I do not know if you have seen Cher's inteview where she is talking about men, her love life, her relationships, and why are her relationships always successful.
In thet interview she said that men are not a necessity, they are luxury, just like desert. In the same inerview she said that she likes man, that they are great, but she just od not need them.
She was always choosing her partners because she liked them, not because she needed them. That is why her relationships were good.
Now, I would love to talk a lil bit about luxury called 'men'.
Many women still think that purpose of their lives is to be someone's wife. And, that is just not true. You are amazing, even if you are single. You do not need husband to be good. You do not have to get married. You can be single with no kids, you can be a single motther, you can be divorced mother, you do not even have to ever get married to have kids.
Of course, it is great to find love of your life, to spend rest of your life with him, but, you do not have to.
Or maybe, you have?
In case that you do not have your own job, your own home, and that you are not a strong, independent woman, you will have to find someone. But, in case that you are not independent, you need to prepare yourself to be very quiet in relationship that is a necessity for you. If you are with someone, because he is rich,because you are living in his home, and you do not want to work, you can not complain about anything.
He will break up with you, if you complain, if you try to change him...
Cher said in the same interview about men that her mother once asked her, why does not she settle down and marry a rich man, and Cher replied that she is a rich man.
She does not need a rich man, she can pay her own bills, she can buy a luxury home, fast car, expensive clothes...
Instead of trying to marry a rich man, give your best ot make a rich woman out of yourself. If you can not become rich, become independent,you can become independent, every single woman can! Every single woman owe to herself to be independent.
Once, you are independent, once you do not need a man, and when I say independent I do not mean only in financial way, you have to have your friends, job, your things, home, once you feel free, you can find someone who will be always there for you, and who will be perfect for you.
Good relationships will be a luxury, just like a new Chanel bag that you bought two days ago, just like chocolate cake that you have eaten yesterday, just like the golden bracelet that you bought last month, just like a trip to Hawai that you had last year...
Just like all those expensive, luxury things that you liked, and that you wanted, but you did not need.
You will survive without expensive car, or shoes. You will also survive without a man.
Do not let the Hollywood movies fool you that you are a half, and that you need to find your other half. You are whole, and if you find true love that is great, and if you do not find true love that is also great.
You are great, life is great!
It is amazing to be in a relationship, but it is also great to be single. You do not have to have a partner all the time. SOmetimes it is good to be alone, to be single. When you are single, choose your next partner carefully.
It is much better to be alone, than to be with someone who is not good for you!
I agree with timsee that it is better to be alone than to be with someone who is not good for you, who is not deserves your love ... But I believe that in this world, everyone has their soul mate somewhere, and that they will come sometime if not already ...