
Life is not drawn in a straight line as it is in graph is today's reality and tomorrow an illusion there are some people that if they want to narrate thier own story you will even leave your own part of your story and pity them and i really notice that because of this, most people have fallen into domination by the ego-mind. Without problems, we’d be in risk of completely forgetting ourselves, forgetting who we really are. We’d be as oblivious to reality as a person who is drunk, upset or stoned at times life keeps us off balance by alternately giving us what we want and what we don’t want. It keeps us moving forward. This is not the way we’re ultimately meant to live, but it is our lot until we free ourselves of domination by the ego-mind.
How life without problems would be affected.
Life without problems will affect so many because if one is able to live life without any problem then, this world will not equally balance because since no body has a problem know will find any reason to work, no one will strive harder in life, no will come up with nice a idea or plan, no one will have a good desire or strong determination, no one will think out of the boxes because there's nothing that bothers them and I don't believe that we would enjoy much things we enjoying today and if at all the world will even be up to this stage that we are today and no one will even have reasons to work for someone and in this case thetr will be no food stuff in the market, no banking services, no taxi on the streets all because we have no problems and so no one will be willing to work for another.
And moreover a life without problems preferably would be just like a blank script, which has nothing to read or story to narrate, problems generally exist to shape our view of the world, and if you really see it with me and also believe in the duality concept, it will be easier to see that the only reason we live a happy life is attributed to problems, the more problems we solve in our daily life, the better joy and happiness we feel at the end of the day.
No one can escape from problems except the death ones.
No one can really escape from problems except the death ones, both the young and the old, men and women, boys and girls face thier own different challenges, I also realize that In everything, there are always two sides positive and negative it cannot be only positive, there can be difficulties or problems too, that is what makes what is and there is nothing we can do about it. However, it is preferable to look at the problems that occur in our lives from the other angle.
Problems help us to get mature in different perspective and it also prepare us to life and as we all know life is not just a zero-sum game, whether we like it or not, there will always be some problems in our lives, so it is important not to give up, but instead solve the problems and kick yourself higher.
Every happy and wealthy people have thier own problems and challenges, what keeps them happy is they know the secret, they know how to deal with their problems every day by day.
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