All Of Us Have Four Faces:
We have four faces
One which we show to world
Second which we show to our friends
Third which our family members see
And fourth which only we know
FACE WE SHOW TO WORLD:
This face is 25% of our real face. we have our first face which we show to the world. It has those expressions that are only on our face when we deal with the people that are not so close to our like our office collegeus, our classfellows , university fellows or the people which we meet by chance in the whole day. This face is artificial we have to hide what is in our mind and heart. We have to show only that part which we want the world to know beside this all the other expressions are artificial and not real one like for example If I am going through a very difficult face of my life and I cry whole nights but if I have a presentation at my School, college or university I am not going to show any sorrow on my face . I have to try my best to look good , satisfied and have smiley face. See how we don't know whats other's people state of mind. This world is Artificial.
THE FACE WHICH WE SHOW TO OUR FRIENDS:
This face is 50% of our original face. As we say we share most of our life with our friends but in my opinion it is not that so. We share happiness, sorrow but not all. Sometimes in school or in college life the friendship is till school or college gate. Except our one or two best friends we don't share our personal life with them. We hide us , sometimes our feelings , emotions , hardships we are facing. We don't show them our original us.
FACE THAT OUR FAMILY SEE:
This is 75% of our original face. Family is someone to whom we share 90% of every matter as family is what with whom we spend most of our time. Our family know us very well as compared to people outside. They can understand our feelings and emotions very well. Our family can predict whats going on from our face as they are familiar of our mood. If we are happy they can understand and if we are sad they can understand as well.
Like talking about my Mama , she just looks at me and can tell me whats going on in my mind even though if I just call her like Mama ! From my voice she can understand whether I'm happy or not. Also the same is thing when I sit down with papa on dining table ; after his first gaze he would ask me Is everything alright ? But beyond this all we still have a face with them which hides alot from them, sometimes its not the PRIVACY but we just not want to make them sad or unhappy from the bad situations we are facing.
FACE THAT WE KNOW ONLY:
This is the original 100% face of our soul. After the whole day work, we come to our room and we turn off the lights. After laying on our couch we think of the whole day. In that late night hours when no one is there except us , we and our soul discusses the whole day in our mind. This face is the real and authentic one. When at that time we look into the mirror, our face reflects reality of the whole day. Our eyes the main representative of our face tells us truth. Now we come to know what we are going through.
Oh ! I remember ... I remember times I cried the whole nights of fear. I cried of fear , I cries to myself . I discussed everything with myself , I shared happiness ; I smiled. I laughed but also I wept telling myself Its hard! I can't bear. It made me strong. Yes! I hugged myself . I took control of myself. Its okay! You are strong.
Believe me ! Instead of sharing Sometime talking to our soul makes you feel so so comfortable and it makes you stronger and stronger. Talking to your soul is like putting ointments on your own wounds.
So, friends talk to our original face . Discuss with it. Calm yourself. Its the only therapy to heal your wounds!
Good Night
Regards
Rafflesia.
You're right The way my best friend knows me is not the way outsiders see me. And the way my best friend sees me is not the way my family sees me. Our face to each people depends on our closeness. Also, for the fact that you know all about yourself alone, you have a different face for yourself