10 Seconds Rule

Ayyy gusto ko ang 10 seconds rule na yan. Fair enough if you can't do something to fix it then shut up nlng talaga. Ako hindi masyado mapuna kaso sa work I can't stop a colleague from judging someone. Minsan nkakairita na rin pakinggan :(

'Rules where created to maintain the harmony within a society or even just in a classroom' everything that needs to be spoken or head must have gone through processing because they can never be undone. Just stay out of the person's business and that will do. The slightest ever mistake to utter a bad statement can be costly.

Nevermind of other's people think... It is more relevant if you mind your own business than be pressured of what others perception about you. Otherwise, you don't ask from them to feed you.. don't try to please everyone.. just focus on your way straight.. Eliminate those insecurities and learn to love them.. hahahah

Hello Miss Sequoia. I think this article is destined for me to read. I too am guilty of judging other people. That was when the time I haven't undergone some realizations and was so immature to laugh about the differences of other people.

I have walked out from that path a long time ago. I appreciated and respect others. I have lived freely and lightly.

Just recently, my classmate in high school came back from Manila. I was so happy to see her again but it melted right away, when she said, "What happen to you? You're so fat! You look ugly now that you're fat haha. Please do exercise." I was just called ugly for being fat. Little did she know that she called fat and ugly has PCOS. People really could be scum for being insensitive and with all their tactlessness. This is what I get from getting out of the judgmental era.

Sa true. Kapag ako kasi bago ko punahin yung mali, mistakes, or mga napapansin ko isang tao, pinagiisipan ko muna talaga ng mabuti if sasabihin ko ba o hindi..minsan nag aalinlangan pa nga ako baka kasi mamaya ako mapasama diba? Yung pag nagmamabuting loob kalang sana, pero iisipin ng iba na namamahiya ako ganon. If ever naman nakakahiya or baka mapahiya yung tao mas pipiliin ko nalang din na ibulong sakanila para hindi mapansin ng iba ganon.

Pero kapag sila naman may napansin sakin sige lang sila ng sige. Pupunahin nila lahat lahat at gagawin talaga lahat mapahiya or mahila lang ako pababa. 🙂

Hayyy agree kayko ani. People tend to judge right away without considering how things should be done and all. Basta maka judge lang okay na ay. But hoping for a good change. This 10 seconds rule can help gyud.

I should apply this 10 second rule and inform others about this too to correct unwanted behavior. We should learn what, and when to comment or give our opinions. We don't know what might be the impact of it to others.

True madam. This is so timely and relevant. Medjo natawa ako sa morning glory pero totoo yun, kung di maayos agad2, wag mo ng sabihin. Di ka rin naman perfect eh at tsaka before mo nasabi yan, alam na nila sa sarili nila. Pero minsan mahirap din magsabi eh. I remember one of my classmates may B.O talaga sya as in mabaho talaga pero di ko masabi kasi baka nga ikasama ng loob nya.

What a srictful article! This 10sec rule must be followed. Specifically for the strangers.

It is better to remain silent before offending others for things that they are not to blame for having in their body. People have this attitude of criticizing those who are with small details in their bodies and we do not see the great defect that we have in our mind.

Think before you speak, since you know you are not perfect too. That is the words I'm telling myself when I am about to judge someone

minsan ako prangka ako pag kilala ko nang lubos ang kaharap ko..pero minsan iniisip ko rin muna yung sasabihin ko kung pormal ba or hindi pero minsan talaga nagiging natural nalang sakin

Sobrang relate po ako dito, minsan kase sinasabi ko mga matagal kong di nakita "anyare sayo bakit naging--- mga negative po yung napupuna ko..ewan ko po kung nasasaktan sila kase sumasabay naman sila..thank u for this I'll bear in mind po .

People are used to prying on people's lives. That's just sad.

Don't pressure yourself of thinking about others view. Especially those people who never knew you well. Otherwise, you don't ask from them to feed you.. don't try to please everyone.. just focus on your way straight.. Eliminate those insecurities and learn to love them.. learn to live according to your purpose not others thing.It is more relevant if you mind your own business than be pressured of what others perception about you.

Ako, sa sobra sigurong kaba or what pag nagkaharap kamo ng kakilala ko after a year ang lagi kong nasasabi, "aba ang taba mo na ah" I mean, mataba din naman ako kaso wala talaga akong masabi. Parang nabablanko baga ang utak ko yawit huehuw. Pero madalang pa sa patak ng ulan mangyari yan kaya di rin ako gaanong namumuns or what. Shut up nalamg nga me huehue.

Ngayon ko lng nalaman to ah. . need tlga natn to bago mag throw ng words.. Coz we can't undo the words we have spoken..and the consequences might just ruin something.

Nabasa ko na tong 10 seconds rule sa fb and people should know about this. Kung di naman kaya ayusin sa loob ng 10 seconds wag nalang sana ipoint out. Kung maraming pimple yung isang tao pabayaan nalang sana nila kase kapag pinansin pa nila and tell the person about her pimples ehh nagiging dahilan lang ng pagbaba ng self-esteem niya.

Yung mga bumabati sayo na, oy tumaba/pumayat ka ah. Kailangan nila nitong 10 seconds rule.

Ang usual na sinasabi nila ang taba mo ngayon, hindi nila alam masyado silang nakakapanakit.... hehe ewan ko bakit ganun, aminin man natin o hindi nagiging judgemental din tayo...hehe..

Gusto ko yan sis, 10 seconds rule. People are basically judgmental, myself included. But I am aware about it and now very mindful of my words.☺

hahhha parang inborn na ata sa atin yun naghahanap ng mapag uusapan hehhe..though wag nman yun umabot sa maging super judgemental na at ginagawan na ng kwento

You just made what I am about to write as one of my Article, I mean exactly as this is. Maybe we have the same brain. I think I should wait for a week or month before publishing mine like this so I wouldn't look like someone who's copying someone's work.

Nothing and no one can escape from the eyes of judgmental people and medler.

kahit manahmik ka, kahit dimo sila pansinin. dika parin makakatakas sa mat nila. diko maintindihan bakit ganyan ung iba, pero karma bahala sa mga taong judgemental masyado

Nailed it, sis. Same as pointing in comments if you commit grammar errors. Sometimes ppl have no common sense. Ooops.

Hahahahaha reminds us to be extra careful in pointing out the flaws of other people. Tama, hinay hinay lang!