Love isn’t based on how many butterfly your stomach had (or if there is at all). Love shouldn’t based how beautiful and handsome the person is nor the way they dress. Love shouldn’t about just money and expensive things. Sometimes love is all about who stays with you during your ups and down. Who holds your hand when you sail in the wild ocean. Who sit beside you watching how beautiful the sunset is and wishing to have you in his arm when the another day come. It may not be always happiness nor fun co’z true love will experience catastrophe and there’s someone who never behind.
I have this question, “Why do people tend to cheat? Is it because of lust or love?
Temptation is always there and it’s up to us if we allow it to destroy what we have or just choose to ignore. You might hear a lot of news about breaking up that includes third parties. That information always leaves me hanging. Why do they do such a thing? When in the first place they already have that special one (or do they really feel that way?). I’m not judging here nor hitting someone, it's just that I want to know the truth. How about you, have you ever cheated? What if it feels like to say “I love you” to your special someone yet you have a side chick/dude? Have you tried looking in his/her eyes and thinking of what you did? Do you regret it?
The more questions, the more it intrigue the whole out of me. Some says, men (not all) find another woman just because of lust, is it enough reason for them to do so? They also said that when a woman cheat they are finding the love that their partners didn’t give. Is it? Really? Different person, different reason but whatever it is, cheating will never be right. You might do that just because you wanted your partners attention or simply wanted a revenge. But bare in mind that the sin he/she did will never be heal by another sin. If a person always choose to be faithful then maybe just maybe we can’t experience how painful it is to be cheated. I just can’t understand why they have to choose this new person over the person they knew for how many years. I don’t understand why they have to do it mutinous, if they don’t already have the feeling why not tell the other one so he/she won’t expect more from you. I don’t understand how brave they are facing their partner while giving some motives to another party. I just simply don’t understand why cheat? Why they have to and does it make you a man/woman? Let’s say, you can be the center of your friends topic, then of course you act like you are proud and this circle of friends just allow you to do so. Then I’ll tell you, you are in the wrong place or you are wrong in everything. That doesn’t give you more that a real man/women have. That’s actually made you less. You should be ashamed not proud. You should be regretting not laughing.
If bad karma hits you then all I can say is “Good for you”(TAGAM!), you deserve it. Just a piece of advice if you do the cheating thing and you never change, “Wait for your turn then you can feel what you did to them”.
Anyway, when it comes to cheating I feel like I indeed relate to it. If you asked me if I ever cheated? Then I’ll tell you prankly, no and I never will. I have been cheated and I already experienced how traumatic it is, I don’t want someone to experience what I experienced. Besides, it’s not me nor my type.
How about you, would you dare committing such an act when you already know the consequence? Does it make you happy?
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I never did cheating as I hates cheater's and so I would never do cheating. Your questions are also mine as I really don't understand why do they have to do cheating,. But anyway it's their choice so bahala na sila😂