The Laws in Relationship

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I am really grateful for all your comments on my post yesterday. I will be continuing from where I stopped by discussing the laws in a relationship. Laws are rules that must be obeyed and adhered to. Like they say "where there is no law, there is no sin". Same thing is in there for a relationship. When there is law binding a relationship and you are strictly adhering and conforming to it, everything would be peaceful and there won't be issue or trouble from any of the partners.


LAW OF INITIATION

Just like I said yesterday that God is the initiator of marriages and relationships. We need to believe that, because a home without God ordering it, would be nothing. When God initiates a beautiful home, He will help you through because you made Him a priority in your home. The Bible say a prudent wife comes from the Lord. Prov 19:14

LAW OF LOVE

Couples need to exercise this law very strongly because without love, there will not be unity in the home. God has loved us and will continue to love us which is why He sent Jesus to us. As a man, you ought to love your wife so heartedly and same thing with the wife. Love is stronger they say.

LAW OF TOLERANCE

When you are living with someone in the home, you need to tolerate each other. Tolerance means Forbearance. My sister used to tell me something that when you know the principle of someone you are living with and you can cope with it, then everything would seem alright and smooth. There are some things the wife would do, the man needs to tolerate it and vice versa. There are some things couples need to overlook which are unnecessary just to make peace reign. Having the act of tolerance between both partners would go a long way saving the home from chaos.

LAW OF SACRIFICE

Do you know what Sacrifice means? Doing what you know could hurt you so badly but you choose to do it or going your way into doing something that could be uncomfortable for you. There cannot be a relationship if there is no sacrifice in it even God sacrificed His son and we also need to sacrifice things for ourselves.

As couples, you need to deprive yourself of some things so that each of you could have his or her way. As a wife, do not shout and say "am I not cooking for you? am I not doing my responsibility in this house? I deprive myself most times of things I needed to do on a norms just to make this relationship work" etc the husband too is sacrificing himself. Being in a relationship is a sacrifice.

LAW OF TRUST

This is the greatest of all in a relationship. Without trust, it won't work. Trust is like a foundation that keeps the home going. Partners should develop this value in them. You need to trust each other to avoid friction in the home. Trusting means not even thinking of the harm they will do to you because your mind isn't channeled to the bad thing they want to do. That is trust. This is what a home should be based on. When there is no trust, then you are allowing a third party between you.

LAW OF RESPECT AND HONOUR

I bet you, when you respect each other in the home, you will enjoy the moment forever. There should be respect and honor among you. Wife should honour and be submissive to her husband and accept his opinion in a polite and not rude way. Same goes with the husband loving and respecting his wife and accepting her for who she is.

LAW OF UNDERSTANDING

Understanding in a relationship takes time to build. When a wife needs privacy, the man should understand that for her to be able to get things right with her. If she wants you to be involved, she would call you. You don't have to force yourself on her. When a man needs time too, the wife should do the same. There would be an environment where both of you can then share whatever is going on within you as this creates a peaceful atmosphere. A man snores in the home, understand that! Not by hitting and pushing him thereby making him feel uncomfortable.


If a home must be organized, both partners should adhered to these laws or else, there would be disagreement.

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I was a bit late but you will never be forgotten on my list. :)

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3 years ago

Hehehe! It's alright ma. Thanks for stopping by 🤗

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3 years ago

If the foundation it's not built on love and trust, the relationship can crumble. It's not only men that snores, hahaha.

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3 years ago

😄😄😄 yes I know women too snores Thank you

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3 years ago

That's right, Princess. I believe there should he laws in a relationship so everything will fall into the right places. We don't want unhappy marriage so better make consensus that will make the relationship stronger. ☺️

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3 years ago

Yea, there should be consensus among partners. Thank you so much

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3 years ago

You've reflected the true gist points of ourself. Every point are so crucial for a decent life. I wish everyone should abide by your impactflul laws.

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3 years ago

Thank you so much

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3 years ago

Those Laws are of equal importance but let me stress on the trust since that's number one issue here in our country, lack of trust. Well, we can't blame those who don't trust because they're already been fooled by the person they trust with.

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3 years ago

You know when someone betrays yours trust on them, it is difficult to trust them back? Many relationships needs to work on the issue of trust because it is the foundation of all relationships.

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3 years ago

I always tell my friends that understanding is the key to making a relationship work

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3 years ago

Yes, that is it. Understanding is very important or else, I don't think it can work out fine.

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3 years ago

Mama is in the building... You are doing well. I believe understanding brings about a lot of things which makes us love and respect each other, make us want to sacrifice and communicate even more. You did absolute justice to this topic, dear.

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3 years ago

Understanding is the chief of all because when you truly understand each other, all other things would fall in place rightly. Thank you sir

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3 years ago

Thank you, Prof 😘😘

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3 years ago

All the things you have written about are important. And love is the basis of all of them.

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3 years ago

Love is the basis. Thank you so much

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3 years ago

Love, love ,love everywhere. I will gonna take note of all the laws you've just stated though I already know most of them, it's still serve as a refresher for me. Relationship needs laws love and trust are two important things for me. But the most important is that God being he center of it because he's the one that unite as all

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3 years ago

Correct! I love this. God being the center would sustain the relationship and make it work smoothly. Thank you for your input.

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3 years ago

Great principles that can keep a relationship going. Tolerance, love, trust and many more is what a relationship needs to stand firm. Any relationship that is deficient of these qualities may be heading for the rock.

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3 years ago

You are very right. Everyone in a relationship should remember these laws.

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3 years ago

Seriously if all this laws didn't stand relationship can't work out

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3 years ago

Naso! Thanks sis

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3 years ago

You are always welcome

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3 years ago

Actually you have touched them all but for me I don't believe I have to be subjected under some certain laws in relationship, I always believe in understanding each other very well before venturing into relationship it is just an agreement between both partners.

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3 years ago

Yes, Understanding each other will help you both. When you understand yourselves, the relationship would work perfectly.

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3 years ago

The Law of a relationship is a must. It's really important to build the relationship stronger. To be in a peaceful ways and it will going the relationship smoothly.

I agree with this princess. You're such a good writer. Thank you for this.❤️

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3 years ago

Everyone deserved long lasting relationship and if we are to conform to all these rules, things would be great. Thank you my friend.

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3 years ago

Yes princess you said it all. You're always welcome princess.❤️

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3 years ago

Indeed, it is very vital and essential to abide by these laws in order to have a smooth-sailing relationship. Everyone should read this for future references.

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3 years ago

Thank you for reading.

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3 years ago

Of all the above said things that ould make a marriage relationship work, i really like the law of tolerance as my best if i'm asked to choose which one that suits me and my reason for that is that we all need tolerance for anything we do or engage ourselves with others to work or grow with tume. It may not neccessarily be a relationship issue but in all things i must say

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3 years ago

Yes, we need to tolerate each other in all spheres of life and not only relationship among couples but generally.

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3 years ago

The Law of trust is one of the most important. It must be strictly adhered too for relationships to work.

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3 years ago

Exactly. Trust is important in relationship.

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3 years ago

If one follow all these laws, then the relationship will last long. Most of the relationships that get scattered or divorced is due to lack of understanding.

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3 years ago

You are right. When two people aren't agreeing on something or they aren't understanding themselves, relationship cannot work well.

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3 years ago

The one who started a new relationship I think he/she should gone through these laws. You perfectly explained every law and I am agree with those laws in every relationship we should obey all these laws especially the trust and understanding one.

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3 years ago

Thank you so much my friend.

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