This week even though has been wonderful, it has been one of those stressful days for me from Monday to Wednesday. One thing I will never miss doing is praising God for being alive till now. Another colleague of mine was involved in an accident again last week and his legs were stitched. He is also my matric number mate. I know him very well. Though he is doing fine and we were told to contribute for him which will be used for his medical bills.
It all started by waking up at 4am daily, preparing myself and getting ready for class. Though the lectures were super interesting for me.
An assignment was given to us to compare and contrast an Anglophone country to a Francophone country in reference to History, Administration, Finance and Education. The biggest part is typing it and must be 20 sheets (A4 paper). The lecturer even emphasized it to be 20 sheets and not pages. Everyone exclaimed because we all know she won't read them but it's like an attendance for us. When I calculated the bill, it is exactly $4. Since it is an elective course, many people started withdrawing from it because of the assignment involved.
Some, with the reason that it is an history course and can't risk their last semester for it. I smiled hearing that. No matter what is involved, I am going for it.
I got home yesterday in the afternoon weak. Everything I was doing were like forcing myself even though I slept off while making noise. I woke up after an hour to do other things. Which I prepared my dinner later in the evening and that was when I had little energy in me to work. Well, I did the ones I could do especially writing my Challenge post on Hive.
I did the challenge in the Wednesdaywalk Challenge. Most of us would know about it. It's a challenge for you to step out and take a picture or two and talk about them. I took a lot of pictures for the challenge.
These are just few pictures. If you are interested reading the challenge, here is the link "A Beautiful Wednesday"
Have I ranted so much? Lol
Okay, lets interact and I will be reading your own views about this short clip I watched on my WhatsApp status that required people giving their comments.
WHAT WILL YOU DO?
A man called Tunde was having meeting at his place of work with other staff. His wife walked in not minding who others were and started yelling at Tunde her husband. She said;
"So, is it because of this lady you refused to attend to me?. You left me for this one" pointing at the woman seated but wasn't saying anything.
Then Tunde cut her off and said "she is the regional manager of the company and they were having a meeting then"
The wife was dumbfounded and started begging the boss which happen to be Tunde's boss at work.
Now, the questions goes like this;
If you were Tunde, what will you do?
If you were the regional manager, what will you do?
I read different comments. Some were saying "If I were to be the regional manager, I would sack Tunde"
Another said "If I am Tunde, I will divorce my wife"
I laughed while reading many comments in their own perspective.
Now, let me come in with mine and I would also want your views too. Ignore my ranting and let's focus on this particular one 😁
There have been many cases of marriage that couples do not get along after some misunderstandings have ensued between them. Instead of settling the matter amicably, they rather ignore and live on with their lives not talking to each other under the same roof.
In every relationship, it should be an open one where you will be free to talk to your partner about everything going on with you. Carry your partner along so they don't feel insecure in anyway.
Tunde might be wrong and I would blame him because he might not tell his wife he would be having a meeting at his office. He might have been having an extra marital affair outside his home which has made his wife suspect him and was waiting to catch him red-handed. No matter what may be the case, he should have settled whatsoever he is having with his wife and I don't think divorcing his wife should be the next thing here as people say.
We all know ourselves as women. We aren't ready to listen to anything before being judgemental. Many women would feel insecure especially noticing their husband's recent moves for some days. I read @Gaftekloriginal article yesterday and it was a joke about a woman who asked her daughter to call her dad to know of his whereabout as she was restless of him not returning early as usual. The daughter came and said to her mom that a lady picked the call. Hearing this, everything about her changed. Who dare shares her husband? Who was her husband going out with? Different thoughts in her little but wild mind then. Not knowing the lady her daughter thought it to be was the network provider saying "this line you are trying to reach is unavailable at the moment"
If not for the help of a neighbor, the matter would have escalated to something else. It's in our nature as women, we are jealous.
So, I wouldn't blame the wife here at all. She might have been calling her husband and not picking it and concluded to visit him at his office perhaps Tunde hasn't been home for a while.
Now, let's talk about the regional manager, what will she do? Well, in my own view, I would rather sack Tunde. If he wasn't able to control his home and put things in order, I don't think he is fit for a job like that. She should understand the wife because she is also a woman too. She should know how the wife felt at that moment especially her home being in disarray.
I think this is my own view. Now, over to my audience 😅 Let's learn together. @Olasquare you must talk oo 🧐
You are our relationship adviser here and I do love how you talk things like this. It shows truly that you have many experiences to back your words up to make them fact and understandable. Infact, you are wonderful in this aspect.
Thanks for reading and I await your beautiful responses.
Lead Image captured by me.
|November 25, 2021|
To me, if I happen to be the regional manager, I would not try to sack Tunde. Though everyone has up and down, some people are in the area of marriage, but I will give him a strict warning and threaten him with a sack.