Date: August 20, 2021
Author: SequoiaA warrior never stop, they will take a break but will never give up.
The moment that I've entered the world of adulthood and experienced the cruelty of this world, everything have changed as well as my perspective in life. It's true, the only constant thing in this world is the word "change". However, it is up to you on how you are going to deal and face this challenging thing we called "life".
Surviving in this chaotic world is never easy. The people around you aren't just your enemy. Well, maybe at some point they can be counted as one. But do you know who really your enemy is?
Please have a look in the mirror and you will see that person looking back at you and will imitate everything you do.
Maybe you are already raising your eyebrows to me right now. Of course, we were always told that our greatest supporter and bestfriend was ourselves. And I actually agree in that. Anyhow, we can't also deny the truth that we can also be ourselves greatest enemy if we don't know how to handle this little demons residing inside of us.
We have different roles and responsibilities to attend in our individual lives. Some of us were put into those positions because we have no choice. Some were force to do and some just took the responsibility wholeheartedly. Regardless of the reason behind that, the only thing that I am sure about is that, we are all striving hard in this life because we have goals and dreams to achieve.
Anyways, I've gone too far already. What I am trying to highlight is that no matter who you are and what you do. Please remember that you are always worth it and nothing can take that away from you.
Your heart may feel so heavy right now because of too much discouragement. But I am telling you that it will never last. Of course if you won't allow it.
This is an encouragement to all of yo here who plays one or more than two roles in lives. Actually, it has the same thought from @FarmGirl 's article entitled You're a Badass.
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To you...
Who think less of yourself
I am sorry. I am sorry if you have to feel that thing. If you will only see how amazing you are and know that a lot of people were admiring your kind and selfless heart. You are not less, in fact you are more. A lot of people look up to you and made you as their living inspiration to do well and be more in life. Don't waste your time to the people who never appreciates you. You don't deserve them, you deserve better.
Who constantly work hard to provide
You are doing great my dear. I salute you. Those sweats and sleepless nights will soon be paid off. I know you are tired already, and I am not forbidding you to take a rest. You deserve that and all the best things in life. However, please don't be too hard to yourself. Treat and pamper yourself sometimes. I just want you to know that we appreciate you. All the things you've done for the people you love will never go to waste.
Who think you aren't beautiful
I don't know who make you feel this way but the heck with that person. If they can't see your beauty then I guess they need to see their opthamologist. You are a goddess and that isn't just all about your physical aspect, but mostly your inner beauty. Please don't try to change yourself just because of other people. You are perfectly fine just the way you are. The right people will always look at you with an admiration in their eyes, and if they didn't see you that way, then they don't deserve to be in your world. You don't need man's validation. Never.
Who forgot your dream for the sake of other people
Hats off to you. Not everyone can do that. Thank you for being selfless. Thank you for that heart of yours. You are rare and the people around you are so lucky to have you in their lives. However, please spare some love for yourself also. I know, helping other people is what fulfills your heart. But I want you to give importance to yourself also. Anyhow, good job awesome. You are one of a kind.
Who constantly go unnoticed
First of all, I would just like to clarify that you never go unnoticed. There are people out there who saw everything you've done and deep in their hearts, they wish to have someone like you in their lives. However, I know that what matters to you the most where the attention from the people you love. Unfortunately, they fail to see your efforts. Or that's what you just thought. The real thing is that, they do noticed everything you've done. It's just that they don't know how to express their gratefulness to you. Anyways, please don't stop doing the things you love because all of it will bear fruit in the future. You may feel buried right now, but the reality is you were planted. And things that were planted will always grow.
Who felt like there's no hope anymore
There will always be hope. As long as the sun is still shining. As long as you are still breathing. As long as you still got the chance to witness the wonderful creation of the Lord. There is always hope.
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Closing Thought
I just want to appreciate and encourage everyone through this article and I hope that it didn't go to waste. Life maybe tough sometimes, but there's a lot of things we can be grateful for. Please spare some time to appreciate and give value to the people around you. We never know what other have gone through in their lives. Please always try to greet them with kindness.
beb thank you for this sniff sniff love you!